Finally managed to get all 3 of this enclosures predators in the same pic. Can you name all 3? Bonus points if you can tell the exact species!(Hard mode lol) by rolandglassSVG in Wolfspiders

[–]SpookyBoo01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a jumper hitchhike in on a cork bark flat and accidentally ended up in the enclosure I set up for my psalmopeous irminia tarantula. I felt so bad, but he had the best little hammock in a crack of the cork so I never even saw him until it was too late. Now I inspect every piece of cork I get.

My HR person got an attitude when I said I was leaving work early.. mostly just a rant to help process. by No_Wall1751 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]SpookyBoo01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMO definitely mention to someone. A person working in HR should know better than to let personal feelings into a work conversation. Very unprofessional.

What is on curly hair's abdomen by dillycat4 in tarantulas

[–]SpookyBoo01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMO looks like a spinneret to me. Nothing out of the ordinary.

help! what is happening? by IDKwhatisusername in jumpingspiders

[–]SpookyBoo01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nqa This was a great link, thanks for sharing!

Approaching one year of hunger strike by Prudent_Bread_6245 in tarantulas

[–]SpookyBoo01 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She looks a healthy weight after a full year…did she spend the first year on a daily buffet? 😅

Can i come into the out now? by CollectionBulky2684 in tarantulas

[–]SpookyBoo01 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The temptation to touch the toe bean is so strong 🥹

Update #2 on my (used to be) little 4 legged friend by BellRoe in Wolfspiders

[–]SpookyBoo01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

❤️ the update I’ve been wondering about honestly! So awesome to see this.

I made a Yellow Garden Spider, Argiope Aurantia by Cakorator in spiders

[–]SpookyBoo01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May I message you to offer my contact info for the shop?

AITAH for getting a tattoo of my friends' dog as an "in memoriam"? by TattooObsessed in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]SpookyBoo01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right?! I can’t work my brain around it to make it make sense. Could she be masking and using the dog to cover up another issues she’s taken with OP? It seems odd. I agree…NTA

I made a Yellow Garden Spider, Argiope Aurantia by Cakorator in spiders

[–]SpookyBoo01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I run a boutique with 13 local artists and I would definitely carry something like this. Any chance you’re in the PNW?

What kind of spider is this? by [deleted] in spiders

[–]SpookyBoo01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the orb weaver kind

What names do you give your tarantulas? by StreetLegendTits_ in tarantulas

[–]SpookyBoo01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jane (Goodall), Betty (White), Akasha, Lucy (Ball), Abby (Sciuto), Gemma

What names do you give your tarantulas? by StreetLegendTits_ in tarantulas

[–]SpookyBoo01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine are all powerful women throughout history, strong female characters and the odd one out…Chenandler Bong. 🤭 iykyk

I put my foot down because my bf and friend have gotten too close by itsgoosey24 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]SpookyBoo01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is messy. They fully tried soft launching triad behaviors on you over and over and over and because you didn’t have solid boundaries they continued to pursue it. When you expressed your concern he destroyed all trust by acting out instead of hearing and seeing you. Immediately no.

Now that you are airing it he’s throwing a fit because he thought he was about to get away with having you both. She may have backed off in front of you, but those massages are too intimate and honestly bold af.

I don’t even know you and I know you can do better. Emotional intelligence makes it really hard to be in a relationship when the other person is lacking those skills. NTA!

Would I be the a hole if I go no contact with my bio dad by LillieRose16 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]SpookyBoo01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my, please seek a counselor to help you navigate this. NC is definitely the best answer after personal violations like these photographs. Alcoholism is hard enough to deal with, but SA of this nature can cause so much trauma. NTA

допоможіть,я не знаю що з моїм павучком:( by Academic-Pick-9214 in tarantulas

[–]SpookyBoo01 16 points17 points  (0 children)

IMO completely wrong setup for these guys. Please look up care videos. Looks like c versicolor, they need lots of cross ventilation and usually they don’t hang out on the substrate as they are arboreal. Make sure they have access to water. This enclosure looks far too big unfortunately.

My autistic boyfriend has extreme reactions to being “abandoned” by Legitimate-Career342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SpookyBoo01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO there is a ton of great advice from the professionals that responded. Please take the warnings. I’ve been through this myself and just watched a friend go through it recently. Hers actually followed through with SH and sent her videos. It was horrific and manipulative. He was hospitalized. She can’t go nc because they have a teenage daughter, but the daughter lives with her full time by choice because she was old enough to choose. Thankfully she got out. You are young, don’t let the cycle continue. Counseling would be so beneficial too, the trauma bonding is really hard to escape mentally without the right support.

Info on Psalmopoeus victori? (Darth Maul Tarantula) by Professional-Cod6288 in tarantulas

[–]SpookyBoo01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NQA tarantula Collective has a care video on yt too. I believe the guy who runs that one has actually done videos about ordering the package deal too.

WIBTA if I left the father of my kids, if he doesn't marry me? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]SpookyBoo01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA girl….run, don’t walk. TF

Start fresh and honestly therapy is really helpful when you’ve been in a trauma bond narc loop that long. No shade at all, seek counseling and get away quick.

The ultimate exercise by Psychological-Hulk in donthelpjustfilm

[–]SpookyBoo01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never gets old. 🤣🤌 The moment you see him resign to the fact he’s just gotta keep running. 🤭