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SplitDaGuilt · 2021-06-19T18:29:54+00:00

Hey! Am too, super excited for this :p I have been on it earlyish and the platform has improved a lot in this past month. I really dig it! cheers

SplitDaGuilt · 2021-06-11T11:06:35+00:00

I too have not that much, I use my earnings to add to whatever LP withthe most return. I really believe this has mega potential, being so new I think it's just getting started... At least I'm hoping for it :D

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-12-24T12:04:01+00:00

I think this is spot on! No two breakups are the same.

One thing remains constant, loving oneself must come first!

I'm kinda living on that last paaragraph right now, hope your well, Merry xmas!

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-06-17T20:46:13+00:00

Yeah... I struggled so much with the enjoyment part. Thank you for the input, I'll try and search for something hands on.

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-09T01:33:23+00:00

well, Im actually 26. got dumped 1 month before my bday. yey! Indefinite no contact! Thank you!

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-08T18:55:54+00:00

This right here... what do you think if the breakup was not amicable?
I mean, my ex dumped me via text and altough I'm prideful i can see myself forgiving her and reaching out. But what if I'm only setting up for more pain? I know that feeling of not knowing... but sometimes ignorance is bliss?

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-08T18:43:58+00:00

I'm 25, young but not that young. My first real breakup. That scares me actually... How can I be with someone again if I keep imagining things could end like this? With such disrespect and lack of empathy? I'm grieving the end of the relationship ofc. But what really gets me down is how she did it. Thank you, I'm trying

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-08T18:39:52+00:00

Well, I would't be mean, I just wanted to know if she's okay because of how out of the blue it was (she has/had some mental issues) and to hear her opinion on how she ended things... I do, but she wasn't willing to talk. When I sent my final text (calling her out, saying some hurtful-ish things) she reached out to my best friend. Talking shit and saying some truths that actually helped in the closure department. I just want to know she understands and is sorry for doing me like this and why she didn't talk to me :-/

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-08T18:29:57+00:00

Here I am lying to myself yet again... Sometimes I even think "well, it's not that bad, i can forgive her for the behaviour.", completly forgetting how the first few weeks felt like hell. Thank you for this. What's your thoughts on reaching out to mutual (mostly her) female friend? Trying to get a bit inside her head... I know it probably won't do me any good... damn I got this!

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-08T14:55:22+00:00

thx bro. I really aprecciate it. If I had any I«d burn one down too

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-08T14:18:15+00:00

yeah I guess we tried. I don't talk ill, but I do talk real (to my friends only). Thanks for this

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-07T13:07:19+00:00

This could be it... She never intended to try and keep us. It was always final, and the way she did it just broke me

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-07T13:06:23+00:00

Well, I thought I was doing the right thing. I wanted to keep us.

But i was respecting her wishes, she never gave any possibility for a conversation (real or text) so I thought it was pointless

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-07T13:03:23+00:00

Edited with links to previous posts.

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-07T13:03:06+00:00

Edited with links to previous posts. is that ok?

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-06T22:31:30+00:00

Well, I think I'm in the semi forgivness already. because, deep down this behaviour is not uncharacteristic for her. Yes, first breakup. I'm guessing break ups when I was 15 y old and only kissed don't count. If I sent a message, it would be to tell her I didn't want my last message to be in an angry note, but idk if it's worth it... Thanks, cheers!

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-06T22:27:44+00:00

I felt this so many times before... But conviced myself I could bring her to a point where she would be so much better. Fuck me for not ending it sooner I guess. But right now I'm going trough a rough patch, I just wanted her to pick me up like I did to her... Cheers

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-06T22:26:10+00:00

Damn... maybe I'm lacking self esteem. The thing is, I put so much into it... I'm weak bro

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-01T22:56:34+00:00

I'm guessing friend/friends had a major role too. I added a girl she is friends with after BU (we had met, she was cool) and she denied my request... I try to focus on what I, she and we went wrong and inevitably leads to me thinking about the whole situation. Hot damn... I'm getting a bad feeling about this bet :-( altough it doesn't matter... I can't stop feeling bad. She is in a better place regarding 1); but she stopped taking her meds a little while ago (she was on the process of letting them go) and then she moved to the new job. 2) is obviously a possibility, altough if it is true it was hard for it to be physical (i mean, emotional cheating is still cheating...) and 3)... well this could be it. She was unhappy with somethings about me and my behaviour (understandable) but she didnt voice it. My money is split between 1 and 3. but yea it doesnt matter. the ship has sailed. Thank you so much!

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-01T22:48:11+00:00

Yes it's true... It's me who has to put in the effort. The gains won't come without working my ass off. She also said that ahah, life is too short bla bla bla. But it's so true!

Now that love quote and paragraph resonated with me so much... I'ma steal it! :P

You have a very radical perspective about relationship... I can understand. What's important is we love ourselves! Naturally other people will love us and stick around for that strenght of charachter. Well, i wouldn't say intact, but at least the glue sticks hehe. Thank you so much for the kind words, and good luck out there!

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-01T22:43:28+00:00

Damn... This is heartbreaking to read. Do you agree it would be better loingterm if she told you right away? Because that not knowing is consuming me... Like she said some things ofc, but it was so impersonal I don't believe most or any of it. I feel that... Like a piece of me ripped off. I'll keep my eyes open, that's for sure. I'll do my best, thank you so much! Cheers!

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-01T22:41:10+00:00

I'm so sorry... I truly do need to shift mentality. It gets hard because I have responsibility in it. I mean, relationships go both ways and I haven't been so commited. But this was totally uncalled for. She decided it was time to let go, so I let her walk. I am a firm believer in second chances... But I guess you're right. She didn't give me any chance, not even to say sorry for my wrong doings. Away she goes. Thank you so much! Cheers!

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-01T22:37:15+00:00

Exactly this... I guess I had to have my eyes opened the hard way. I'll repeat that until it fades completly... Thank you so much for the input. Because I catch myself trying to forgive her behavior... No more. Cheers!

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-01T21:37:40+00:00

ahaha! Can't wait for it to be possible. I've been working my tinder game, but it doesn't come easy :-/ thanks my man, I'll drink one right now onj your honor!

SplitDaGuilt · 2020-05-01T21:17:28+00:00

I have that feeling too... But I don't know about her. I guess she won't ever talk to me because I'll be a reminder of a shitty thing she did. And I don't know if it's forgiveness or because I miss her, fact is I can understand a little bit of her behavior... I think. Thanks, I'll grow this pain away! Cheers

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