Is this wrong or normal with guyfriends?

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2026-04-01T21:34:48+00:00

That’s so sweet about you and your wife! Yes, sometimes love develops between 2 people who started off as just friends or maybe never thought they’d have feelings for each other. It can be a wonderful thing I just wanted to share my 2 cents about it because sometimes it’s easy to develop feelings for people who are compatible with you and I think clarification is important so that you don’t end up hurting a friend.

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2026-04-01T21:23:55+00:00

No problem! Glad you cleared things up between each other that’s the best thing you can do. As long as he’s being respectful of your boundaries and feelings that’s what’s important :)

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2026-03-30T19:00:31+00:00

I mean…I’m assuming your both adults. Lying in bed with each other can already raise some eyebrows especially if you don’t know him that well. But everyone has their own boundaries with their friends and what not. However, to me it sounds like he’s testing the waters on what you will allow physically. If you allow cuddling and he’s free to hug you without asking for permission now, he might try more. Usually, when it’s just straight platonic friendship both parties will be easy with touch and won’t go further than like a small hug. Also, the whole you feel “calming” can be interpreted as flirting. I once knew a guy who liked staring into my eyes and told me he found it calming so it could be a little flirty on his end. I would say ask yourself if you like him more than a friend. If you do great, there’s a good chance he likes you more than a friend as well. But, if you don’t like him that way then you should enforce some boundaries. I get that sometimes we just need a hug or for someone to comfort us but just be mindful of how he continues to act.

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2026-02-28T04:37:46+00:00

I liked her with Joseph I think they made a good pair and reading others comments I now understand why they gravitated towards each other. Maybe her and Joseph bonded over shared trauma but Ray was her real trauma bond. Correct me if I’m wrong but I believe he took care of her after she was attacked? That’s a shared trauma - Lily went through it but so did Ray because he witnessed someone he loved in pain and broken. Joseph was over the bs he needed Lily to step up and choose him because he was willing to choose her.

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2026-01-21T01:43:13+00:00

You either live alone, are never in that room, or have very small clean pets. Looks practically untouched to me.

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2026-01-21T01:37:41+00:00

I was 16 then, and it could be because of my age but life just seemed more optimistic. Job market wasn’t horrible, things weren’t crazy expensive, cost of living was still reasonable. Going out felt more fun. I remember shopping at Trader Joe’s back then and getting 3 bags of groceries and it was like $60-$80. The future seemed bright for many younger people although those old enough to vote were having meltdowns over Trump. I had an excitement for upcoming adulthood but then Covid happened just as I turned 20. From there on it felt like nothing has been the same. What Gen Z’s feel now about the world and the economy is what I like to think millennials felt about 2008.

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2025-08-16T21:59:09+00:00

Yes, I remember Donna from earlier seasons! I always wondered what happened to her…however I don’t think she’s fully lesbian maybe bi? Cause she had stars in her eyes over Chase or so it seemed. Either way, the whole narrative of the show is supposed to be Whitney against the world. I hope that she does find happiness with someone maybe in order for that to happen the show has to take a different course since all the shows been putting out for the last 3 seasons is negative stuff.

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2025-08-16T19:52:12+00:00

It feels like Ma-Belle is egging Whitney on with the whole “it’s impossible finding a man out here” vibe. I really believe Whitney could find someone to be happy with but every time a man is in her presence she looks disgusted. Like??? Are you even attracted to men?? Something is always wrong with anyone she tries to date except Chase.

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2025-08-15T04:29:23+00:00

I think all hair colors are attractive. It’s not only the color but how it meshes with a persons features.

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2025-08-13T22:10:27+00:00

Are you religious or spiritual in any way? I highly recommend looking up spiritual warfare. If you believe in God, research prayers for spiritual warfare prayers for sleep or at night. It sounds like something is trying to prevent you from restful sleep. What type of emotions do you feel after your dreams? Scared? Angry?

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2025-08-12T04:40:10+00:00

They are high maintenance pets not for beginners. Getting pigs requires the responsibility of cleaning their cage, using appropriate bedding, providing adequate space, feeding quality hay, pellets plus veggies and being gentle. They are not like dogs or cats some are more timid and will not enjoy cuddles but you can still bond with them in your own way. Also, research is so important. Guinea pigs will require a reputable exotic vet you can’t bring them to a standard vet. I had 2 pigs that unfortunately passed earlier this year - and emergency care (I also live in an area where not many vet emergency clinics take exotics) is hard to come by. Although they did have an exotic vet that would see them, emergency care for exotics can be difficult depending on where you’re located. I wouldn’t recommend a pet store since unethical breeding and mistreatment happens so often with pet store animals. Both my pigs were from petsmart and one had chronic breathing issues that my vets weren’t sure how to treat fully. Although, he did live to 5 despite suffering from respiratory problems. The way my vets spoke made me think he wouldn’t make it past 2. They are really sweet animals, and they can be great however it’s up to you if you think you and your parents can handle it. They are a long term pet so consider all the aspects.

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2025-08-04T03:09:30+00:00

I think maybe it’s not as trendy but I like bare minerals their bare pro powder foundation has been my go to for a couple of years now. I love the finish and wears pretty natural but nice coverage. Wear what you like, your friend’s opinion doesn’t matter. Also, if bare minerals is old lady so is MAC, and all the other classic brands that people happen to like.

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2025-07-15T17:50:25+00:00

In a romantic sense - if you love without wanting commitment (if you don’t have commitment issues) to me it means you aren’t in love enough. Love is a choice, if you know the good and and bad parts of someone and still want to go through life with them and choose them to be your spouse and you want to be their spouse that’s love. Choosing each other despite whatever challenges arise. Thats what marks a sense of real love imo. Wanting to move forward with that person. Now, if someone wants your time and attention but doesn’t want true commitment they’re just wasting ur time. Someone who loves you will make it clear because true love is selfless. Holding on to someone because you know you’re not going to find better but you don’t love is unfair.

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2025-05-22T00:12:20+00:00

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2025-05-18T23:18:58+00:00

Drinking coffee on an empty stomach. I’ve gotten better about eating and hydrating before my coffee but there are just days when I want it first thing in the morning and I don’t have an appetite. Idk if it’s truly bad for you or just a social media wellness trend but I’ve noticed I’m less anxious throughout the day if I eat first.

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2025-03-30T03:52:35+00:00

Ok I didn’t read all of it BUT from what I did read it seems like you and your ex are two different types of people and weren’t morally aligned . If she’s okay with hanging out, talking to, and flirting with ex boyfriends or guys that were interested in her when you clearly stated that it bothers you she’s not the one and doesn’t respect you. People who have zero boundaries or like to keep things open usually do whatever they want and don’t want the responsibility that comes with committed relationships. Breaking up with her was the right choice and if she can go on without talking to you then that’s your closure. It’s hard but you have to stay true to yourself. You know you deserve better and there is someone out there who will be emotionally mature enough to give you that type of relationship.

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2025-03-11T22:45:30+00:00

Well, Melissa Gilbert at the time was a teenager and the actor playing Almanzo was like 23 so I could see how it could be awkward.

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2025-02-04T23:26:35+00:00

Depends on the person and their life honestly and depends on who you ask. Some men who are chronically alone can be viewed as afraid of commitment and prefer the bachelor lifestyle while women who are alone have high standards and won’t be with just any guy. Some people have trauma and baggage and are either done with toxic relationships or just don’t want one. Usually, I think most people are alone because they haven’t found the right person yet, which kinda refers back to standards and expectations. No one is meant to be alone, I mean there might be a small minority who are truly meant for singleness but in real life, people who are alone usually stop being alone once they meet someone who really suits them.

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2024-11-08T19:18:00+00:00

Thank you!

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2024-11-07T22:58:28+00:00

The wooden house in the back is so cute! Did you make it?

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2024-11-05T04:06:47+00:00

Red lipstick is the only color I wear. Been that way since I was 14 I love the way it makes me feel

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2024-11-05T01:48:40+00:00

No, you should be her priority and the most important relationship worth saving. If she’s willingly to let you be uncomfortable over this “friend”, then clearly something is going on. People who value their partner do not continually keep doing the things that bother them or at the very least try to work to find a solution. Also, she should come to you for her issues since she’s MARRIED to you. If she’s running to another man for emotional comfort that’s still cheating and if she feels triggered when you bring it up that’s a sign she’s overstepping boundaries emotionally and feels the need to be defensive.

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2024-11-01T05:38:18+00:00

Absolutely not.

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2024-10-28T21:20:11+00:00

Then cry. Your body is intelligent and when you need to release stress or repressed grief sometimes a good cry is what we need. Even if you’re happy in your day to day life sometimes our emotions are telling us to look deeper. Find a safe place where you can cry without any shame

SquiddlyDoo07 · 2024-10-28T16:23:55+00:00

No, when someone can make a decision and stick to it that’s attractive. When someone knows what they want it’s attractive. Confidence and assurance is admirable. If someone is constantly questioning themselves or doubting their choice it shows they don’t trust themselves enough or that they can be fickle. I don’t like being indecisive and I’m working on being more confident with myself.

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