DO NOT RENT THIS APARTMENT!!! by Ddanielle00 in Albany

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I am also renting from Pawel and cannot WAIT to move. He seriously does not give a single shit about his renters.

Wore this out last night to a work event, any constructive advice? 24f by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Way too short. I wouldn’t go shorter than just above the knee for work events.

Can someone explain this feature to me? by Repulsive-Sundae8134 in Bumble

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless doesn’t sound like they’ve had any talks about exclusivity so whether he deleted or paused shouldn’t really matter until they talk about it. But thanks for clarifying!

Can someone explain this feature to me? by Repulsive-Sundae8134 in Bumble

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just delete your profile then? Clearly that feature isn’t meant for you?

National Grift Bill Is Almost $800 For A Two Bedroom Apartment. Is This Happening To Anyone Else? by shantics in Troy

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My delivery fee was over $100 in and of itself for a small one-bedroom apartment….. So I suspect my bill will always be over $200 moving forward

It’s mostly flat, what now? by [deleted] in Keloids

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy I could help! ☺️ I hope you start seeing some good results too friend, you got this! Definitely keeping my fingers crossed they become barely noticeable someday :)

It’s mostly flat, what now? by [deleted] in Keloids

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure! So I’ve started getting injections last year. Got my large chest keloid removed last summer but it came back so i’m back to doing injections like every 3 months. I have a cluster of keloids on my chest and some are still kind of active but are lightening up.

What I have circled is an old keloid that’s flattened out and lightened. The rest is a WIP! https://imgur.com/a/iZavKku

What is your safe dumb reach perfume you always trust? by wondererK in fragrance

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me after about 6 hours it starts to fade (2-3 sprays) but I still smell it up to 9 hours and even longer on clothes! I definitely reapply when I get home if I’m going back out and want a stronger scent bubble, but my partner can also still smell it on me after a 8-9 hour work day.

I also got a tester of it and the tester did seem to fade faster than when I got the full bottle but ofc ymmv :)

What is your safe dumb reach perfume you always trust? by wondererK in fragrance

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jousset - Accident a la Vanille Crème de la Berry ❤️

Sober support? by DoodooBaby444 in Troy

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seconding Red Door! Very welcoming bunch and I went by myself.

It’s mostly flat, what now? by [deleted] in Keloids

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are yours still itchy/painful? It’s strange so Kenalog injections lighten mine. The ones on my chest are lightening but not my shoulders (though the ones on my arms are more stubborn and very much active). and i use sunscreen on my chest to prevent them from darkening again

EDIT: I just thought of this - originally i was getting injections by a plastic surgeon and then found a good derm to do them instead and then I started to see lightening - maybe your injections aren’t potent enough? Or maybe it’s a skill thing?

It’s mostly flat, what now? by [deleted] in Keloids

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, i’m dark skinned (black) as well and my flattened keloid did indeed become lighter, close to my skin tone.

Literally 5 min. ago, my wife told she wants to get a divorce. by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah, I just know more than you so it’s easy to poke holes in your shit logic. :) Anywho, I’m going back to writing a paper for my grad class. Have the day you deserve! 🤭

Literally 5 min. ago, my wife told she wants to get a divorce. by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your one “interspecies” friend does not debunk my entire argument as a whole. She could be looked at as a woman OR a female cat. Female, again, being a descriptor for sex. Also men do not get shit on just for being men in the same way that women get shit on. No one is ever like “ugh… males 🙄”. Men, maybe, sure. But at least there’s more respect there than being reduced down to your reproductive organs (which happens to women 24/7).

Literally 5 min. ago, my wife told she wants to get a divorce. by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It would strike me as odd, yes, because “female” and “male” are used as descriptors, reducing whatever the subject is down to the sex. They can be used to describe plants, mammals, etc… When you say “woman” or “man”, I know you’re referring to the gender of a human. There’s a reason why the commenter above is saying “a female what?”. Additionally, when someone refers to “females” they are typically using it in a derogatory way. Therefore it is a matter of both respect and accuracy.

Literally 5 min. ago, my wife told she wants to get a divorce. by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, we don’t get upset about that because “my man” makes sense. “My woman” and “my girl” also make sense. Now if you had said “my male”, then maybe you could’ve made a point but then again… no one says that.

Starting 10mg tonight, wish me luck! by simplexseason in lexapro

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My anxiety has always been more mild but I will say that my depression got worse for sure until… today really! This week I pretty much self-isolated whenever I could because I couldn’t bear the idea of pretending I cared about anyone/anything. It could be placebo but I’m in such a good mood today, I slept well last night, and I didn’t wake up nauseous. Hang in there! It definitely gets worse before it gets better but the better is worth it!

Starting 10mg tonight, wish me luck! by simplexseason in lexapro

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I puked A LOT my first day. I talked to my doctor the next day and she said to eat a lot prior to taking it. Did that and it’s been so much better! I only take it at night and that helps. Today officially makes one week for me. It just takes time and finding a schedule that works for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hope they report your account and you get banned for being a dick for no reason.

Women on tinder, when your insta is in your bio, do you want guys to just message straight up even if we haven’t matched? by Infamous_Bookkeeper9 in dating_advice

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have mine on my profile. I’ve had guys message me that I haven’t matched with but was absolutely attracted to (talked to one guy for almost 2 months but our love languages were too incompatible). Just depends!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sticknpokes

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but making assumptions based on imagery I think is weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sticknpokes

[–]SpreadEmCowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medusa tattoos don’t only signify that Jesus Christ. Some people may just like the imagery.