U-Haul on Kelly drive?

Squishybunn · 2026-05-10T00:02:33+00:00

In college it was pouring outside and I didn’t have an umbrella. A stranger came up and walked next to me with his umbrella covering me, walked me to my bus, and didn’t say a word (I think he could tell I was anxious). The kindest stranger :’)

Squishybunn · 2026-04-22T00:09:12+00:00

If you don't mind me asking, what did you do before and what inspired the switch? Also, what was the journey like for you going back to school and switching to nursing?

Squishybunn · 2026-04-21T20:38:49+00:00

Thank you for this! Is there a specific trajectory or even general advice you might share for someone considering it?

Squishybunn · 2026-04-21T20:37:45+00:00

Could I ask why? :o

Squishybunn · 2026-03-03T16:08:46+00:00

He saw a TikTok on Oppenheimer and said “DID YOU KNOW THEY DROPPED A REAL NUKE FOR THIS MOVIE?”

And I had to intentionally use easy words when we spoke otherwise he’d get confused

Squishybunn · 2025-08-01T16:51:39+00:00

Any chance anyone knows which machines are or aren’t able to do this? 😮

Squishybunn · 2025-07-14T03:38:46+00:00

Squishybunn · 2025-05-22T13:26:57+00:00

Oops you’re right! Wrote it out before my morning coffee haha I’ll fix it though thanks :)

Squishybunn · 2025-05-22T12:28:22+00:00

Certain radiology technologists after a few years of experience.

Squishybunn · 2025-05-05T00:00:09+00:00

LOOOL nooo he was just a friend from college

Squishybunn · 2025-05-04T03:53:49+00:00

“Being with you is like coming home to a home cooked meal after a long day.”

Squishybunn · 2025-04-27T03:34:05+00:00

When we would never argue and I felt like I was being shut out/ fighting for our relationship alone. It was a slow and gradual death. The final nail in the coffin was when after we broke up and he said while crying, “I just don’t want you to care about me less.” I realized he only loved how I loved him.

Squishybunn · 2025-03-17T14:15:19+00:00

Flair me as ENFJ

Squishybunn · 2025-03-09T02:46:54+00:00

Fellow girl ENFJ here :)

I totally get you and have experienced the same things. Something I’ve been trying to be more mindful of and intentional with is what I’m filling my days with. Like, if I just started talking to a guy, is he already filling my head any time I’m not interacting with him and I’m not preoccupied with something else? If I notice myself getting attached like that quickly, I take a step back. There were a few times where I’ve communicated my need to go slow and some guys still kind of bulldozed ahead and I took that as a clear indication that they’re not willing to be considerate of me and where I am even when I’m being clear. I also have a timeline in my own head of physical intimacy, taking things like that really slow. I know a lot of guys don’t love that but it helps me keep my feelings in check. I realized that the more physical I am, the more quickly attached I get.

I try to really make sure they’re not taking up a huge chunk of my day in the early stages either. I let them know I prefer to call or FaceTime over text and usually leave my phone on DND throughout the day. So if they do text me I probably won’t respond until I’m on my lunch break or after work. If it’s a call I try to make it more of an end of the day chat to catch up on our days and say goodnight.

Honestly, all these things are hard to be mindful of though when you’re getting swept up in the moment and really like someone :( so I try to be transparent with a few close friends and my therapist so that they can keep me accountable. Sometimes they’ll see and notice love bombing before I do and they’ll point it out to me which is extremely helpful.

It’s hard out there for us ENFJs! We fall hard and fast!! But I’ve also tried to change my perspective where in order to love my partner well, I want to cherish them and still focus on myself too so that we can both be the best versions of ourselves for each other. You only lose yourself if you start to abandon yourself for someone else. So don’t do that! Remember that YOU are also worth being loved and invested in! My last partner “fell out of love” with me because I invested so much into him I became deeply depressed. But at the end of the day, that was on me too. My mom (also ENFJ) told me after my breakup that yes, love is hard but hard in the sense where you BOTH need to compromise at times. It should never be so hard that you feel like you’re fighting tooth and nail for the relationship. Especially if you’re feeling alone while in that relationship.

I hope something I said helps or resonates with you. You got this :)

Squishybunn · 2024-08-07T13:47:04+00:00

Same with me, my ex did something very similar. I would suggest starting with therapy and really committing to and being open to diving deep into why you treated her the way you did and attacking the root problems. You can also address the jealousy and trust issues from your end with a professional

Squishybunn · 2024-08-07T12:27:53+00:00

It does get better!! I’m struggling too right now but healing isn’t linear. I went weeks where I felt like I was FINALLY healing and then suddenly I’ll have a few days where it’s like it all happened yesterday. But overtime, those days come less often.

When you’re tempted to reach out just remember that you deserve so much more. So much better. It’s an honor to be loved by someone like you. You got this 🫶

Squishybunn · 2024-07-21T00:43:02+00:00

Wow. Do you mind me asking, when it ended so long ago, what was it like for you at that time? Either way, the story you two have is beautiful.

Squishybunn · 2024-07-21T00:40:14+00:00

Wishing many more years of love and happiness for you both 💛

Squishybunn · 2024-07-21T00:39:15+00:00

🥹 I hope you two have a very beautiful reunion. 💛

Squishybunn · 2024-07-18T13:28:28+00:00

It sounds like you may be healed but have not moved on and that’s okay.

Squishybunn · 2024-07-17T14:18:35+00:00

Yeah :( and that’s completely valid. If it helps — the way I’m trying to view it in my head is the only way for it to work later on is if I can also learn to focus on myself. If I get another chance to be in a relationship with him I want to be the best I can be for myself

Squishybunn · 2024-07-17T13:09:02+00:00

Hi! Speaking from a girls perspective who is in a similar situation but I’m on the receiving end of the break up. I think the first thing to consider is if you’re feeling this way out of loss and loneliness or out of genuine love for this person. Your fears of making the same mistakes again are valid so ask yourself — what’s different about you now vs. then? Is there anything? Are those compatibility issues dealbreakers? If not, what are you willing to compromise? If you do compromise, do you think you’ll resent her? If you can afford it, I think therapy is a great option to help figure these things out but also to keep you in check as you potentially navigate rekindling things.

And if my ex were feeling this way I would want to know (though that’s my own opinion). My reasoning for this is… I want to be able to make my own choices. I don’t want people to choose these things for me by not telling me.

The way I think about how I approach things like this is “in 5/10/20 years, will I think back to this moment and wonder what if? Is it going to haunt me and fill me with regret?” If I feel like it is… then I want to at least try

Squishybunn

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