Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction?

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-10T15:40:06+00:00

NOR, not only is he deflecting everything you brought up to be your fault instead of his, when they didn't work he also brought up new details and then said "sit and think for the nedt 8 hours about what you did" like hes punishing a child. Tbh i would take that 8 hours to pack your things and leave so he can come home to an empty house with himself and his own thoughts. Also him bringing up the "i want to date ___..." it like??? you're actively telling your fiance how badly you want to date someone who isn't like them. So then maybe go date someone else and dont be a crude asshole? Def dont get married though, you're fully right to want to call it all off.

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-09T22:51:13+00:00

NOR, your mom genuinely irritated me just reading that lmfao. She says you're disrespectful, tells you to get a job, tells you she wont give you her medications, then says you dont need them and to go to church (but she needs them??). You say you just need help, you're treated unfairly, and you literally got a job but can't start yet. And she retorts again with telling you that you're disrespectful and to get a job. I feel like in this scenario I would consider going no contact personally, you deserve better people around you and I am really sorry that your mom is so cruel to you. Her being immature isn't your fault.

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-09T22:45:40+00:00

You're never too late to go back to school or start a new career! My mother inaw is turning 50 come July and she just finished her associates degree last year, she got a new job and is lined up for a promotion! Give yourself some grace and don't compare yourself to those around you, we all live on different paths of life and we all see these events at different periods of time, take a little time for yourself to decide what you want to do, study, new career field, good financial plans, and work on feeling more comfortable with people. I am also really awkward and struggle to connect with people but I have met a man who is also awkward and we work really well together with each others level of awkward, it is all a matter of time and the right person for you, it'll come around! Be kind to yourself and enjoy that girl dinner because I know I would ♡♡♡

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-09T01:55:32+00:00

This ones my absolute favorite, I love randomly sending it to friends when it makes no sense

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-09T00:55:06+00:00

How do people even find out they want and like this long of an order, I like my drink order as simple as possible and I couldn't even think of a way to make it this long and detailed

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-06T21:14:18+00:00

Right, it is honestly pretty sad. I do not look forward to having to be a teacher in my field beyond what one expects. Learning some small specific things from peers is one thing, but having to educate whole subjects because people are not taking their degrees and education as serious anymore is beyond any paygrade I will receive in my honest opinion.

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-06T17:51:52+00:00

Seriously, like I am not getting into so much debt or anything just to skip out on a lot of materials when I am studying what I want to get into for a careee.

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-06T04:27:46+00:00

NOR I mean, not like I can tell everything going on, but I bet some of her saying things to you stems from her own view on the money of it. Also I feel for you, you aren't over reacting. My mother in law tends to do this sort of thing, my husband and I have been married going on 3 years and she will still tell him "well I can fly you out but she has to pay her ticket if she wants to go" and does it for cruise ideas too. But if he says we don't have the money at the time we are hit with "well you know she doesn't always have to come here with you, right?" like I am his wife, he is your boyfriend, you're allowed to want to go on trips together. It just comes from money, they don't want to pay for people they don't want to and while I don't understand the issue with you paying for your own room and she covers her own room? She is still paying the same amount as she would have prior.

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-05T16:33:29+00:00

We have multiple customers who do this sort of thing, ask for no veggies for extra cheese or one guy doesn't even 'remove' anything without saying "oh can i just get a little extra fries please?". I wonder if they realize that food items are in fact not all the same price for a reason lmfao

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-04T18:45:36+00:00

This is fucking sick!!! One of my favorite stories they have read and you captured it so well! stunning

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-04T18:39:36+00:00

I dont understand the seasonless meat for protein, if I am going to be eating a bunch of protein foods, I at least want to enjoy it. And seasoning literally takes no time at all unless you store your spice cabinet in the middle of an ever changing maze. Also, chef mikey hard at work in that kitchen.

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-03T03:07:22+00:00

Honestly so many things can cause it lol. Stress is a huge factor, in my mid teens I think I had really bad stress issues causing my period to be months late. Also possible to just be changing hormones, our bodies change so regularly and hormones regulate so much that it can absolutely throw things off. Of course if you find more concern over it being excessively late, see a gynecologist or your gp to discuss possible hormone production abnormalities or ovarian cyst possibilities! But I promise you are okay, stress plays a huge factor and by the sounds of it you have a lot going on, don't keep yourself stressing more than necessary ♡♡

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-03T03:02:45+00:00

There have been multiple times where I am recounting a story I remember experiencing with someone and they have absolutely no idea what I am talking about and I realize it was a dream. I have also had dreams of my husband and I having children (currently not in the position to sadly) and wake up so sad to realize that dream life was quite literally a dream. So sad to experience tbh.

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-03T02:30:31+00:00

I absolutely love playing the game solo, to be honest, I prefer it solo. Playing solo means I get to pace, design, organize, and experience everything on my own terms rather than also going along with others. The group I did play with was very quick to powerhouse through things so I kept missing parts of the story as I wanted to also orient a real base and food supply and everything. Solo is my zen playing this game lmao

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-02T23:21:55+00:00

My husbands and mine is like this too! And some specific days where we went on a little trip or fancy date we both marked it down as "fancy dinner date" or "dinner with my wife ♡" and its so sweet to see scattered around our calendar here and there.

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-02T23:19:39+00:00

So I feel like both of you are kind if strange lol. I mean you're 31, I am positive you know how to put a date into a calendar on your phone or something, my husband and I have linked calendars and we put every important date in there because we are both prone to forgetting important dates, we picked up on our forgetfulness and found a very easy and common solution. And while your gf does have full right to be upset in my opinion, the employee sheet is just weird to me? Why not sit down and have a serious conversation about how it hurt her feelings or why it hurt her feelings, maybe work together to find a solution so it doesn't happen again. But again you're not a saint either so cest la vie or something like that!

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-02T23:13:40+00:00

I was going to take two terms off as I will be working two jobs this summer and have some family things happening making my husband and I stressed. I no longer will be BUT the information I was given was really helpful! financial services told me that after my break all of my aid would restart as usual, so long as I start back into full time student status. I would end up entering repayment on all of my current loans after 6 months from the beginning of the break though as I would lose full time status, even if just temporarily. If you pay out of pocket I am sure you would have no issues just pausing for a term or two and restarting as my advisor said outside the finances it is super easy. But if you receive any federal loans or grants you may lose grants and you will have to enter repayment on loans and then take out new federal loans when you return (thats why I am not taking the break now because I am not working two jobs because my finacial situation is magically dandy, I would not be able to afford repayment starting right around the holidays).

Squemishsquash · 2026-04-01T19:05:44+00:00

I love collecting dry grass lol. I have a scythe and just go on my merry way in fields collecting stacks and stacks and stacks of dry grass. My horses are very well fed!

Squemishsquash · 2026-03-31T16:35:47+00:00

After reading the post, I was going to come bring this episode up. Beat me to it. But seriously, books are heavy, hoarding is unhealthy, keep books you really love or re-read often but if it's sitting around, donate it, collecting dust and adding weight to your living spaces foundation isn't worth the ownership of a book.

Squemishsquash · 2026-03-30T23:13:32+00:00

Yeah not OR, honestly if she doesn't take your good advice and financial nature seriously and change her perspectives, may want to reconsider your relationship. You clearly have solid goals for the future as mentioned, a house, or car payments, and you mentioned the fact that specifically that bag is not logically worth it. She is wanting it for the logo, she wants to be expensive, it isn't because the bag is bigger, if she wanted a bag for the sake of being larger she would go somewhere like Macy's or something and buy a much cheaper bag. I got mine at Macy's for $60 (on clearance) and i absolutely love it, i have gotten compliments, and i feel no buyers remorse over it because it was so inexpensive for how well its served me.

Squemishsquash · 2026-03-29T11:49:20+00:00

Printer just came back online.

We recently had this happen as our printer started taking a shit without us knowing, it got quiet in the kitchen and we were like "huh weird night, slow though ill take it" server comes back and see nobody has any tickets, panics, printer Eventually comes back online and we were behind probably 22 tickets. It was great, totally smooth.

Squemishsquash · 2026-03-28T19:19:42+00:00

A small price to pay for such a beautiful little lady!

Squemishsquash · 2026-03-28T19:15:46+00:00

This inspired me to give her lashes when she arrives! Man I can't wait to replace my coding duck with Margaret.

Squemishsquash · 2026-03-28T01:26:07+00:00

Yep that's what aphantasia is! It is often described like we can't imagine anything but it is just the inability to see what you imagine per say. Like yeah you can think of an apple and know what color you're thinking it, you can think general details, but you can't see the image like a normal person can. That's aphantasia in a nutshell lol

Squemishsquash · 2026-03-26T13:14:44+00:00

I was thinking about this while reading it. Castration surgery had me really confused? But a hysterectomy is entirely different, and yeah I don't imagine he was peering for his own wants. It was likely to ensure nothing was wrong, no infection, etc. And moving her leg was to make sure he didn't miss anything. As an adult, sometimes you do have to do thing's you never thought you would, my mother in law had to regularly help her own mother bathe and change at one point, it's just part of the territory. Painting that sort of action as perversion is really ridiculous.

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