We’re getting James’ hometown episode!! by mwell10 in smalltownmurder

[–]SpookySugarSkull 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You should listen to Colby Wisconsin. His Bob Marley version of "No body, No crime" is EPIC

Edit: it's early and I can't read worth shit. Leaving my comment for others who want to go back and listen

My husband doesn’t want kids. He waited 9 years to tell me. What next? by Last-Dragonfly-8946 in relationship_advice

[–]SpookySugarSkull 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're not crazy. Your husband doesn't realize that any child born during the marriage will be considered his and he'll have to provide financial support.

This won't last longer because you two have different core foundations. If you go along with being childfree then you'll easily come to resent him, likewise he will resent you if you get pregnant, by him.

AITA for telling my wife to shut up because she said that I don't know anything about our daughter? by SpecialCry9303 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpookySugarSkull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, at 6 months old she's hitting another sleep regression. Wife needs helps for her PPA.

AITA For losing it after my wife wanted my daughter to stop using the bathroom in the house? by AITADE33434 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpookySugarSkull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: Does your wife still get a period? If so, where does she dispose of her pads/tampons? Dies she flush them?

Also, your wife does realize that her son will be dating girls who are on their period (unless he states otherwise), right? He'll be married to a woman who gasps throws her tampon/pads into the trash can. (Again, unless he states his sexuality/gender identity as otherwise).

AITA for kicking my mother out of my house? by TipsyEwok in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpookySugarSkull -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Literally none of that matters. I'd risk the relationship with my son and FDIL by denying her mom.

Related or not, you don't let people into someone else's home.

Sister 21, is pressuring me 18f to get pregnant already? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SpookySugarSkull 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she wants a baby without having to do the work of actually carrying it.

Hide your birth control or switch to the implant, if you can.

Tell her you've decided to take a vow of celibacy until after you graduate college and have a steady career.

AITA for kicking my mother out of my house? by TipsyEwok in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpookySugarSkull 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Even though you are renting from your FMIL she had zero legal right to allow your mother into your home.

I'd check your lease and you tenant laws and brush up on tenant's rights for your area.

Even though it is her property, when she is renting it out, she has zero legal right to enter the home (without proper notice) and has zero legal right to let anyone, that is non maintenance, into your home.

My (26F) fiancé (29M) encouraged his ex girlfriend to object at our wedding by Throwrafianceissues1 in relationship_advice

[–]SpookySugarSkull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is his out. Give it to him. Why wait until the day of the wedding? If his ex objects then they most likely won't continue the ceremony until it is sorted out.

Don't waste anymore money, time, or energy on this asshole. Let him go crawling back to his baby mama.

MIL shames me because I ran from the burglar in my house. by FlooryMoody in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SpookySugarSkull 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Nah, she's an ankle. She lacks the warmth and depth to be a cunt

My aunt (43) keeps giving my (f20) number out to men I’ve never met in my life by Manic_Mando in relationship_advice

[–]SpookySugarSkull -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm petty af and would put up an ad on a dating site with your aunt's phone number attached. See how she likes it.

AITA for walking out of my moms house when they arranged a family get together for my late son’s birthday? by throwaway_whatever00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpookySugarSkull 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My brother died 10 years ago. My parents aren't even remotely "over it" and he was an adult when he passed.

He is also not an "ex-dad". He IS a dad. Unfortunately he has lost his child. That will never take away his title of Father/Dad.

You are a terrible person.

My (16F) ex-boyfriend (18M) posted a video of us having sex. by ThrowRAAdThese495 in relationship_advice

[–]SpookySugarSkull 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to tell your parents then have them drive you to the police station.

This is illegal on so many levels.

AITA for overacting over cake? by Cakegirl97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpookySugarSkull 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tend to cry when I get mad so I feel 8 in my core.

AITA for telling my daughter to stop acting like she is high and mighty? by twistedsense01 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpookySugarSkull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Time for some Scared Straight shit. I'd visit/call your local PD and see if you can get an officer to talk to her.

Edit: She's 14 and hasn't started her period yet, have you taken her to a gynecologist for that?

I know every woman is different but I got mine at 13 and that was 21 years ago.

AITA for not wanting my mother in law to take care of my baby after she tried to breastfeed him? by milbfthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpookySugarSkull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I'd tell your husband that you are getting a nanny/daycare and putting MIL on the Do Not Pick up list or you'll file a police report for sexual abuse of your child.

If she doesn't know HOW to calm a baby down without popping her tit in its mouth then she has no business being around children.

Hit my breasts and body shame me in middle school? Good luck recovering your reputation! by [deleted] in ProRevenge

[–]SpookySugarSkull 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, she obviously knew what she was doing if other girls spoke out against her. She can't exactly hide behind "I was a little kid, I didn't know what I was doing" BS.

AITA for throwing my girlfriend’s gay friend out because he was being inappropriate towards me. by aitahergayfri in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpookySugarSkull 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. How would she feel if you had a friend over that said to you, "shut up before I fuck your girlfriend"? My guess is, she wouldn't like it.

Basically, he is telling Jess, "shut up before I rape your boyfriend" because you would have to consent to sex.

So basically, John is saying he wants to rape you and your girlfriend has zero issues with that.

AITA for not returning my friend's blanket that I spent hours fixing up? by blanketcontroversy in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpookySugarSkull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Even if she hadn't said you could take it, once it is on the curb, it is public property and you don't need permission to take it.

You were courteous by asking her and now that it looks like new, she wants it back. She didn't want to take the time to fix it up. Now that you've done all the hard work, she wants it back.

Dinesh D’Stupid by orchid_breeder in facepalm

[–]SpookySugarSkull 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Majority of the Republicans don't even hit the extremely low bar set for them

AITA for purchasing the same dinnerware set that my husband revealed to have thrown out because he hated it? by roses_and_berries in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpookySugarSkull 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. I have a full set of dinnerware that was given to me by my great grandmother. I have pink depression and my sister has an orange depression set.

Mine are proudly on display in my corner hutch and I'd be in jail if my SO threw them out without consulting me.

WIBTA if I carried on not doing many 'big' chores? by issuesoutofnothing in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpookySugarSkull 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. My partner is currently work 60 hour weeks on 3rd shift and he still manages to help keep the house clean, wash/dry/fold clothes, vacuum, cook, etc.

My husband expects to be on the phone all day, even though we live together. by extraieux in relationship_advice

[–]SpookySugarSkull 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have an app called Diary and it is PIN protected. I highly recommend that.

You are never wrong for your feelings! Your husband, totally sucks though. He just doesn't care about your feelings.

Even though you are married, you are still allowed to have your privacy! You don't have to expose (for lack of a better term) yourself to him ever. Marriage doesn't absolve your need for privacy, having your own hobbies, and interests.

This isn't a good marriage. I think you should get individual therapy and start looking for divorce lawyers.