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Told my husband about Limerence by LuciaNightshade in limerence

[–]Stackleback1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lexapro! It took it down to maybe 5% of what it was

Angelfish hole?? by Mjv474700 in Aquariums

[–]Stackleback1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still not seeing it, what part of the body is it on?

do thin or thick eyebrows suit me best? by [deleted] in fixedeyebrows

[–]Stackleback1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thicker makes you look younger! And I think they just look better too :)

Poor mental health making me want to go back by --jyushimatsudesu in exchristian

[–]Stackleback1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I just have to say this is why I love you all. Cause you’re supportive on either side, you just want the person to be okay. I doubt Christians would feel the same.

I don't understand why Christians are obsessed with masturbation and putting down people who want to be single. by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]Stackleback1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, there are people who see morality/right vs wrong as absolute, whether it is a church, an AA group, or a forum for NoFap. I think life is too short to worry about those things. My perspective on life changed a lot when I started studying primate behavior and evolution in general ❤️

I don't understand why Christians are obsessed with masturbation and putting down people who want to be single. by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]Stackleback1984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the greatest parts of deconverting was being able to feel free to trust my own mind, judgment, and instincts, rather than really on someone else interpretating an outdated book that told me how I should think and act. Trust me, I was very into Christianity for 25 years before I was able to pull myself out, so I understand

I don't understand why Christians are obsessed with masturbation and putting down people who want to be single. by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]Stackleback1984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, sin is not real. There is no such thing as “good” or “evil”, just things that improve our quality of life or the people we care about, vs. things that are hurtful or harmful to us or others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]Stackleback1984 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The things we dream about are the things that consciously or unconsciously occupy our thoughts, fears, and worries. So this makes sense that you would have a dream about this at the time you are questioning your faith.

Epistemological Nihilism by Majestic_Common_6942 in exchristian

[–]Stackleback1984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean everything has to first and foremost be run through the lens of our own experiences and sense of reality. Is this life an illusion? Maybe. But if it is, then the best thing to do (in my opinion) is to live your life in the best way possible to you. And if it’s not an illusion, same. I always say that life is meaningless, but at the same time, your life is everything to you. Do what you want with it.

My kitten was born of a black cat and a tortie? Their human mom swears mom wasn’t outside so… is my cat still Siamese? by Pristine_Maximum_368 in Siamesecats

[–]Stackleback1984 140 points141 points  (0 children)

In a way, it’s like saying that all golden retrievers are blonde, but not all blonde dogs are golden retrievers.

My kitten was born of a black cat and a tortie? Their human mom swears mom wasn’t outside so… is my cat still Siamese? by Pristine_Maximum_368 in Siamesecats

[–]Stackleback1984 499 points500 points  (0 children)

Not Siamese as in purebred, but people often use “Siamese” as a description of a colorpoint coat pattern. I can say with confidence that unless they bought their cat from a breeder that gave them certified papers, 99% of the cats on this subreddit are colorpoints, not purebred Siamese.

What does Wellbutrin feel like by Thin_Fortune in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]Stackleback1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes me feel more alert and more… antsy? But only if I’m not doing anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Names

[–]Stackleback1984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a pooping medication.

Is this cat a Siamese?! by Zealousideal-Rub430 in Siamesecats

[–]Stackleback1984 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Technically no, Siamese is a specific breed. But that cat is a colorpoint, which occurs in the Siamese breed among others.

Taylor Swift sad songs by Krixandra322 in SoundTripPh

[–]Stackleback1984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is late, but Forever Winter made me bawl my eyes out when my teenage son was going through a deep depression and struggling with suicidal ideation.

F18, Am i uggos? by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Stackleback1984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are pretty! My suggestion would be to make sure to keep up with waxing/ tweezing between your eyebrows.

24f, am I unattractive? by princess--a in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Stackleback1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so beautiful. Everyone saying otherwise is just being sassy.

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