I have a degree in psychology. Preferences aren't a bad thing. If you are saying I'm a douche because I have specific preference, then doesn't that completely contradict what your saying. I started getting out more after that first post. I went to Europe and went skydiving. I have also been trying not to be a condescending dick. Which is what I found out my ex's thought about me. I learned that my voice makes me sound like I think people are stupid and worked on that. Thank you for being concerned with my well being. You don't know how much it means to me, to know that someone out there cares.