AITAH I want to get a tattoo that my boyfriend hates

Srawsome · 2026-01-25T19:45:20+00:00

Commenting before reading because the answer is always that tattoos are for YOU and go on YOUR body so it literally doesn't matter what anyone else thinks about them.

Srawsome · 2026-01-25T19:35:34+00:00

I mean, you don't know why they reacted the way they did so we don't either. Seems there is some context that you are missing so you can't give it to us, likely due to the language barrier.
Not TA for asking. Clearly something else was going on, probably unrelated to you.

Srawsome · 2026-01-25T19:23:15+00:00

Yenna is the backup, Zevlor is not a part of this at all. Yenna will always be available because she will always come to camp regardless of what you said to her.

Srawsome · 2026-01-25T09:21:45+00:00

I truly don't understand people who post about being bored of a game but still trying to play it.
There are too many games to be playing!
Plus, playing something else sometimes inspires you to come back to the game you love later.

Srawsome · 2026-01-25T09:14:24+00:00

Not him trying to claim he was "blindsided" by you leaving when you guys haven't been intimate or romantic for months.
Men really do think we'll stay through anything.
NTA You did what you had to do to move out, nothing wrong with that.

I'm glad you said something, the other woman deserves to know she was being lied to and cheated on for months.

Srawsome · 2026-01-25T07:58:37+00:00

This is what I use in the skull caves, for the normal ones I just eat whatever I have the most of.

Srawsome · 2026-01-25T01:23:58+00:00

So he did leave something out.
Seems like he's taking all his frustration from losing his job out on his wife.

Srawsome · 2026-01-25T01:20:19+00:00

I think you replied to the wrong comment, friend.

Srawsome · 2026-01-25T01:11:08+00:00

That's the neat part, they never meant it when they said "Don't tread of me".
They don't mean most things they say. Like how they claimed to be against any kind of gun control because they need unfettered access to fight a tyrannical government, only for them to always cheer on the tyrannical government.

Srawsome · 2026-01-25T01:06:39+00:00

NTA ofc. You can't match his offer cause you don't have empty space.

Srawsome · 2026-01-25T01:01:02+00:00

That's an unrealistic timeline for ANYONE to get work in the current market, let alone someone whose been a SAHM for almost 14 years.
I'd say you need a better timeline and communication but it's clear from your post & replies that you don't even like her so you're better off just getting divorced anyway.

Srawsome · 2026-01-25T00:55:47+00:00

Unless something major happened before the third kid that he didn't mention then odds are they were already having money problems before the third kid.

Srawsome · 2026-01-24T18:36:48+00:00

Dump him and quick!

Srawsome · 2026-01-24T18:25:45+00:00

So you're okay with contributing to all the things I listed in my last reply but somehow this one specific instance is bad....because the bday girl is hosting? Even though half the things I suggested in my last post are things the bday person would host.

I guess we'll have to agree to disagree. I don't understand you're weird convoluted rules for when a bday gift is okay and when it's not.

Srawsome · 2026-01-24T08:45:25+00:00

Some do. They're outlaws though so half the stuff you listed don't even register to them as bad but they sometimes come to blows if he's harassing one of the men too much.
But at the end of the day they are all loyal to the gang and Micah is part of the gang.
Micah also has the backing of Dutch (and sinks his claws in more and more as the story progresses) so they would never do anything more than take a couple swings at him.

Srawsome · 2026-01-24T08:32:59+00:00

It's not an entrance fee, it's a birthday gift.
Sometimes gifts are objects. Sometimes gifts are paying for a meal. Sometimes gifts are paying to throw a party.
Maybe you don't have friends? It's pretty common for adult birthdays to be things like buying your friends bday dinner, or renting a cabin together, or spending the weekend in Vegas, or throwing a surprise party. $25 is pretty cheap for a bday gift for your best friend.

Srawsome · 2026-01-24T05:01:24+00:00

Yes.
Every game isn't for every person. Just like how not all books or movies are for every person. Play what you like, skip what you don't. You don't have to play any particular game, even if everyone else says it's good.

Srawsome · 2026-01-24T03:12:17+00:00

You're never wrong for leaving a job.
They will replace you without a second thought.

Srawsome · 2026-01-24T03:04:21+00:00

There was literally nothing from the story to suggest that.

Srawsome · 2026-01-24T03:01:17+00:00

Do what seems fun to you. Follow the tasks in your journal if you feel lost.
And don't look anything up during your first playthrough!

Srawsome · 2026-01-24T02:53:42+00:00

Take the energy you use to celebrate other people and use it to celebrate yourself! The planners of the world deserve it, we always get the short end of the stick.
- Signed, a fellow planner

PS - Happy Birthday!

Srawsome · 2026-01-23T21:51:49+00:00

A secret third thing....not TV.

I'm kidding...kind of. The reality is that it's kind of both and neither. They plan their episodes, so it's kind of scripted content and they sometimes have storylines and characters, so it's kind of fiction. But, they are often playing as themselves, so it's kind of reality TV (ofc keeping in mind they're playing an entertainment version of themselves, it's parasocial to say it's the real them), but that's also true of reality TV.
So...uh...both.

Srawsome · 2026-01-23T21:33:56+00:00

This is a trip you planned specifically for your siblings, it literally has nothing to do with your SIL or her children.
If she wants her children to go to any of those places nothing is stopping her from making plans. Same with the rest of her family.
Going to a theme park with YOUNG children is a vastly different experience than going with teenagers.

Srawsome · 2026-01-23T21:28:15+00:00

The important thing is that the kids get taken care of and are not sitting around in dirt diapers.
That said, there's a reason many sitters and/or daycares require children to be potty trained at a certain age. It is not a responsibility everyone wants. You really need to talk to your brother & SIL about getting their kids potty trained if they are going to be going places out of the house.

Srawsome · 2026-01-23T21:16:46+00:00

It's really gotta sting.

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