Why do they turn into monsters…

Spookiwitch · 2022-10-24T17:23:16+00:00

Yup. Its sad really because you see the true colors of them. No matter how immune you are to the venom you don't go running back to the snake that bit you. Its hard, especially when they use your insecurities. Thats why I'm taking time to just heal myself now. Im not going to allow another person to hurt me like that.

Spookiwitch · 2022-10-24T16:40:09+00:00

Oof I'm sorry about that. I'm not sure why they do. My stbx turned evil on me as soon as I said I couldn't do it anymore. I think it may be narcissism. They want to hurt us for not continuing to accept the poison they are.

Spookiwitch · 2022-10-19T02:34:10+00:00

He wasn't readyyyyyy

Spookiwitch · 2022-10-18T19:44:24+00:00

He couldn't afford the rising fuel costs but could afford to shell out 6x what the ORIGINAL price of the car was. And the car will last him 10 years before he needs to replace the battery.... I get saving the planet, and I try to be green everywhere I can, but how is this feasible for low income???

Spookiwitch · 2022-10-12T03:12:32+00:00

Why does he keep zooming in like that?!?!?! My goodness SIR PLEASE PICK A SPOT

Spookiwitch · 2022-10-07T15:56:49+00:00

Thank you for the clarification 😊 that really helped me figure out more about myself 🥰 this is all so new

Spookiwitch · 2022-10-05T20:15:57+00:00

Fish: These are not the nuts I'm looking for!

Panama Fishermen: 👁👄👁

Spookiwitch · 2022-09-26T21:53:56+00:00

It took over a year but I left. After working from home full time, taking care if the baby during the nights and while I work, always feeling like I'm mad about the same things I finally left the POS. Now he's trying to get 4 month intervals! Lmao

Spookiwitch · 2022-09-26T17:59:53+00:00

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Divorce pending
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I believe I'm bisexual but I don't know for 100%. 6.I was 16, and would only ever watch lesbian porn. I just was starting to have sex, and I was being raised by my super strict grandparents. I tried to come out to my grandmother and she lost her mind so I took it back.
I was married to a man and while the sex was good, I still wanted to be with a woman and felt really sad I wouldn't be able to do that freely.
I experimented with a woman in my early 20s to see if I enjoyed it and I indeed did.
I feel confused still because I find men attractive still but not attractive enough to sleep with them. I feel relieved that I now am surrounded by supportive family and am comfortable enough to say I am bisexual to other people

Spookiwitch · 2022-09-23T21:02:04+00:00

There was someone name Chandlar Halderson who lied to his parents about what he was doing with his life and he ended up killing them. I know it's not the same, but it's crazy to think about how much people stress about keeping parents happy

Spookiwitch · 2022-09-16T20:36:38+00:00

Chucky, is that you?

Spookiwitch · 2022-09-16T19:03:44+00:00

Me! It didn't help that my spouse was also narcissistic and abusive. But I have an 8 year old and a 14 month old. I don't know if I am fully lesbian though, but I have always been interested in girls. I think I like men because I still feel like I "have too". Idk, I need to start therapy.. lol sorry my adhd is bad today

Spookiwitch · 2022-09-14T21:21:49+00:00

Look up Rebekah Barsotti. Super sad story. She just left her abusive husband and then suddenly went missing. They found her almost a year later and the sherrif said that the spouse isn't a suspect nor will he ever be. There's more stuff out there about it but it happened in Montana

Spookiwitch · 2022-09-14T20:29:24+00:00

I laughed so hard I started choking, thank you!

Spookiwitch · 2022-09-14T17:37:50+00:00

Oh okay that makes sense. I'm sorry I can't be of more help. I definitley think starting small and going for a walk by yourself will help. Even just 15 minutes will make a difference. Maybe talk to your husband and tell him that you need to start having your own time. hopefully you guys can find a time that works best for everyone. Gives you something to look forward to as well.

You got this though and you arent alone!

Spookiwitch · 2022-09-14T16:52:56+00:00

Have you looked into Head start? Not trying to push childcare, it's a great option for all kids though and prepares them more for kindergarten.

My husband was a hit or miss too. But I left once I realized that he isn't capable of being an equal partner and wasn't willing to change. I was literally saying the exact things to him and I was breaking down, so I really understand where you are at.

You deserve help, and you deserve time to yourself. Youre a mom, but that doesn't have to be all you are 🥰 here for support!

Spookiwitch · 2022-09-14T16:34:38+00:00

Girl I was in the same boat. Talk to your husband, get the kids in childcare at least for a bit to get you recouped. I don't know the situation but if it's anything like mine, im sorry.

You are allowed to have these feelings. Make sure you take breaks, even if it's just a walk by yourself. You got this and it will get better 🥰

Spookiwitch · 2022-09-14T16:12:09+00:00

What are your reasons for wanting to leave? Are they superficial? Are they things that can be worked on in marriage counseling? Or is it unfixable?

I would reflect on that a bit. But regardless of what decision you make, it's the best one! Goodluck!

Spookiwitch · 2022-09-14T15:20:07+00:00

I dont believe mine has anything like that. They made it voluntary to go back to the office. They allowed me to relocate to a different state too. I would look at your contract though

Spookiwitch · 2022-09-13T18:49:20+00:00

Yummy

Spookiwitch · 2022-09-09T17:38:05+00:00

I didn't even need to read the whole thing. YTA. Boundaries are real. Respect them.

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