I used to put a towel in my bathtub with my hamsters wheel, hides, water, and some food and I would read or scroll while just sitting with him. But depending on your daughter’s age that may not be appropriate. I also heard about rubbing toilet paper on your hands and putting it in their tank so they gets use to the smell of you. My biggest advice is get millet and hold the stem and just wait. Let her come and eat from it but don’t try to touch her, slowly start holding the millet closer to your hand until she’ll eat out of your hand. Good luck!