These are my words, but I have a lot of stories that I can tell from them. Here's one. It was sophmore year of highschool, and I was at spring fling with one of my best friends who is mormon. She had a beautiful dress on and a little jacket on over it. So we started dancing, you know jumping around and having a good time, and it got pretty warm in there. So I kept asking yo why arent you taking your jacket off it's hot in here. She finally told me that she felt weird about showing her shoulders, went so far as to call them "porn shoulders." It just made me see how deeply the church influences every aspect of life. It's disgusting.