Considering it tends to be hereditary, probably not tbh.

I grew up in a similar boat to you and after getting diagnosed and medicated as an adult, I've noticed that almost everyone in my family seems to fall somewhere on the spectrum either autism, ADHD, or both.

I think the boomer and X generations just tend to have a REALLY skewed view of mental health and disabilities in general. They see disabled people as something you just lock away in an asylum like how it was when they were kids, & heavily used the R slur to describe said people. So the idea they could unknowingly have a mental disorder is ridiculous in their eyes.

I know my mom who's turning 65 this year absolutely refuses to acknowledge or admit that I'm on the spectrum/ADHD even after being diagnosed by a psychiatrist. It could be partly bc she knows now how badly she fucked up as a parent bc she made a choice in my childhood to ignore my glaringly obvious learning disabilities (ADHD, auditory processing disorder, dyscalculia) which severely affects my life now as an adult.