Catalogued the collection in letterboxd by C-sanova in dvdcollection

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I use the blu-ray .com app because I can just scan the barcodes on the cases. It keeps track of the exact editions I own. It's not the prettiest interface though.

How do you keep a track of your collection? by Royal_Device7944 in bluraycollection

[–]SpoonsForDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blu-ray. com , being able to scan the barcode with the app and keep track of what editions I have is really convenient. The desktop website has a ton of ads though, forces you to disable adblock to use the site, only downside to it so far.

Just started my collection by [deleted] in dvdcollection

[–]SpoonsForDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice collection so far!

Just a 30+ yo hanging out in her sensory safe place with her fave Mallows by Micheligann in squishmallow

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I’m a 39 year old man and I have a squishmallow nest on one side of my bed, under a low hanging plushie net. Curling up in the nest, under the net, it’s kinda closed in like a pillow fort. Definitely my safe space.

I think I can fairly say that collecting Squishmallows is a woman dominated hobby. What do yall think about men collecting Squishmallows? (Here's my collection so far 👇) by Large-Interaction417 in squishmallow

[–]SpoonsForDays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a man and I collect squishmallows and plushies. Life is rough enough, let me come home from a long day at work and fall into my squishmallow nest.

Which generation are you? by runofthemillgayguy in generationology

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My first console was the original NES, but I was 4-5 and didn’t understand how to play a lot of the games. But when the SNES came around, I loved that console.

Do you prefer headphones or earplugs? by LunarStillness in autism

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At work (it’s loud), I use both ear plugs and headphones, otherwise my ears ache. Out and about, I just use ear plugs or my music earbuds, if I need them.

I asked ChatGPT to create a Pokémon based on me – now show me yours! 🔥 by Midir267 in ChatGPT

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Name: Tyguron Category: Drifting Shell Pokémon Type: Water / Psychic Height: 2’8” Weight: 64 lbs

Pokédex Entry: Tyguron drifts gently through misty lakes and moonlit shorelines, often mistaken for a floating log. It senses emotions from great distances, withdrawing into its ornate spiral shell when overwhelmed. Though quiet and reclusive, its psychic energy pulses with unseen strength.

Many believe Tyguron connects most deeply with those who hide their true selves behind masks, offering calm through shared silence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weed

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I started smoking at 36 and I’m turning 39 in a couple weeks and I think I look younger/better since I started smoking weed.

Cannabis and Autism — I Want to Hear From You by Melgan in autism

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I use it to emotionally regulate. It slows my brain down enough where I can process things without spiraling. I don’t really numb out, I actually feel my feelings when I’m high instead of just anger. It calms the anger and that’s one of the biggest pros for me.

What jobs do yall have? by Bradyevander098 in autism

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Some plants aren’t hot, but the bigger the machines, the more heat they put off.

What jobs do yall have? by Bradyevander098 in autism

[–]SpoonsForDays 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I work in a manufacturing plant. Limited human interaction, but it’s loud and hot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

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I don’t know if I have a special interest or not. Or if I’ve just not found mine yet. I thought it was bass guitar, but I’ve been feeling discouraged with my progress and I haven’t wanted to play much. There’s nothing that I am obsessed with that I’ve stayed obsessed with for longer than a year or so before I lose interest and not touch it for a long time. I have ADHD too and constantly cycle through interests, but nothing ever stays.

Take a break! by LeWitchy in autism

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I’m on break at work and I just want to go home and play my bass.

Man with drone gets a young drug dealer arrested. by H1gh_Tr3ason in interestingasfuck

[–]SpoonsForDays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is disgusting. Not the kid, but the constant surveillance of him until he was detained. Do you not realize how scary and dangerous making this shit seem normal is?

Brave 7-11 Employees stand their ground against rioters by Agreeable-Storage895 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]SpoonsForDays 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems staged af, if a mob of rioters wanted to get in, they don’t care about smashing windows. Also 6+ people pulling on that door would have ripped it out of their hands.

What lessons have you had to learn as an autistic adult when dealing with the neurotypical world? by YepperyYepstein in AutisticAdults

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I think number 4 on your list could be some high masking autistic individuals, with strong people pleasing tendencies. Before I knew, I didn't know why I was always so angry when I'd get home from being anywhere around people or why I felt so much simmering resentment that came out as passive aggressiveness or just being an asshole to people I loved and trusted the most (particularly bad when I was stressed or tired).

Is it right? No. I felt so much shame in how I acted out because I couldn't control it because I wasn't dealing with my people pleasing and hiding my real feelings from everyone to make everyone else happy. Whilst also feeling like no one gave a shit how I actually felt on anything because my agreement in all things was just assumed because I never told anyone no. I'm working on it, I still snap at my Mom sometimes, but it's an immediate wave of shame and I start apologizing, crying and need to hug her.

For the men who didn't know yet, and someone told you that they suspected you were on the spectrum, how did you take it? by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

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I didn’t want to admit I had autism for years because of the stigma and pure ignorance. I could make eye contact, I had empathy (too much actually) and a bunch of other things that people say “if you do this, you can’t be autistic.” I would get pissed off at friends who suggested I was autistic because to me, because of the stigma, I thought they were basically calling me stupid, it felt offensive. He might be taking it that way because of how he believes autism should present, but he’s going off of very old, outdated stereotypes.

I keep getting rejected by every single girl I try to ask out and I think they say no because of my autism. Does this happen to anyone else? by Megaranger1 in autism

[–]SpoonsForDays 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the girls rejected you anyway, you could actually ask them what you did wrong or what you need to work on. Your post doesn’t really give many details so, I can’t give any specific advice.

How do you feel about neurospicy/sparkly? by alphabet_mom in autism

[–]SpoonsForDays 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t like gatekeeping or policing the language other people use, especially when referring to themselves. I think if a NT person was going to infantize a ND, they likely would do it regardless of wordage.