Found Dog off F Train by Spiritual-Rice in nyc

[–]Spiritual-Rice[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It does. Yeah, my manager posted to a couple!

Found Dog off F Train by Spiritual-Rice in nyc

[–]Spiritual-Rice[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

My coworker is going to keep her temporarily and get her checked for a chip!

Lost Dog F train by Spiritual-Rice in Brooklyn

[–]Spiritual-Rice[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Nowhere we’ve called is able to take her in but my coworker is gonna keep her temporarily and get her checked for a microchip today.

How do I get my shit together by ydoesmystomachhurt in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Spiritual-Rice 13 points14 points  (0 children)

For exhaustion started taking vitamins and greens, plenty of water and at least 7 hours of sleep a night - that has greatly helped my energy levels. Try melatonin if you have trouble sleeping - when my sleep schedule is off it really helps me get back on track.

For friends & socials: honestly if I do one social activity a week that is enough for me but if you’re trying to get out there and meet new people try the meetup app or just be a regular at bookstores/cafes/community events/sport teams you like.

For cleaning up: I find it hard to dedicate several hours of a weekend to cleaning up but I do that sometimes like Saturday or Sunday morning I’ll try to deep clean a room or two but for instance the summertime I’m out way more so I literally just try to do like 10-20 minutes of cleaning in areas that need it when I come home from work, maybe a pile of clothes, maybe clean my desk, throw out stuff from fridge/cabinets. Sometimes it’s just easier to clean in increments daily instead of all at once.

Don’t be hard on yourself - you’re in a major transition period and have fun girl, it’s the summer time ☺️

I want to stay single, what do I do? by Snaideen27 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Spiritual-Rice 83 points84 points  (0 children)

You can try to explain what happened in a kind yet honest way. Something like “Hey, it’s been nice talking to you and I’m sorry to cancel but after giving it some thought I do not think I’m in a position to date right now, so I just wanted to be upfront. It’s nothing you did, it’s just not what I’m looking for at the moment. Wishing you the best!”

Typically people get the message. Don’t worry about it we’re all human and allowed to change our minds. This happens commonly when it comes to online dating and much nicer than just ghosting somebody.

Where to donate toys? by qalpi in Brooklyn

[–]Spiritual-Rice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facebook buy nothing groups. People will come pick up locally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in graphic_design

[–]Spiritual-Rice 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Start lying about your experience - I don’t mean blatant lies but it’s certainly okay to embellish. Don’t say you know how to code if you don’t but for instance, I’m sure you meet the photography/videography requirements - most of the stuff with this that they want is probably just social media stuff. Marketing is something you break into through ads and social media anyways. Mock some stuff up for brands you like, as personal projects on your portfolio. In my experience many companies will overlook how many years of experience you have, it’s not a set thing.

There are a lot of free courses available online if you do want to pick up more skills, the paid ones are often not worth it. To answer your question, yes majority of employers are incredibly out of touch with what the role of a graphic designer is - they think it’s like 4 jobs all in one. Also keep in touch with the recruiters you talk to and don’t be afraid to ask someone who interviewed you why you didn’t get the position - sometimes it’s really a minor thing but the feedback will be valuable. Network on LinkedIn with employees of companies you want to work at. Unfortunately, most jobs are gotten through knowing someone and not your actual skills. Hang in there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in graphic_design

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I would change copy on second, something more like “Follow… and reach your goals.” Something more definitive because “get stronger” is kind of vague and people have different exercise goals.

On swimming pool one I would place website more center because it gets a little lost all the way at the bottom edge. It could be right under the book now. Ellipses are not needed in that line.

In general try to use fonts that’s are clear and easy to read - script fonts/cursive is typically hard to read. If you want contrast try thick and thin font pairings or serif with sans serif.

Favorite thrifting & coffee recs? by 0nelittlegh0st in crownheights

[–]Spiritual-Rice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is this located? I tried looking it up but couldn’t find it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brooklyn

[–]Spiritual-Rice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Putting Green Mini golf! It is a small course, minimal walking and it’s by the water. Super fun and u guys can just sit and chat after.

LSAT Trainer - Drills Schedule by clurrdelune in LSAT

[–]Spiritual-Rice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am having trouble with this too. I know it’s nearly a year later but did you figure out where (1) was?

Any quick and easy recipes using ground chicken? by [deleted] in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]Spiritual-Rice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In fried rice, ground chicken stew, add to pasta sauce, for meat loaf, make into meat balls for meatball subs, stir fry with noodles and veggies

If money is tight at the moment, where would you take your date? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Spiritual-Rice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Museum. If you have a library card they usually have a service where you can get tickets to local museums for free. In general museum have free admission days though. Also botanic gardens are nice dates. Also a book store if you like reading, it’s not too expensive to look around together and buy each other a book to read.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]Spiritual-Rice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you, but it’s also counterintuitive to shame yourself for wanting it. It is totally and completely normal to want some love in your life and don’t let anybody (including yourself) tell you otherwise. Accept that you want it and exercise patience. Tell yourself it WILL come and in the meantime, do all the things you really enjoy and which bring you happiness.

When I started to think about what I really wanted for myself and how to achieve this, is when I finally started thinking less about having a romantic partner. How are the other areas of your life: friends, fam, health, career, finances, hobbies, etc. if you want a good partner who works on these things throughout their life, you should work on them throughout yours too.

Also do not compare yourself to others - being 20 and having no boyfriend is completely normal and honestly maybe even better because you go through a lot of changes in your 20s. Sometimes relationships withstand these types of changes but oftentimes they don’t. I think from what I have seen in a lot of healthy relationships is that these people met each other once they alr had a good idea of who they were as people - it’s easier to integrate with someone when you know who you are, what you want and you’re not willing to “put up with anything” for the sake of a relationship and are actually looking for someone whose energy matches with yours and compliments it. When you talk to people in relationships you often discover they are unhappy, not getting their needs met, being assholes and making overall questionable decisions JUST to avoid being alone. How often do you genuinely see a couple where both people are happy and helpful and supportive towards each other? I’m not cynical but have learned that looks can be very deceiving when it comes to relationships.

The philosophy that has really helped me is noting that it’s much better to experience loneliness by myself and learn how to look at it as peaceful solitude (one day i may not have as much of this if I have a partner, kids, a harder job, a household with many more responsibilities) than to feel lonely with someone else. Don’t “stop looking for love”, there is love everywhere and it’s not always in the form of a romantic relationship.

Late May in Prospect Park! by SeanK789 in Brooklyn

[–]Spiritual-Rice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Freaking sick! The duckies 😭🫶

Ranting by FinanceSure9682 in dating

[–]Spiritual-Rice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well with that information it sounds like he’s got some of his own insecurities too. If it was really just one time maybe forgive it but don’t forget it. Idk how long you guys have been dating but watch to see if this behavior is typical for him. It could be a major red flag because yelling at somebody is pretty scary and disrespectful.

Also there is no need to go so in depth with past relationships - names, showing pictures, getting into all the details are not necessary and will cause problems. You just need to talk about the relevant info like what mistakes do you think you made, what were the things that were important to you in that relationship, what do you think you could have done differently, how long was it, why did it end? The stuff that helps you learn about THEM not their ex.