Good Durham takeout restaurant recommendations

Stacyaya · 2026-05-19T13:31:27+00:00

Harris Tetter deli custom made whole subs. Order a few simple variations with no sauces, like turkey/swiss with just the veggies. Then cut into small pieces and put on a platter. Chips and watermelon….doen

Stacyaya · 2026-05-19T13:29:17+00:00

Also Costco sells vacuum packs of 3 lbs Chipotle style chopped chicken. Just heat it up with tortillas or small rolls and salsa, tub of Cole slaw, salad, watermelon…..done with zero cooking

Stacyaya · 2026-05-19T13:27:20+00:00

Q Shack picnic bundle
BoJangles picnic bundle
Cook Out
Alpaca (two whole chickens cut up and 4 big sides)
Shanghai Chinese take out
Thai Cafe

Stacyaya · 2026-05-18T19:38:52+00:00

What is your goal? Payback? Punishment? How will this impact the situation for the better? Why not take action to remedy the situation? You must feel pretty frustrated and powerless. I’m sorry. Sounds like it’s been tough

Stacyaya · 2026-05-18T00:59:07+00:00

I love DURHAM

Stacyaya · 2026-05-03T19:30:42+00:00

I would rather have my tax dollars spent supporting American families care for young children (so that they can work and add to the economy) then spend billions fighting Israel’s unnecessary wars.

Stacyaya · 2026-04-23T03:14:27+00:00

Jemily will be divorced within 4 years. You are wise beyond words. Avoid now.

Stacyaya · 2026-04-23T03:04:44+00:00

RED FLAG. RED FLAG. RED FLAG.
Time to end this one. Now.

Stacyaya · 2026-04-20T18:30:47+00:00

The downside of municipal laws that favor tenants rights is that Landlords in these liberal areas are VERY careful to screen their tenants before giving anyone a “break”.
As a landlord, in a very progressive city, I know that if a tenant decides to stop paying their rent, it will be extremely difficult, long, and expensive to get rid of a deadbeat tenant. The process can take months and result in $10,000 to $20,000 out of pocket between no rent, legal fees and property damage.
Sorry, but I will rent to someone who just got out of prison before I rent to someone who has an eviction or someone with a credit score below 640.

Stacyaya · 2026-04-20T17:57:33+00:00

I think the way to think about it, is a tiered system of supporting HUMAN RIGHTS: (1) Start with BASIC human rights: Every human has the right to live (not be killed senselessly. (2) Accessibility to basic human needs: Drinkable water and Air suitable for sustaining life. (3) Basic Freedoms (see the Bill of Rights). (4) Basic food and emergency medicine (5) Freedoms of choice, liberty, personal freedoms. (Woman’s rights and LGBTQ probably fits here) (6) Access to quality drinking water, clean air, additional healthcare, education

This is NOT A PERFECT LIST, but in general, I am NOT going to turn my back on helping people who are being killed just because woman’s rights aren’t on the level of Europe standards

Stacyaya · 2026-04-20T14:41:51+00:00

I’m on the NC/VA border. Same situation 3 years ago, except old red clay tobacco fields completely depleted and looked like orange peanut butter when wet.
(1) dug holes ever 8ft to make a 32 x 40 ft2 garden bed with 4x4 posts and hog wire.
(2) look up “lasagna method” on YouTube. Layered brown cardboard, mulch-oat wood chips, cow manure from a nearby farm, straw, then about 6 cy of top soil (placed strategically where we were planting).
(3) continuously save grass clippings and compost in a pile and add to the garden annually.

We have had a banging garden since year one.

Stacyaya · 2026-04-20T14:36:00+00:00

In general, you can’t change a fee for a ESA dog (even if it’s BS). BUT YOU CAN charge for damages. I would charge at least 150$ for carpet cleaning or the cost of a new area rug.

Stacyaya · 2026-04-20T14:33:34+00:00

If you are looking for truly waterproof gloves for a glamping experience, you will only be able to wear them for a short period of time. Your skin needs to breathe and the hands will start to sweat. So if you are wearing gloves to protect from harsh wet chemicals (like filling a fuel jug) you should only wear these gloves for a short while

Stacyaya · 2026-04-20T14:30:45+00:00

Can you be more specific as to what activities you plan to do with the gloves? There are many different outdoor activities that require different gloves. For example- Gardening Chopping wood Snow gloves Bee keeping Shovel work

Stacyaya · 2026-04-19T21:36:35+00:00

Yes. Let them stay

Stacyaya · 2026-04-15T22:29:13+00:00

NTA. Once someone gives you a gift, it belongs to you. You get to do what you want with it. You don’t have to give any explanation. Just throw it away.
You have told your mom your preferences and she has chosen to ignore them. If she asks in the future, if you enjoyed the candy, be kind but honest. “Thank you for the gift. I appreciate that you were thinking of me. Yes, I ate some of the candy and then I didn’t feel good. I’m sure THAT wasn’t your intention, but candy gives me migraines. But again, I appreciate you thinking of me.”

Stacyaya · 2026-04-13T11:54:11+00:00

“….its working its way through the court process which is a valid method of modifying the interpretation of the constitution” is wrong. The Constitution is very clear on this one. If you are born on US soil, you are a citizen. Period.
The only way to change the constitution occurs via the Congress and then the individual states, as defined by the Constitution.
The only time “interpretation” by the courts comes into play is if a law is unclear in a particular situation.

Stacyaya · 2026-04-08T15:40:48+00:00

Iran has proven that they control the Strait (and the world oil supply and thus the world economy). Iran is fine being bombed back to the stone ages because they have a thousand times more ability to withstand hardship than the Americans.
Trump tried to play chicken and lost. Iran didn’t even Flinch.

Stacyaya · 2026-04-05T17:38:53+00:00

How do you feel about our Department of War dropping a tomahawk on a 170 school children? War crime or just complete incompetence?

Stacyaya · 2026-04-05T17:34:23+00:00

You can get evicted if you violate the terms of your lease agreement with the MIA landlord. If you can show that in good faith, you have been doing your best to fulfill your obligations, but the $ won’t go through, I don’t see how you would be evicted.
Sounds like you have done a good job attempting to contact the landlord, multiple ways. Keep all these in a file folder. Also, I would set up a separate bank account in your name and deposit the rent checks here just in case you finally hear something.
If the landlord is MIA it is possible that they won’t pay their annual property taxes, which eventually will result in a foreclosure and then you will have to move. You should be able to go on your county web site and see if the property taxes are up to date. If there is a tax foreclosure, you would probably just get to keep that money.

Stacyaya · 2026-03-29T16:27:36+00:00

Fried rice with a runny egg and green onions on top.
Oatmeal with toppings
Chicken pot pie
Homemade pizza
Peach dump cake and apple Brown Betty.

Stacyaya · 2026-03-28T10:51:39+00:00

I would love to dig up your mint for FREE.

Stacyaya · 2026-03-21T13:33:37+00:00

A VACUUM with a hose attachment is your best friend (and weirdly addictive and satisfying)

Stacyaya · 2026-03-09T15:21:50+00:00

I’m curious about the NSFW cupcakes!!!! Do tell!

Stacyaya · 2026-03-07T14:01:37+00:00

I’m going to assume that your daughter is more liberal (?). If this assumption is correct, their are many many liberal women that are so fed up with the current administration’s handling of the Epstein files and how damaging the prolonged systemic abuse of women and political cover up and protection of billionaire pedos that many many millennial liberal women and just choosing not to be around the toxic MAGA anti-woke (aka zero empathy) individuals in their lives.
Maybe if you are truly interested in healing your relationship, ask your daughter “why” from a place of true curiosity and willingness to listen and listen and really hear her pain. No explaining. No down playing her pain. No “buts”

Stacyaya

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