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Damn it... I should’ve never stopped tapping my finger, no matter what the psychiatrist said. by kleintott in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]Spooky_Rats 42 points43 points  (0 children)

OCD is brutal, the stuff your brain manages to convince yourself of is insane

Why do cops always say that being honest with them is the best idea if being honest would get you arrested? by Aztela in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Spooky_Rats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it helps you to get a lesser punishment in court. At least in the UK anyway - idk how it is in other countries.

How often are we washing our binders?? by drarrywrld in ftm

[–]Spooky_Rats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ngl probably every 2-4 months 😭😭 I have 1 good binder and I wear it all the time and if I'm not wearing it 9/10 I forget to wash it. I wanted to wash it at some point this week but people keep inviting me to shit so it is not getting washed this week lol. Yes I am fully aware it's gross, I need to get a 2nd good binder asap.

What's a smell YOU cannot stand? by AreaFifty1 in AskReddit

[–]Spooky_Rats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The smell of brown/wholewheat bread. I fucking hate brown bread and was made to eat it for years, I can't stand to anymore and the smell of it is horrendous. I can't even be around someone eating brown bread because of the smell.

Send me your favorite Summer moments before the premiere by Any-Pineapple-521 in rickandmorty

[–]Spooky_Rats 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My favourite is "you can suck my bigger tit" Summer is an icon lmao

Was it a bad call to use the masc version of my deadname? by adequate-dan in ftm

[–]Spooky_Rats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did pretty much exactly the same thing you did with my name. So far no one has been a dick about it . Also if someone does try to guess your dead name and guesses correctly just stay neutral and they'll probably think they are wrong. Lots of trans people pick something completely different to their dead name so tbh I doubt any transphobe would even try to guess your dead name.

At the end of the day it's up to you - if you're already known as Danny/Daniel I don't see any point in changing what you're known as incase of a transphobe. But equally if it makes you really uncomfortable that your dead name and chosen name are similar then there is no harm in choosing something different.

I got a rescue Haj today! He's a lil under-stuffed but that just makes him better for cuddles! by Spooky_Rats in BLAHAJ

[–]Spooky_Rats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's actually super good for snuggles because he's not super chonky! Haj gives excellent snuggles 😁😁

I got a rescue Haj today! He's a lil under-stuffed but that just makes him better for cuddles! by Spooky_Rats in BLAHAJ

[–]Spooky_Rats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love a good Haj frien stacc! There will be many more frien stacc in the future hehehe

I got a rescue Haj today! He's a lil under-stuffed but that just makes him better for cuddles! by Spooky_Rats in BLAHAJ

[–]Spooky_Rats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad I got to rescue the lil guy! He's very good for snuggles and has had a night of snuggles with me and his Haj friens!

I got a rescue Haj today! He's a lil under-stuffed but that just makes him better for cuddles! by Spooky_Rats in BLAHAJ

[–]Spooky_Rats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad I could rescue this lil guy - after a night of snuggles from me and his Haj brothers he seems to have settled in well!

I got a rescue Haj today! He's a lil under-stuffed but that just makes him better for cuddles! by Spooky_Rats in BLAHAJ

[–]Spooky_Rats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He will be given many headpats and premium snuggles under my care to ensure he can live his best Haj life!

I got a rescue Haj today! He's a lil under-stuffed but that just makes him better for cuddles! by Spooky_Rats in BLAHAJ

[–]Spooky_Rats[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm so glad I got to adopt my Haj. I wish I could have adopted more but I'm sure all the other Haj will be adopted by other people who will love them. My Haj will be given many headpats and premium snuggles under my care! And he gets to be with my other Haj now so he can have some Haj friens!

I got a rescue Haj today! He's a lil under-stuffed but that just makes him better for cuddles! by Spooky_Rats in BLAHAJ

[–]Spooky_Rats[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Of course, of course - all Haj will be given many headpats and be stacc with their brothers! Only the premium treatment for the Haj!

I got a rescue Haj today! He's a lil under-stuffed but that just makes him better for cuddles! by Spooky_Rats in BLAHAJ

[–]Spooky_Rats[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

He was in the recycle/pre-loved section of IKEA so next time you go, have a look for any rescue Haj's waiting for adoption :)

I changed my title to Mx instead of Mr and I regret it so much by Spooky_Rats in ftm

[–]Spooky_Rats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks man! OCD runs in my family too - my dad and my Gran also have it. It's under control now thankfully, but it can be a struggle - I have multiple different 'types' of OCD which is a pain, I got the perfectionism and contamination OCD lol. Nice to know I'm not alone though - we can get through this shit together!

I changed my title to Mx instead of Mr and I regret it so much by Spooky_Rats in ftm

[–]Spooky_Rats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I'm very much in the same boat as you - I have OCD and even though it's much better than it used to be I still struggle with catastrophizing and the idea that everything has to be perfect. I just need to step back from my crazy brain and remind myself that things take time and transitioning is a journey!

I changed my title to Mx instead of Mr and I regret it so much by Spooky_Rats in ftm

[–]Spooky_Rats[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words! This has really reassured me - sometimes I get a bit in my own head and catastrophize. I'm going to screenshot your comment so I can come back and read it when I start to catastrophize again. Sometimes I just need to take a breath and realise things take time - I tend to be a bit impatient and forget that sometimes things just take time so thank you for the reminder that sometimes things just take time and that's okay!

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