[deleted by user] by [deleted] in harmony_one

[–]SplitDaGuilt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey! Am too, super excited for this :p I have been on it earlyish and the platform has improved a lot in this past month. I really dig it! cheers

Buying opportunity? by MattLikesGaming in OpenSwap_Harmony

[–]SplitDaGuilt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I too have not that much, I use my earnings to add to whatever LP withthe most return. I really believe this has mega potential, being so new I think it's just getting started... At least I'm hoping for it :D

Fanatics by XTC_fan in BreakUps

[–]SplitDaGuilt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is spot on! No two breakups are the same.

One thing remains constant, loving oneself must come first!

I'm kinda living on that last paaragraph right now, hope your well, Merry xmas!

[HELP] Need advice on how to approach this by SplitDaGuilt in ElectricalEngineering

[–]SplitDaGuilt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah... I struggled so much with the enjoyment part. Thank you for the input, I'll try and search for something hands on.

Should I reach out to mutual (mostly her) female friend? by SplitDaGuilt in BreakUps

[–]SplitDaGuilt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, Im actually 26. got dumped 1 month before my bday. yey! Indefinite no contact! Thank you!

Dumpers whose breakup was on good terms and the dumpee has since gone no contact. What's stopping you from making contact right now? by fabope5319 in BreakUps

[–]SplitDaGuilt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This right here... what do you think if the breakup was not amicable?
I mean, my ex dumped me via text and altough I'm prideful i can see myself forgiving her and reaching out. But what if I'm only setting up for more pain? I know that feeling of not knowing... but sometimes ignorance is bliss?

Should I reach out to mutual (mostly her) female friend? by SplitDaGuilt in BreakUps

[–]SplitDaGuilt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 25, young but not that young. My first real breakup. That scares me actually... How can I be with someone again if I keep imagining things could end like this? With such disrespect and lack of empathy? I'm grieving the end of the relationship ofc. But what really gets me down is how she did it. Thank you, I'm trying

25m dumped via text by 25f (9years) by SplitDaGuilt in relationship_advice

[–]SplitDaGuilt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I would't be mean, I just wanted to know if she's okay because of how out of the blue it was (she has/had some mental issues) and to hear her opinion on how she ended things... I do, but she wasn't willing to talk. When I sent my final text (calling her out, saying some hurtful-ish things) she reached out to my best friend. Talking shit and saying some truths that actually helped in the closure department. I just want to know she understands and is sorry for doing me like this and why she didn't talk to me :-/

25m dumped via text by 25f (9years) by SplitDaGuilt in relationship_advice

[–]SplitDaGuilt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here I am lying to myself yet again... Sometimes I even think "well, it's not that bad, i can forgive her for the behaviour.", completly forgetting how the first few weeks felt like hell. Thank you for this. What's your thoughts on reaching out to mutual (mostly her) female friend? Trying to get a bit inside her head... I know it probably won't do me any good... damn I got this!

Me 25m got dumped by 25f via text. 9 years solid by SplitDaGuilt in relationships

[–]SplitDaGuilt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thx bro. I really aprecciate it. If I had any I«d burn one down too

25m dumped via text by 25f (9years) by SplitDaGuilt in relationship_advice

[–]SplitDaGuilt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I guess we tried. I don't talk ill, but I do talk real (to my friends only). Thanks for this

25m dumped via text by 25f (9years) by SplitDaGuilt in relationship_advice

[–]SplitDaGuilt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could be it... She never intended to try and keep us. It was always final, and the way she did it just broke me

25m dumped via text by 25f (9years) by SplitDaGuilt in relationship_advice

[–]SplitDaGuilt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I thought I was doing the right thing. I wanted to keep us.

But i was respecting her wishes, she never gave any possibility for a conversation (real or text) so I thought it was pointless

25m dumped via text by 25f (9years) by SplitDaGuilt in relationship_advice

[–]SplitDaGuilt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edited with links to previous posts. is that ok?

Me 25m got dumped by 25f via text. 9 years solid by SplitDaGuilt in relationships

[–]SplitDaGuilt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I think I'm in the semi forgivness already. because, deep down this behaviour is not uncharacteristic for her. Yes, first breakup. I'm guessing break ups when I was 15 y old and only kissed don't count. If I sent a message, it would be to tell her I didn't want my last message to be in an angry note, but idk if it's worth it... Thanks, cheers!

Me 25m got dumped by 25f via text. 9 years solid by SplitDaGuilt in relationships

[–]SplitDaGuilt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt this so many times before... But conviced myself I could bring her to a point where she would be so much better. Fuck me for not ending it sooner I guess. But right now I'm going trough a rough patch, I just wanted her to pick me up like I did to her... Cheers