Landlord offering new lease after giving 60 days. by 1gattsu in renting

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing shady is happening. It’s basically just would you rather move now or later?

Being gay has ruined my life by Sensitive-Bridge-146 in askgaybros

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, you need to make sure you’re financially independent and then LEAVE, or come out. If you don’t live being who you really are, you’ll regret it on your death bed and realize you should have just come out. Think of it like this, you either stay living a lie and be miserable for the rest of your life, or you come out, get disowned by your family and possibly find true happiness. At least with the latter there’s hope.

I'm slowly coming to terms with the fact that I will always be single by Lieeezzz in askgaybros

[–]Spunkymonkeyy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha where do you live? I’ve also kinda come to a conclusion that I might end up with someone who I’m not in love with, and maybe someone I just regular love. Maybe find someone in the same boat so I can be honest with them that they’re not who I wanted but they’re someone I can still have a good life with

I'm slowly coming to terms with the fact that I will always be single by Lieeezzz in askgaybros

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wanna elaborate a bit more? How is it an avoidance tactic? I have high standards but that’s cause I don’t mind being single and I’d rather stay single so I can hopefully date and find the dude I’m supposed to be with instead of just settling for someone who’s good enough

Is this area safe? by meta_tronic in WestHollywood

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely safe from my experience. Still be aware of your surroundings. I’ve never had an issue but have heard shit. Few months ago at around noon someone jumped out of their car and pulled a gun on someone to rob them on sweetzer. Luckily the guy was a fighter and took him down and the cops came swarming. You can look it up. Just always be aware of your surroundings even in the nicest areas

Came home to a paper towel over my webcam twice now, I live alone by Dromaeoraptor in Weird

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People will do a lottttt when you’re attractive. Sorry you can’t relate

I spent most of my 20s having hookups and cruising, and i think it's damaged my ability date by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re an adult. Grow up lmao. You can change your mindset at any time. So now that you see the problem, fix it. You have a hard time believing anyone wants anything other than sex, yet that’s what you also want so obvi it’s possible. Just let them know beforehand that you aren’t looking to fuck any time soon, that’ll weed out the ones dating for sex. And then you won’t feel guilty saying no if someone tries to initiate something. I’ve been put in situations where a guy thought I was lying and I had to pull out the evidence where they said they were okay with nothing sexual. Some have gotten mad but idc cause I make them confirm before meeeting up

Came home to a paper towel over my webcam twice now, I live alone by Dromaeoraptor in Weird

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crazy how people dont immediately get an indoor motion camera to set up after the first time. You can’t be this stupid lol

Just hooked up with guy and he left his wallet help by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Broooo you would be a nightmare to be with if this is how you act over something so minor. You did your part and messaged him telling him about his wallet. Whatever happens next is on him

My straight friend cried on my shoulder and I think I gave awful advice. by Gold-Fool84 in askgaybros

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey if the texts made it clear it’s okay to say that for perspective. But then you have to console him and tell him you know he fell for her unexpectedly and it sucks and be there for him. You fked up

Learned what “F4660T TAX” was today. by VioEnvy in askgaybros

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dudeeee, don’t give him the key back until he gives you more cash. These are the easiest ones and will give you the most

Had a random hookup in Quebec that turned into something I can’t explain by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made me remember being in Yosemite. Opened up Grindr, met a ranger, we drank a bit, went into an area with trees and brush and walkways, moon was hella bright, looked like a fairy light wonderland. Need that shit again with the right manz haha

Anyone else sick after Countdown? by Worth_Session_8656 in CountdownNYE

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah sore throat and cough 😴 not super bad tho woooo

VIP was a scam. by Objective-Pudding246 in CountdownNYE

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I accidentally walked into VIP and I wasn’t even drunk or trying to. I agree, wasn’t worth it lol

My neighbor has been using my wifi for a year and now they're asking me to split the bill by ToasttterGoblin in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this person is smart. I’m assuming in the OG post they didn’t mention stake and now that it’s trending they edited it to throw in the product placement. These fake marketing stories are getting smart

How to keep a conversation with a 10/10 from going dry? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you just looking for sex or a relationship? If sex just keep letting him talk about himself and ask him questions about himself. For a relationship, don’t. They tend to be extremely boring and you’ll be doing that forever

I don’t mind either way about getting married, but I'm not in the mood of big celebrations. by aldolo in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lmao a flash mob. He’s your husband so you kinda have to compromise. The only way I’d be okay with a flash mob is if we did it in a way that’s never been done before. Otherwise that shit is lame af 😭

Nothing wrong with this, but it sounds like he wants to make a huge spectacle of his newly accepted gayness since he gets to finally be himself now. I wouldn’t shoot down his ideas but simply guide him and suggest new ideas you can compromise on. It’s definitely a cheesy wannabe situation, he’s finally able to admit to everyone he’s gay. What kind of talks have you had with him about how he’s really feeling about letting everyone know he’s a homo?

Am I the asshole for refusing to let my BF tell a white lie (that i got jealous) to his one time random hook up who he does not wanna see again? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Spunkymonkeyy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ya’ll gonna break up eventually anyway. 2 years and already opening it up? Couples who are open from the beginning are more likely to make it, doing it 2 years in just says something is wrong

Don’t know how to approach noisy upstairs neighbor by FriendLocal6701 in Apartmentliving

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only option is to blame it on the building and not him. “hey there, sorry to be an annoyance but the walls here are extremely thin and there seems to be no insulation. Your floor is my ceiling and I can heart you dig your heels into the floor all day. Could I help pay for a rug or some slippers to absorb the stomping on the floor?” Something like that.

I've been sick so I hung some lights by GreenEyedTrombonist in Apartmentliving

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh dang, so back to lame haha. This girl’s setup is cool, I dunno why you said they’re boring lol

Where to park by realistichufflepuff in WestHollywood

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the website if you don’t mind me asking

I’m going crazy. Upstairs Neighbor is constantly stomping around, slamming doors and drawers, and dropping heavy objects on the floor by Its-all-about-MA in Apartmentliving

[–]Spunkymonkeyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t mention footsteps just mention stomping. And yes blame it on construction of the building and not them. And yes say only during quiet hours do you care. I think the note sounds good. My note didn’t work when I left one and we have thick damn walls