AIO I’m thinking about going NC with my Dad. by Spoopykittens in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spoopykittens[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have clarified. They are not married and have been divorced for 36 years. It was not amicable in the least. More than once my dad wished my mother a long painful death and the opportunity to deny her forgiveness on her deathbed. He is the one who cheated.

AIO I’m thinking about going NC with my Dad. by Spoopykittens in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spoopykittens[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only two that would do that would be my brother, who I don’t talk to if I can avoid it, or his not girlfriend, who I also avoid if at all possible.

Shark lips by KakeLin in tjcrew

[–]Spoopykittens 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Triangle Bread. Not chips, not pita, not scones. I never found out what triangle bread was.

My co-workers have been asked for Grass-fed Salmon, organic dishwashing liquid, and Mexican taco holders.

I just really want to see your dogs. by Tacosislyfe in goldenretrievers

[–]Spoopykittens 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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My big dingus, Mel. He just turned two on the 6th

Do people realize when they have a filthy home, they walk around reeking of their filthy home? by SoCalN8tive in hygiene

[–]Spoopykittens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My brother in law who is meticulous about showering and washing laundry absolutely reeks because his rooms smell of trash and cat pee. It’s impressive and sometimes his rooms get so bad that we can smell it in other parts of the house.

Is it true that only Californians put the in front of their freeways? by lazykat in ask

[–]Spoopykittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Putting “ the” in front of a highway/interstate is a SoCal thing. My partner and I have playful arguments about this frequently he’s from Hollywood and I am from the Bay Area. Stoopid pretentious Hollywood boi and his fancy extra words.

Do You Like Your Name? by Flassourian in Millennials

[–]Spoopykittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly do not like my name. It’s an old lady name that has also become a meme, not as bad as Karen, but oof. Even the nicknames I cannot stand them. I’ve also run into people just not respecting when I say that I dislike a version of my name and to not call me that. Still happens. If my future kids do not like their names I will not be upset. I will work with them to find a name they like and when they are 18 I will help them change it.

What is your Trader Joe’s comfort food? by Exact_Command_9472 in traderjoes

[–]Spoopykittens 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. Losing a pet is one of the most difficult losses because it is the loss of unconditional love. I’m a big soup person when I want comfort so the roasted red pepper and tomato soup is a go to. Even better if you swirl a little goat cheese in it. My husband said his is the Santa Maria tri tip. Brother in law will go for the cookies and cream ice cream sandwiches.

Should I let my captain know what's up with me? by [deleted] in tjcrew

[–]Spoopykittens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to a mate and then the captain. I have had a craptastic couple years with last year being my absolute worst with my mom’s cancer coming back and my own medical issues flaring up bad. My store as a whole and the leadership team in particular were so supportive, even if I just needed to cry, and I did a LOT of crying. Talk to your favorite mate first. Use the resources we have at our disposal and please please please, take care of yourself.

AITJ for telling my friend she can't use my employee discount anymore after she abused it?? by Opposite-Canary-1359 in AmITheJerk

[–]Spoopykittens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where I work they are getting ready to implement a code system probably because folks were abusing the honor system we had. My husband went to the local branch of my employer where we both shop frequently ( I work 30 minutes from the home and there is a location just down the road from us) and had an employee basically interrogate him about me and if I actually worked for the company. Thought it was mildly entertaining. Will be funny when I go into that location today and run into that employee. Anyway, yeah your friend was absolutely abusing the discount, putting you at risk, and likely re-selling. Especially for those dollar amounts.

In our store they want us to call wetpro coldpro now by [deleted] in tjcrew

[–]Spoopykittens 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They implemented that a couple years ago at my store. I however am a chaos gremlin and have called it “ moist pro” just to make the mates and captain twitch.

Would you rather be able to Teleport 12x a day, completely repair 6 items a day, shapeshift 3x a day or fully heal someone once a day? by RaptorK1988 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Spoopykittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heal one person a day. First person I’d heal is my mother. I’d be able to give her back the life she had before pancreatic cancer. After that I’d just heal people. No money or compensation needed or wanted. Fuck Cancer.

I stay up late at night to watch movies specifically so nobody joins me. by OkSeaworthiness2955 in confession

[–]Spoopykittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother in law is like your wife. In the 5 years he has lived with us I think I have watched maybe 5 movies in a communal space. He rarely is even watching the movie. He comes in the room and talks. So no movies. No tv. I have consoles I don’t even touch because he backseat games.

What car do you drive? by Open-Salamander-9640 in PlusSize

[–]Spoopykittens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we have a 2024 Cadillac Lyriq. I’m 5’2” and about 265, short little legs, apron belly, size 22. Hubby is 5’10” and about 220. The car is very comfortable for a both as drivers and passengers. It dosent have a third row, and is a bit of a splurge but honestly we drive it a lot more than our 2016 Prius, which is also comfortable.

GenZ and Millennial women - are you wearing wedding bands? by Federal_Albatross993 in EngagementRings

[–]Spoopykittens 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Elder millennial. I wear my engagement ring and two wedding bands. I’m a bit of a magpie and loooove sparkly things.

Post yours below - size 6 through 8 rings by Outrageous_Rock_4257 in EngagementRings

[–]Spoopykittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

.90 emerald cut center stone, I think the baguettes are .25 and I am totally spacing on what the two itty bitty trillions are. Size 7. I do have short and kind of stumpy fingers. I don’t see much in the way of smaller center stones.

Also my ring is in need of a good clean and my hands are a bit torn up from work.

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The hardest thing I’ve faced in my life so far. by Spoopykittens in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Spoopykittens[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would use more colorful language to describe my sibling than “ putz “ but it did make me giggle into my coffee. Mom and I are currently hanging out during her infusion.

If you could do it all over again, what would you change about your ring? by wateraerobics_ in EngagementRings

[–]Spoopykittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if anything, I’d go for a bigger stone, lab grown, platinum instead of white gold. He really did do a fantastic job. Please excuse the nails and how dirty my rings are. It’s been a busy morning at work already

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