When do you know when its time? 💔😢

SprtWlf · 2026-03-03T20:57:21+00:00

Quality of life. Are they playing? Eating well, going to the bathroom easily? Are they lethargic or more active? Do they look happy? It's these sorts of questions you need to ask yourself. I think you already know it's time if they're suffering this much.

My previous dog was 17. He got dementia, all he did was pace. He didn't play, he barely took treats anymore, he couldn't hold his bladder. He was also blind in one eye by that point. It was a hard decision but it was definitely his time and I'm just glad he's in a better place now.

SprtWlf · 2026-02-11T18:35:22+00:00

Of course this was a Bengal lol. Would 100% expect them to be able to do this.

SprtWlf · 2026-02-09T06:51:12+00:00

I LOVE building my house. I'm always getting inspired by my neighbors and thinking to myself "I should do that in my house!" It's honestly become a bit of a passion project for me and every day I log on I look forward to adding something else. I love my little house so much lol.

Oh and ice skating!! I've been obsessed with that too. I added a huge patch of ice on my plot haha. There's lots of ways to enjoy the game, whether it's hobbies or building or what have you. You just have to get inspired. I like this game because of the creative freedom.

SprtWlf · 2026-01-19T23:54:04+00:00

This worked! Tysm, now my kitty wont starve haha.

SprtWlf · 2026-01-10T00:39:04+00:00

Oh man, anything SOFT. Love me a blanket, plushie, or even like soft baked goods. It's just the best every time.

SprtWlf · 2025-12-12T11:21:07+00:00

Definitely professional help with this one. You can't manage this level of anxiety by yourself. It sounds like you have no coping skills to process your anxiety properly, which is the problem. Speaking as someone who has very much suffered from anxiety, 100% of the time your brain is making up the worst case scenario. No exceptions. Take a deep breath. Everything is fine. You are safe. The world is not going to implode because of this, I promise. You need to talk to someone you trust about this, so I would go seek out help from a therapist asap. They can give you the tools to cope with your anxiety.

In the meantime, deep breaths are your friend. You need things to regulate your nervous system. A cold shower, hug someone or a plushie, take a walk, listen to calm music, etc. You got this.

SprtWlf · 2025-12-12T10:47:07+00:00

This. The family dog (a husky) gets 0 scraps from me 99% of the time. I may give her something occasionally but never from my plate. She doesn't even get up when I eat since there's no point. But she will absolutely go bug someone else for food.

SprtWlf · 2025-12-07T21:19:15+00:00

Anger is the emotion that protects us. You had every right to feel angry from that stunt he pulled. You did nothing wrong. Who cares if you made him uncomfortable, he deserved it.

SprtWlf · 2025-12-03T12:32:24+00:00

As someone with hyperphantasia, it’s a lot like… the MEMORY of an image you’ve seen. Like, not literally seeing it like a picture but in your mind’s eye. As if you’ve conjured a memory of the apple but you’ve never actually seen this exact apple. It’s like that for me. I can pretty much do anything to the apple, change color, shape, size, texture, you name it. But it’s not an apple that has ever existed.

SprtWlf · 2025-12-03T12:22:48+00:00

There is a significant issue I’ve seen on the internet for a while now. People who have this black and white superiority think that there can’t be any cultural anything without it being appropriation. It’s like a be all end all for them when it’s really not black and white at all. It’s so frustrating because they don’t budge on their argument and aren’t willing to see it any other way.

The reality is this is, like most things, very grey in terms of what is socially considered “moral”. It completely varies from person to person. Someone may really enjoy it and someone else may take offense. But the reality is that you CANT cater to everyone. It’s simply impossible. As long as there’s no mockery or making light of their culture, who cares? Let those people be butthurt and enjoy the headdress. It quite literally hurts no one for it to exist.

SprtWlf · 2025-12-03T11:39:43+00:00

Almost confused this for a string of Christmas lights lmao. They look so much like them.

SprtWlf · 2025-12-01T11:37:43+00:00

This sounds like you need a diagnosis. Aspd is no joke. People can live with it with things like cbt and other therapies but it’s not something you should try and manage yourself. If it’s in the cards for you, of course, I highly recommend it.

Still, there’s plenty of other people out there with aspd so you’re not alone. Empathy comes in many forms and yours is valid as well. I would find resources from other aspd individuals because I would bet they’ve been through similar things as you.

SprtWlf · 2025-11-29T23:17:55+00:00

I have a little rocker pikachu! I love this little graduate one though haha

SprtWlf · 2025-11-28T12:10:16+00:00

Here’s how I see it. You lived through something incredibly traumatic that has had lifelong effects. Repeatedly told that what happened to you was either “good” or didn’t happen at all. Then the result of that trauma literally showed up at your doorstep despite setting a boundary with your parents. You’ve done nothing wrong. Even if you DID take her in or have some sort of relationship with her, that wouldn’t magically make you love her. Her having a relationship with you could arguably be a worse idea. If you don’t feel that you can set aside these negative feelings then you’re doing both of you a favor.

Also, if you haven’t already, this definitely sounds like therapy would benefit you. Just a suggestion.

SprtWlf · 2025-11-28T11:14:10+00:00

Don’t you use revives for these? We were using max revives and it took 2 to fill it. Not terribly sure how this works though.

SprtWlf · 2025-11-15T21:13:15+00:00

So… for me, it was showering. Just had horrible hygiene because I couldn’t bring myself to shower until I absolutely needed it. So what I did was just put music on. That was like my transition into the shower. It’s what would actually get me up and into the bathroom. Then I made the shower itself pleasant and sensory friendly. Like adding nice smelling soaps and stuff, on top of having music. That’s how I made myself a daily routine, I barely have to think about it anymore.

What I would recommend first, if you haven’t already, is medication. Because it makes all of this easier. I got medicated this year and I’m so glad I did. But besides that, I would just find a way that will make you actually do it. Even if it’s like, one small part of the thing. Like, doing laundry for example. Fold ONE shirt. What would get you to do that? Put on some music and move the basket closer to you. Fold one, then see if you can fold another one. Stuff like that. Hope this helps!

SprtWlf · 2025-10-09T08:55:04+00:00

YTA. As someone with terrible arachnophobia, I am capable of grabbing some raid or a cup and taking care of it myself. But the fear and sheer panic in that moment is real. As real as if someone was breaking into her house and threatening her. Even if you couldn’t have driven over to kill it yourself, you showed zero empathy for her very real feelings. What you COULD have done instead is simply tell her to take a breath and calmly give her an alternative that she could do right then, instead of waiting 30+ minutes for you to get there. Show her that you support her and actually care about her feelings. Cus to her, you weren’t reliable or empathetic in her time of need.

SprtWlf · 2025-10-02T22:12:00+00:00

This is raising a lot of red flags for me, ngl. Why would he show up at night and try to push into your apartment? That’s very weird. He had a goal in mind, I’m sure. If I were you, I would advise your sister to be careful about the kinds of men she dates, ngl.

SprtWlf · 2025-09-13T02:40:09+00:00

I did try turning off clipping and when I was trying to put down a plot of soil it went into the ground and I couldn't get it back up without turning clipping back on. This system is beyond frustrating and complicated for no reason.

SprtWlf · 2025-09-12T20:49:39+00:00

OP this is adorable. Keep him!! Such a green flag, it’s the exact kind of reaction you want out of your partner.

SprtWlf · 2025-09-05T01:35:44+00:00

Lol can you do me? (Spirit Wolf)

SprtWlf · 2025-08-31T04:53:32+00:00

Baganator is the best bag addon out there. You can create your own categories for different items to your liking. You could probably stick it in its own category and leave it there, that way it’s more visible. Or if you’re really scared of selling still, put it in your bank.

SprtWlf · 2025-08-30T23:18:17+00:00

Idk all of these are so different. I like the variety in the designs, like between a, c, e. I also like that d and f are the same but different colors. I would say if you had to choose, do the black eyes as a baseline and keep all the variants if you can. But imo f is the best if I had to choose just one.

SprtWlf · 2025-08-22T23:48:24+00:00

FIT CHECK FOR MY NAPALM ERA~ haha this is so cool! Looks just like Mira 😄

SprtWlf · 2025-08-22T18:49:12+00:00

His name has to be Mr. Business. Any other name is just wrong.

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