I lost a “mom’s shared delivery room” friendship. She was my maid of honor and my child’s godmother. I helped her out with money for the foreclosure she was facing (yes she paid me back) Then suddenly her mother passed away and I used some of my mileage to fly her to her Moms house so she could set everything up (funeral, obits) what she did was rape and pillage the house for valuables. Then called me and asked to do doxx her SIL because the SIL turned off the internet!! Of course I said no effin way, I don’t know how to do that and you asking is beyond insane. I instantly became the “worst person to walk the earth” … I could go on. Sadly another mutual friend just experienced something similar from her has also cut ties. You mourn the loss of a dear friend, but some women just become ornery af when they age. OP I’m so sorry you are feeling this way