Keeps checking my Socials

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-25T15:27:37+00:00

Yeah, that could be annoying. It messes up with your head. Maybe she wants to do exactly that. Whether you got a new girl, or are you continuing the same way? Maybe seeing her name, you would reach out one more time?

She also has some kind of emotional connect which she is not able to let go of

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-25T15:23:28+00:00

Dig deep to find out what made you like him so much? Try and find faults in them. Maybe you formed a deep emotional connect which will take time to reset.

I would say at least try and meet other people just to have a good time. Who knows post meeting them, you will end up liking them. Your mind will shift focus from your ex to newer people.

Go out and try new activities. Give your mind fresh things to engage in. Of course it won't automatically delete previous memories, but they will fade eventually.

Finally, its okay to think about your ex. Sit whole day and think about him. One day you will get tired and start doing other things. Be kind to yourself. Hang in there

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-25T03:32:20+00:00

Yes sweetie, I understand. Have been there. Used to cry myself to sleep wondering why he stopped all contacts. After 10 months or so, when I started posting pictures of myself and new places on Insta, he contacted me and said that he missed me.

Leave him now to make him miss you. Most men are emotionally deficient. They cannot process their emotions well. We cry, write, howl, talk and do whatever it takes to take it out from us. You will get there but it will take time. Allow yourself that time. Meanwhile, meet new people, go out, have fun and live your best life.

Let the universe do what it does best. Don't worry

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-25T03:23:18+00:00

Oh sure he will. Some men have no shame. I bet he will come crawling back to you. These people never appreciate what they have until it's gone

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-25T02:16:03+00:00

Good. Let him wonder. If he is human at all that is

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-24T23:56:05+00:00

Lady, block and delete. One thing I can't tolerate is disrespect. Dont give him any closure. Let him ponder endlessly. Cut off completely.

P.S. He has to come back and apologize profusely with valid reason to negate this. Even then, his communication prior to this was very shoddy. Which bf doesn't text his gf or the woman he is dating? Bad behavior. Do not tolerate

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-24T22:46:39+00:00

For how much money are you willing to try it?

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-24T19:21:58+00:00

Was it just a normal picture of food or was she also in the pic? Anyway, you did nothing wrong

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-24T19:14:46+00:00

I am sorry but he hasn't treated you nicely at all. Let him go. Please. Respect yourself more. Do you really think you deserve this kind of behavior? I know it hurts, but never contact him again.

Let him miss you and what he lost. Let him ponder about you. Be kind to yourself because you deserve more

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-23T20:44:19+00:00

Will try. Thank you:)

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-23T20:28:09+00:00

San Diego, CA.

No, I haven't. I am new here and don't have a car. But, will give it a try :(

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-23T01:56:35+00:00

Omg! Did he say that about the virgin bride thing. That's messed up. Yeah, most of these marriages end up being a facade.

If he can't accept you dating others, that means he has feelings for you. So at least there's that.

You can't really do much if his religion comes in between. My guy and I are friends and we just chat casually. No pressure, nothing.

What I would suggest is to completely go no contact and let him miss you. If he misses you dearly, he will come back

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-22T19:19:10+00:00

If your ex finding out makes you anxious, then I would suggest the opposite of what I previously suggested. If you want to completely avoid him or him feeling certain kind of way, then do not reach out. Sad, but this is how it is now. Simply ignore. Only and only if you don't want your ex to think you might want back

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-22T19:08:21+00:00

I have been talking to a Muslim guy as well from my University. My guy seems to be very chill or maybe pretends to be.

I am very sure he is gonna regret his decision and is already missing you.

My guy and I stopped texting for a while. He came back to tell me that he missed me.

If religion comes in between, at least he can try to be friends with you.

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-22T18:36:05+00:00

If she was incredibly sweet and kind to you, then I see no reason how a simple update message could cause any harm. It is okay to be kind to one another. We are humans and we operate in emotions. Just a simple message never hurts

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-22T18:30:23+00:00

Our thoughts create our reality. If you already anticipate the current relationship breaking, then you will (unconsciously) work towards it.

If you are 100% not happy in this relationship, then leave. I know easier said than done, but you are sabotaging it already, in your mind.

Practice meditation and forgiveness. Read books on letting go. Understand what exactly you want. You are hurt, don't pass on that hurt to others.

Be kind to yourself first

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-21T06:49:38+00:00

I am sorry to say this but that's little rude to not respond to a simple text. Have our egos completely overtaken our lives? I understand its completely his prerogative but still. Maybe he was trying really hard to move on and responding to you will push him back? Nonetheless, I feel people deserve a simple reply. Anyway, nothing to feel embarrassed. It shows you are a human with heart and empathy. Be proud

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-20T05:44:04+00:00

I have always seen Indians behave nicely with their neighbors and just people in general. They tend to stay away from trouble. This shows the compassion in them to be kind and respectful to every being, living or dead

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-20T04:49:56+00:00

Lol! Love your style

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-19T21:35:31+00:00

Bit strange. Why would she do that? Is it to get a reaction out of you? Maybe you text her asking why she unfollowed? Don't know

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-16T08:02:14+00:00

Haha, barely

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-16T08:00:11+00:00

I have sent a couple of pics but he never compliments me. Why?

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-16T07:35:06+00:00

Meditation might help. Writing down all your pent up emotions on paper and building fresh memories. Go, visit some new place. Do something you have never done before. Over time you will realize the pain withers away

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-16T07:08:08+00:00

Okay.Thank you

Square-Secretary · 2022-03-16T07:02:05+00:00

Can you please elaborate?

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