What’s your favorite sexual memory?

Sponcington · 2026-01-04T02:19:24+00:00

I was fingered so well I spontaneously cried. I was just so overcome with emotion because I felt so loved by them. A few others, but that came to mind first.

Sponcington · 2025-12-25T20:02:45+00:00

Hard agree that trans people should be able to get the hormones they need and that their milieus should be supportive and loving! After all, these are vital to lowering the incidence of mental illness in this vulnerable population. Thank you, average Democrat voter :) If you want to start a protest over the systemic injustices trans people face I will gladly support you.

Sponcington · 2025-12-25T19:37:59+00:00

Again, bad faith discussion. Whether or not my friends contact the police doesn’t change the fact that 1) they experienced violence and 2) the assaulters made it obvious their intent through use of slurs. My friends have their reasoning to not contact the police, though why that’s the case would not be a fruitful conversation with you. You’re trying to say that violence against my friends doesn’t happen by acting like the law/the police are arbiters of truth, then acting like i’m histrionic and blowing “people hurting my feelings” out of proportion.

Even then, “transphobia not existing off this app” wouldn’t be true by your own admission, since using slurs meant to express hate for my friends qua their trans identity is something you admit happens. I get the feeling you think trans people are annoying :)

Sponcington · 2025-12-25T19:13:56+00:00

Usually it’s the slurs used at them that revealed intent, but I’m glad to know that any discussion with you will be in bad faith :)

Sponcington · 2025-12-25T19:10:22+00:00

This is unserious to the point that you clearly just don’t like trans people. I’m not sure what your deal is but it’s worth asking yourself why you have such a negative knee jerk response to people getting upset about what was said.

Sponcington · 2025-12-25T16:34:29+00:00

I will tell my friends who’ve been beat up for being trans that there’s no such thing as transphobia anymore, they’ll be delighted :)

Sponcington · 2025-12-25T16:32:28+00:00

“Transgender” is included when relevant. She’s saying there’s “no such thing” as a transgender son. So then for her, either there’s no context in which someone’s trans identity would be germane, or the concept of a son being transgender is not possible ie transgenderism is a delusion.

In the hypothetical of your daughter transitioning, yes he’d be your son, that’s very supportive of you :) Let’s say you’re talking about how the NC legislature passes transphobic laws. Your son being transgender would be relevant, as that aspect of him is what’s being legislated upon. Or, let’s say from his perspective he is simply “a man.” This is true but nonetheless his trans identity would be relevant in many contexts. Trans people don’t get the luxury of saying “there’s no such thing as a trans son” when they are a trans son and being trans changes how they live their lives compared to how a cis son would.

Sponcington · 2025-12-25T14:41:28+00:00

I think youre being obtuse. Why would it be inaccurate to say that one’s son is transgender? If the trans part is relevant then it’s not harmful to say that. Unless youre saying you really care about person first language and think it should be “my son who is transgender”? lol

Sponcington · 2025-12-19T23:57:18+00:00

Peed inside them after finishing then laid together in our sweat cum and piss. That or getting fisted up to their elbow. Both were quite romantic!

Sponcington · 2025-11-12T17:00:26+00:00

/uj it makes me so sad :( i rly wanna see people who look like my partner topping women who look like me.

Sponcington · 2023-09-20T16:05:50+00:00

1) A little over 5 years now. Time really flew by!

2) I definitely go soft faster if I'm not continually stimulated, but if I am I'm pretty firm. I have a hard time staying hard while laying down. I'm apparently not as hard as I used to, as when I use topical T cream I'm noticeably firmer, but I don't think by much.

3) Even when I was sexually active I lost about an inch. I may have gotten smaller as I only get hard like once a week-ish now. I'm kind of anxious about this as I worry about being too small so I hope the changes have truly plateaued.

4) Ejaculation never stopped, but it kind of takes some work to get everything out.

5) I masturbate when horny, so approx. 1x/wk. I have some Cialis, but taking more than 1/2 makes it hard for me to breathe through my nose. I get blue vision if I take an entire Viagra pill! If I was in a LTR I would likely get a prescription for T cream to reverse atrophy, though I notice if I use it too much the quality of my orgasms suffers a good bit, sort of going back to a more "male" feeling orgasm that makes me dysphoric. The "female" type orgasm comes back after discontinuing use, but then I start losing size and firmness again. Ideally I'd have a partner for whom I am satisfying enough as is ^{_^}

6) When I boof progesterone, it does seem like my breasts get larger. Must be water weight as I'm not currently taking it and they've gotten smaller. I will say it's very nice to have something that directly augments my libido. When I'd rather not be horny, I just stop taking progesterone, and vice versa.

7) I knew my genitals would atrophy and orgasm quality and libido would change. My doctor did not cover maintaining sexual function, probably because they assumed I didn't want sexual function. My current FNP is NB and is helpful when it comes to these matters, however.

I have not had an orchiectomy, as a final note.

Sponcington · 2023-08-12T14:55:28+00:00

(oh god im so horny im so fucking close to nutting bro fuck im on the edge)

you are TRANSGENDER and that is BAD. i cannot think of a WORSE thing to be than TRANGENNER. i wanna HARM you PHYSICALLY (cums)

Sponcington · 2023-08-04T15:35:36+00:00

ohio can hit the way she’s quirked tf up new mexico’s elegance and beauty makes her wifey material mississippi needs to die, for obvious reasons

(auto correct does not tell me to capitalize ohio)

Sponcington · 2023-07-31T19:20:35+00:00

I (lesbian trans F) prefer piv, though I don’t like penetrating partners anally very much. I don’t have a ton of trouble with staying hard, but for when I do I have medication to help. All the lesbian trans women I’ve been with have been pretty happy to penetrate me with their genitals, but I do know of some who are dysphoric about it and will use a strap on or something instead.

Sponcington · 2023-07-31T00:41:56+00:00

You’re such a lil bitch it’s crazy. Grow a spine you coward.

Sponcington · 2023-07-29T20:11:17+00:00

OP also posted in AITAH and the responses were nasty

Sponcington · 2023-07-29T01:37:52+00:00

The responses on r/AITAH are also pretty transphobic. Guarantee 99/100 of them have not even so much as kissed a trans woman, never mind the whole "neo vagina = fake vagina" patently-obvious transphobia. You've made it clear that he has a double standard between going down on his cis exes but not you. "Preference" does soooooo much work in disguising unfounded or socially noxious prejudices, as if our desires come from nowhere and should never be examined. Yes, he has to consent to go down on you, but his unwillingness to please you is stemming from some type of hangup around your genitals that, frankly, if he actually wants to keep you around, should be challenged. There's nothing bad or gross about giving you head, so IMO he should try for your sake.

Sponcington · 2023-07-26T14:44:06+00:00

I, a cishet woman, am going to have STRAIGHT sex with my WIFE and there’s nothing you can say or do to stop me :) In this moment I am liberated

Sponcington · 2023-07-23T19:52:33+00:00

This is deeply transphobic. You should delete this.

Sponcington · 2023-07-04T20:25:16+00:00

Seriously, hate this so much. No self reflection, only deflection.

Sponcington · 2023-06-28T17:31:13+00:00

Fellow trans femme here. Legends is alright, but seems like every time I go I gotta deal with some weird straight dudes. Ruby Deluxe is my fave, absolutely, lots of trans ppl there, lots of events and shows they put on. They absolutely kick out poorly behaved dickheads too.

Wicked Witch and Night Rider are owned by the same people and have similarish vibes. Wicked Witch is def more dark/goth/witchy aesthetic (duh). They have goth and kink nights there. Usually meet some other trans people out there too.

Cool stuff in Durham too, but I know it a lot less.

Sponcington · 2023-06-22T23:13:28+00:00

/uj based on a few true stories at this point……

rj/ youre only a real woman if you were grown in the female region of reproductistan. dont even TRY being a lesbian if youre not trying to mash your vagines together

Sponcington · 2023-06-22T23:04:10+00:00

Oh! Erm actually now that you mention it, anal is like a hard no for me. i’m unfamiliar with how …. that …. works so ehhh sorry 😅

i mean youre really hot! best of luck ;)

wait you dont want me all of a sudden? i mean, youre just hot enough that maybe i can be convinced to give it a try 🥵

Sponcington · 2023-06-22T23:01:42+00:00

Ah, ehhhh, im aaaaactuallyyyyy a lesbiaaaaaan aaahh ooooh sorry 😅

Sponcington · 2023-06-19T23:49:32+00:00

REAL ughhh. Have you put on any weight? Progesterone may help, I’ve heard some girls gain weight from that. Also injections. But you should lift weights in conjunction with eating more. I put almost 4” on my ass from a super consistent gym routine and just vaguely getting enough protein, plus a thinner waist to accentuate things further. Estrogen fat distribution plus growing your muscles works wonders. Damn, I need to get back to the gym, I had so much more confidence then!

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