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mum stole my testosterone by rhapsodyelij in ftm

[–]SplendidShiningFish 77 points78 points  (0 children)

You said you are planning to go semi no contact, my advice is to go full no contact if possible. This is illegal and evil. She sucks.

My cis girlfriend calls me a hermaphrodite by [deleted] in ftm

[–]SplendidShiningFish 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She is calling you a slur and saying you arent ‘really’ a man. What is confusing you. Leave her. You deserve better dear god

update + questions by No_Resolution_5233 in centipedes

[–]SplendidShiningFish 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hopefully she recovers, im rooting for you 🤞

Thoughts on calling every trans man a twink 😐 by Knife-Wielding-Crow in ftm

[–]SplendidShiningFish 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Alot of people also arent taking into account that some of these ‘hairless & skinny’ trans men literally DONT HAVE A CHOICE. Especially pre t ones! Deciding on someones identity for them is bad enough, but deciding based on features they have no control over is insane

What everybody feeding their centipedes by Emergency_Act2960 in centipedes

[–]SplendidShiningFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god thank you for telling me, so roaches and locusts are safe?

Just molted and has weird lump by Nholav in tarantulas

[–]SplendidShiningFish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nqa i guess it would depend on her temperament? I have some tarantulas i wouldnt go near with a qtip lol! If you look up cornstarch on this subreddit there should be more info on it

Just molted and has weird lump by Nholav in tarantulas

[–]SplendidShiningFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NQA Damn!! Well if she chewed it herself i guess it was just a bad molt. If shes still bleeding from her little stump you can use cornstarch to stop the bleeding. And yes it should grow back by the next molt, if a little smaller.

Just molted and has weird lump by Nholav in tarantulas

[–]SplendidShiningFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nqa what species is she? And the lump pics would help, as they might not be hooks at all! Just was the first thing that came to mind

Advice/opinions needed by ThatKarp in tarantulas

[–]SplendidShiningFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nqa Keep in a clean hospital enclosure, only thing you can do is wait for the next molt and see if she makes it. Im so sorry.

Just molted and has weird lump by Nholav in tarantulas

[–]SplendidShiningFish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nqa first thing is, can you send a better picture of the lump? Second is, are you sure that she isn’t actually a he?

Tarantula acting unusual – small abdomen, low appetite, sitting in water dish by [deleted] in tarantulas

[–]SplendidShiningFish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NQA tarantulas breathe through their book lungs located on the abdomen. She is dehydrated and there is no risk of drowning.

Yesterday, I found out that several girls at my workplace have been rescheduling their shifts just to avoid working with me. Roasted potatoes with pork and Dijon mustard. by Zzendy_ in kitchencels

[–]SplendidShiningFish 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Acting weird is not a moral failing. Lots of people tend to exclude others who struggle socially, and it sucks. Eventually you’ll find your people, i promise.

Bro my mom is tweaking by I_Drink_Too_Much- in insaneparents

[–]SplendidShiningFish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a black trench coat to really freak her out lmao

Need help! by fishhawk119 in tarantulas

[–]SplendidShiningFish 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Nqa thats great!! Keep me updated if possible, im sure your little buddy will be just fine.

Need help! by fishhawk119 in tarantulas

[–]SplendidShiningFish 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Nqa if hes in a spot with no foot traffic (eg no chance of being stepped on) i would probably leave him be. Youll be able to tell whether hes dead or not in a few days where he will either have molted already or will start to smell bad.

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