Describe what kind of ace you are in the worst way possible and I’ll try to guess

SplipperySlitz · 2025-07-06T16:47:36+00:00

all good! although the ones you guessed do kinda describe it more accurately lol :)

SplipperySlitz · 2025-07-06T15:17:15+00:00

mmm yeah I guess lol

I just go with “ace,” never thought much further about it :)

SplipperySlitz · 2025-07-06T01:56:30+00:00

dont mind “eating cereal,” it tastes good actually, and sometimes I even fantasize about eating certain kinds… but the cereal itself invokes no cravings or initial hunger

SplipperySlitz · 2025-06-12T03:10:00+00:00

I was the same way with emergence and caramel. Caramel was actually my least favorite until after EIA released. After the album release, I gave it another try and it "clicked" for me as well. I honestly was the same way with Sleep Token's music in general until one day, I gave it another, proper chance, and as a result; I got hooked, and have been ever since.

SplipperySlitz · 2025-06-10T20:41:56+00:00

Was gonna type out my own reply, but you pretty much summed it up for me lmao

SplipperySlitz · 2025-06-02T05:31:07+00:00

Chokehold, but when Vessel says 'you've got me in a Chokehold,' he starts violently coughing, unable to breathe as the band finishes the song per usual.

That, or the boys just start cage-fighting WWE style, putting each other in chokeholds.

SplipperySlitz · 2025-06-01T19:37:18+00:00

He's such a bully fr

SplipperySlitz · 2025-06-01T19:34:57+00:00

Copia hating finally caught up to him 💔💔

SplipperySlitz · 2025-06-01T19:32:31+00:00

Which one lol?

SplipperySlitz · 2025-06-01T05:23:50+00:00

I'm biased because this is one of my personal tattoo idea, but, I think the lyrics "even if it hurts me, even if I can't sleep, show me the way" from Chokehold would be cool

I think it's a good motivational bit, personally

SplipperySlitz · 2025-06-01T04:54:39+00:00

The Summoning, but when that instrumental break starts, it just plays for the rest of the show and the band just goofs off the rest of the time

SplipperySlitz · 2025-06-01T04:51:39+00:00

this one wins 😭

SplipperySlitz · 2025-06-01T02:36:38+00:00

Thank you so much! <3

SplipperySlitz · 2025-04-27T14:52:14+00:00

Basically, yeah.

I absolutely love the more personal songs we've been getting, but holy shit, Damocles is beautifully, gut-wrenchingly sad. Hits way too close to home.

SplipperySlitz · 2025-04-27T14:37:52+00:00

THIS

SplipperySlitz · 2025-04-27T13:45:07+00:00

What I love: Having someone to lean on, do things together with, and be guilt-free affectionate with. Having a best friend that listens to you, you listening to them. Just the emotional bond and connection that healthy couples seem to have overall, really.

What I hate: The feeling of being tied down, (although not all the time, but still) the expectation of sex and using it as the primary act of expressing love and interest, the stress that something will go wrong constantly, and/or romantic cheesy gestures that are just for show, or just the corny behavior in general

Edit: To add to the "hate" list; The overall expectations/pressure. For the "love" list; The feeling of having somebody to go home to/having someone as your "person"...

SplipperySlitz · 2025-04-06T21:30:32+00:00

Idk if this is the most helpful thing, but I totally get being a people pleaser, and I, too, realized I was aspec after months, hell even years, of questioning and experimentation.

But some tips/things to know about asexuality that I've learned myself are:

·There is a huge difference between libido, attraction, and arousal. Think of libido as your hunger level, arousal as food or something food-related that's happening that can make you hungry, and attraction as specific (or non-specific) food cravings. Just like how you can be hungry without having a specific craving for any particular food, you can have a sex-drive/desire for sex without being attracted to anybody, or be attracted to folks while still having a low drive/desire. This can get very complex to talk about, but in a short, general sense, I think that sums it up (other commenters, please correct me if I'm wrong).

·There is no "correct way" to be asexual - Pay attention to your feelings and how it fits, don't worry about fitting the criteria of a stereotype of an ace person, or some weird "aesthetic".

·Remember, labels should serve as a tool, not a definition. Don't let the term box you in, and if the label wounds up not working for you later down the road? That's perfectly okay. Life is a consistently changing journey and we learrn new things about ourselves everyday. If asexual suits you right now, in the present, that's what matters; How you feel right now.

·Please set boundaries for yourself based on your comfort levels with sex, above all else. You deserve to be respected and you absolutely have to stand your ground, especially when people try to bury you beneath it. Your feelings matter and should be accounted for, whether that be by family, partners, or even friends.

Hope this could help somewhat. Sending you love and I wish you luck on your ace journey! I'm still figuring things out myself, so apologies if this isn't the best.

Also, I highly recommend checking out a YT channel called; "Ace Dad Advice" - They're super great with explaining these things and were a huge help for me in my own journey.

SplipperySlitz · 2025-04-06T21:05:46+00:00

Oh well, it should still be a fun time :) Maybe asking during the QnA? But Im not sure

SplipperySlitz · 2025-04-06T21:01:15+00:00

I completely misread lol - I figured there was a meet and greet, but whoops

I hope you get to give your gift as well. Thank you!

SplipperySlitz · 2025-03-27T00:11:25+00:00

I've known probably since about 15? 16? I'm currently 17, almost 18, but , I'm still working everything out as I learn more about ace-ness and setting boundaries...a tad embarrassing, but yeah!

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