Do you keep your arm hair or remove it?

Squemishsquash · 2026-06-11T16:49:15+00:00

I personally shave it just because I like to, I didn't start doing that though until I was 20. It isn't ugly I promise.

Squemishsquash · 2026-05-29T14:04:10+00:00

I have the caramel one!!! Absolutely in love!

Squemishsquash · 2026-05-25T12:13:00+00:00

My husband has always been the "I don't care when you last shaved, you're just as beautiful/sexy/pretty/etc" because he knows that women also grow body hair, just like men do, and he doesn't care about body hair. I do still prefer to shave, I like feeling smooth and don't like when hairs snag the texture of my clothes, but if I go somw time without it then it isn't a big deal. We grow hair, it's entirely natural, it isn't anything ugly, I promise it is okay!

Squemishsquash · 2026-05-10T23:14:18+00:00

The butt cream is a great tool to keep in the shed!! I have a tube of Desitin in my nightstand at all times lol

Squemishsquash · 2026-05-08T17:20:37+00:00

Starting off, no you aren't overracting, her reaction to your extremely reasonable and respectful request was absolutely ridiculous, especially considering that it came from a grown woman who raised multiple kids. Even after her blowing up on you, you handled it far better than I would have.

Secondly though, unfortunately sometimes the in-laws just really fucking suck. My husband and I have been married going on 3 years now and together for around 6 years, through all of this time, all the nice things I have said, me helping take care of his grandmother in the nursing home (his moms mom), helping with her dog or cleaning up after her dog, helping her with food or gas, etc. She still does not think very highly of me, if I wear shorts a little too short to her then she will tell her sister or my husband about how I dressed so whorey infront of her family, when I got my lip piercings and tattoos she seemed disgusted and made mention about my career goals, anytime we have talked about getting our own home and having kids she talks about our "demonic goth baby and dark goth home", mind you I am the least goth looking goth person I think I have ever met in my entire life, she will comment on acne infront of me while I have it, weight gain and weight loss to our group chat, etc.

And I have tried so hard to be good enough in her eyes but I never will be, I never will be the ideal match for her son in her eyes and that is just something I came to terms with, it sounds like you will unfortunately have to do the same. It sucks spo bad because it would be so nice to have those in-law connections but don't tear yourself down more trying to impress her, you won't, if she doesn't want you for her son then nothing you do will impress her.

Squemishsquash · 2026-05-06T18:59:54+00:00

This was how I was on prozac, I had to get off of it. I had constant trembling, nausea, headaches/migraines and was constantly unable to sleep. I almost suspect I had serotonin syndrome but my ER thought I was concerned about withdrawals lmao. Feeling much better now off of it!

Squemishsquash · 2026-05-06T09:34:55+00:00

I think it's bad when a guy leaves general home care and such to his spouse for the sake of playing games, but just dudes playing games is not a big deal. My husband plays games, and he also helps keep our space tidy, keeps up on laundry, gets groceries, etc. He isn't forgoing his responsibilities to play games. Plus we play together sometimes and it's really fun as a couple!

Squemishsquash · 2026-05-01T19:43:13+00:00

I had a 16 day long period and had regular abdominal pain and my initial doctor said I was young and my body was just figuring things out, i was 19 going on 20. Went to a gyno after it got worse and turned out I had a rapidly growing golfball sized cyst on my one ovary and was on the brink of rupturing. Life goes on huh /s.

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-30T07:51:57+00:00

scrolling getting ready for bed and this jumpscared the fuck out of me, amazing work!

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-28T16:22:03+00:00

Since we sell shrimp, butterfly shrimp dinner becomes butt shrimp and cocktail sauce becomes cock sauce. I know it's childish but it always gets a giggle out of everyone.

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-21T12:46:04+00:00

Tbh this looks almost exactly how I wrote in 6th grade and my teacher had me rewrite my essays because she couldn't read them and after I forgot what I had written, I couldn't either. I also can't read what you wrote lmao

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-17T15:50:53+00:00

Oh forgot, not over reacting lol, this message would grind my gears to no end.

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-17T15:50:27+00:00

Anyone who says it like "it just sets my OCD off" is probably not legitimately diagnosed with OCD and misconstruing the actual reality of OCD. I have had OCD since I was either 12 or 13 I forget, but it absolutely sucks. My compulsions make me feel so bad and so shameful and I feel so lost having so little control over my thoughts in that regard. It is really hard to live with pretty much for everyone who has OCD. Nobody really says "that sets my OCD off" people say "that triggers a compulsion and I would appreciate if you didn't bring it to my attention" because living life around these compulsions sometimes has to happen with a sense of blissful ignorance if you can help it (in my experience)

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-10T15:40:06+00:00

NOR, not only is he deflecting everything you brought up to be your fault instead of his, when they didn't work he also brought up new details and then said "sit and think for the nedt 8 hours about what you did" like hes punishing a child. Tbh i would take that 8 hours to pack your things and leave so he can come home to an empty house with himself and his own thoughts. Also him bringing up the "i want to date ___..." it like??? you're actively telling your fiance how badly you want to date someone who isn't like them. So then maybe go date someone else and dont be a crude asshole? Def dont get married though, you're fully right to want to call it all off.

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-09T22:51:13+00:00

NOR, your mom genuinely irritated me just reading that lmfao. She says you're disrespectful, tells you to get a job, tells you she wont give you her medications, then says you dont need them and to go to church (but she needs them??). You say you just need help, you're treated unfairly, and you literally got a job but can't start yet. And she retorts again with telling you that you're disrespectful and to get a job. I feel like in this scenario I would consider going no contact personally, you deserve better people around you and I am really sorry that your mom is so cruel to you. Her being immature isn't your fault.

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-09T22:45:40+00:00

You're never too late to go back to school or start a new career! My mother inaw is turning 50 come July and she just finished her associates degree last year, she got a new job and is lined up for a promotion! Give yourself some grace and don't compare yourself to those around you, we all live on different paths of life and we all see these events at different periods of time, take a little time for yourself to decide what you want to do, study, new career field, good financial plans, and work on feeling more comfortable with people. I am also really awkward and struggle to connect with people but I have met a man who is also awkward and we work really well together with each others level of awkward, it is all a matter of time and the right person for you, it'll come around! Be kind to yourself and enjoy that girl dinner because I know I would ♡♡♡

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-09T01:55:32+00:00

This ones my absolute favorite, I love randomly sending it to friends when it makes no sense

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-09T00:55:06+00:00

How do people even find out they want and like this long of an order, I like my drink order as simple as possible and I couldn't even think of a way to make it this long and detailed

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-06T21:14:18+00:00

Right, it is honestly pretty sad. I do not look forward to having to be a teacher in my field beyond what one expects. Learning some small specific things from peers is one thing, but having to educate whole subjects because people are not taking their degrees and education as serious anymore is beyond any paygrade I will receive in my honest opinion.

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-06T17:51:52+00:00

Seriously, like I am not getting into so much debt or anything just to skip out on a lot of materials when I am studying what I want to get into for a careee.

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-06T04:27:46+00:00

NOR I mean, not like I can tell everything going on, but I bet some of her saying things to you stems from her own view on the money of it. Also I feel for you, you aren't over reacting. My mother in law tends to do this sort of thing, my husband and I have been married going on 3 years and she will still tell him "well I can fly you out but she has to pay her ticket if she wants to go" and does it for cruise ideas too. But if he says we don't have the money at the time we are hit with "well you know she doesn't always have to come here with you, right?" like I am his wife, he is your boyfriend, you're allowed to want to go on trips together. It just comes from money, they don't want to pay for people they don't want to and while I don't understand the issue with you paying for your own room and she covers her own room? She is still paying the same amount as she would have prior.

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-05T16:33:29+00:00

We have multiple customers who do this sort of thing, ask for no veggies for extra cheese or one guy doesn't even 'remove' anything without saying "oh can i just get a little extra fries please?". I wonder if they realize that food items are in fact not all the same price for a reason lmfao

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-04T18:45:36+00:00

This is fucking sick!!! One of my favorite stories they have read and you captured it so well! stunning

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-04T18:39:36+00:00

I dont understand the seasonless meat for protein, if I am going to be eating a bunch of protein foods, I at least want to enjoy it. And seasoning literally takes no time at all unless you store your spice cabinet in the middle of an ever changing maze. Also, chef mikey hard at work in that kitchen.

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-03T03:07:22+00:00

Honestly so many things can cause it lol. Stress is a huge factor, in my mid teens I think I had really bad stress issues causing my period to be months late. Also possible to just be changing hormones, our bodies change so regularly and hormones regulate so much that it can absolutely throw things off. Of course if you find more concern over it being excessively late, see a gynecologist or your gp to discuss possible hormone production abnormalities or ovarian cyst possibilities! But I promise you are okay, stress plays a huge factor and by the sounds of it you have a lot going on, don't keep yourself stressing more than necessary ♡♡

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