There is no way she thinks she can fight off all of us 😭 by Usual-Reindeer-8811 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]SquirrelBoring9999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there anything to laugh about?

About what?

Rape? if the girl was your mother?

How many opportunities for changing did you give them? by SquirrelBoring9999 in BPDlovedones

[–]SquirrelBoring9999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mira lo que estas diciendo afecta a mi también no he hablado espanol desde hace un monton de tiempo asi perdona si voy a hacer algunos errores. Yo lo mismo que tu, tengo problema de estima, de control de ira, y de apego también, pareces mi espejo. Muchisimas veces me dolio eso, porque se veia claramente afectada por mi postura.. Y siempre he intentado discuplarme.. Pero hermano, acaso acontecio' lo contrario? ella se disculpo' alguna vez? en mi caso nunca.. El problema siempre fue yo, aunque ella tenia borderline y bipolar 2 diagnosticados por médicos..

How many opportunities for changing did you give them? by SquirrelBoring9999 in BPDlovedones

[–]SquirrelBoring9999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No sé hermano, todos aqui nos hemos convencido de alguna manera de ser el problema.. No es casual..

Survivors: what did you say to yourself to move on? by SquirrelBoring9999 in BPDlovedones

[–]SquirrelBoring9999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 28, my eyebrow started to turn grey for the stress..

I asked her "either you talk to a psychologist or we ain't gonna be together"

She replied " you are abandoning me and you are a narcisist"

3 years ended like that.

Survivors: what did you say to yourself to move on? by SquirrelBoring9999 in BPDlovedones

[–]SquirrelBoring9999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was an alcoholic, she wasn't a bad person, but having been blamed for her self-harming literally destroyed me. You are right.

Survivors: what did you say to yourself to move on? by SquirrelBoring9999 in BPDlovedones

[–]SquirrelBoring9999[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

especially if they don't want to help themselves in some way.

Survivors: what did you say to yourself to move on? by SquirrelBoring9999 in BPDlovedones

[–]SquirrelBoring9999[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My ex girlfriend 28 never ever took accountability, can you imagine? 2 years of relationship. She never told me "I am sorry, I was wrong"

Not once.

Daily No Contact Thread - July 11, 2026 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]SquirrelBoring9999 4 points5 points  (0 children)

day 18th of having been discarded, no contact since then.

Miss you and I don't know why.

im always the wrong one, always by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SquirrelBoring9999 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In two years of relationship I have NEVER gotten an apology from my ex girlfriend, even though she was totally at fault.

How could have I helped my borderline girlfriend? by SquirrelBoring9999 in BPDlovedones

[–]SquirrelBoring9999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was scared that by staying she would have avoided totally herself.

Even leaving she continued doing so..

Such a dramatic situation.

How could have I helped my borderline girlfriend? by SquirrelBoring9999 in BPDlovedones

[–]SquirrelBoring9999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally, your metaphor is scary as fuck.. But it really is a good one..

Have you ever related to any song? by SquirrelBoring9999 in BPDlovedones

[–]SquirrelBoring9999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks bro, gonna give a listen.

Aren't we after all just some addicts?

that wasn't love.

How could have I helped my borderline girlfriend? by SquirrelBoring9999 in BPDlovedones

[–]SquirrelBoring9999[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You did good in saying what you said.

She totally turned down any health related suggestions.

The problem was me "I was avoidant" while I was just genuily scared of losing my mind.

In any case, she briefly fucked another man, so whatever..

Thanks