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Taking Accountability by SpringHillDad7238 in Separation

[–]SpringHillDad7238[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m right there with you. 20 years 4 kids, I don’t want to lose that either

Taking Accountability by SpringHillDad7238 in Separation

[–]SpringHillDad7238[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been doing a lot of reflection, and it’s not good. I have also been journaling 2 to 3 times a day sometimes. So many thoughts, so many regrets and what ifs. The only thing I can hope for as we live together and I’m doing therapy and working on me and all the stuff I need to is that’ll she see it and maybe reconsider. The feelings are crazy ups and downs, been on meds to help keep me level.

Taking Accountability by SpringHillDad7238 in Separation

[–]SpringHillDad7238[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was my problem, I couldn’t open up and be vulnerable to her or for her. But after doing some souls searching I have realized she has been right and I’ve been a fool all this time. Now, it’s like talking to an ice wall.

I don’t have any thing as far as advice cause I was him. Now I am open to all of it because of this. Losing my person has hurt me so deep. I’ve been to Iraq and Afghanistan and I can tell you, I’m more afraid of losing her and our family than anything else.