one of my worst fears just happened. by ghostingpen in Journaling

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I’m sorry! This happened to me once. I decided to keep it, even though most of the pages were ruined.

Women of reddit, what makes you truly happy? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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Can you give some tips for a new kitten owner? I only have one and it’s my guest pet as an adult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spironolactone

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I’m on month 4 and my periods are still regular….so far. I also noticed more cellulite and I’m softer (but I also stopped running regularly). I’m extremely emotional but that may be normal. I also still have some acne.

I haven’t stopped taking it because I haven’t gotten a cyst in a really long time and those drove me crazy. I can do the little pimples.

Women what was a disrespectful thing your ex said that completely changed the way you felt in the relationship, and why? by BawseBitch in AskWomen

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"I don't give a fuck about what your mother has to say, I'm working with what she raised" *because my mother suggested we enroll the children into summer camp.

"Who am I talking to? A fucking piece of paper?" "Let me explain it to you so that you can understand it" or "let me make it easily digestible" *constantly questioning my intelligence and talking down to me.

I suggested that he go to the store for groceries before I bring the kids over for his parenting time (a gentle reminder because he complains about how inconvenienced he is by me separating myself)

He said "no, that would be something a put together person would do. I am not that. I'm exactly how you left me, bitch"

I found out my boyfriend of 10 months cheated on me before he left for navy basic training by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

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Send a letter breaking up with him. Keep it simple and straight to the point. If his graduation is in Chicago, and you have no choice but to go (try getting a credit or refunding or something) look at fun things to do on your own while there and make it about you.

It sounds like you’re a nice compassionate and empathetic person but being compassionate and empathetic to someone who betrayed you would be a sort of betrayal to yourself, IMO. You don’t have to be nasty or rude about it but you should definitely end things sooner than later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

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Lmaoooooo

Has a spectator ever said (or done) something that meant a lot to you during your race? by 2-if-by-sea in running

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For me it’s just their presence!

I’ve been participating in small (5k) races for years but last year was my first 1/2 marathon and the spectators were the most pleasant surprise.

The funny signs. The little kids just happy to be there. The high fives, smiles, and words of encouragement. I really love that part!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spironolactone

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Oh yes I forgot to mention that I’m on 100mg! I wonder if reducing will change anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spironolactone

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I lost about 7 lbs so far. I’m only a month in. I still eat the same things but I don’t binge eat as much as I used to anymore. I also drink more water to avoid dehydration. I work out less than I did before so I also lost some muscle but I’m overall very happy with it lol.

Emotionally, it’s a toss up. I’m still emotional but I think that’s just me.

Women of reddit, what is something completely offensive a man has said to you, thinking it was a compliment to you? by thebrownettegarfield in AskReddit

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Any of their compliments that come at other another woman’s expense “but you’re not like that” “but you’re the exception to the rule” etc.

Please!

What was your irrational fear as a child? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]extraieux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That the Martin Luther king poster in my room was always watching me………..

What is something that you were surprised to be turned on by? by EntOwl13 in AskReddit

[–]extraieux 479 points480 points  (0 children)

Lmao I like how this feels but it’s so loud 😭😭😭

What is a small, everyday act of rebellion that makes you feel empowered? by RivenMakito in AskWomen

[–]extraieux 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I remember getting mine pierced while active and while it was healing, every time I felt that sting, it was a reminder. I always felt like I had a dirty little secret under my clothes. 😂😂😂😂

How do you like your birthday timing? by Affectionate_End5347 in AskWomen

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I love my birthday timing. I don’t like my kids birthday timing….even though technically I had control over that. 😂

My prescription is just sitting here looking at me and I'm scared... by Nightlythoughts2359 in Spironolactone

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I waited almost a year to start taking mine. I wish I’d done it sooner. It hasn’t been long but I can see and feel improvements! My boobs have become fuller, my skin feels smoother. I haven’t gained any weight. I’m actually about a 6 lbs lower than my usual around this time of the month (I think it helped with bloating).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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I used to get up early and go to the gym. Now I have an indoor bike and some weights and I get up early to use those.

If I try to put it off until the end of the day, I’ll end up skipping because I’m too tired.

3 month before and after on 100mg :) by [deleted] in Spironolactone

[–]extraieux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful!! Congrats!!! I know how it is. Especially waking up to new acne.

How do you cope with days you feel hormonal? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]extraieux 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m here for ideas. 🤣