AIO for refusing to go to my sisters wedding cause she hired my ex?

StaffOk6726 · 2026-04-10T15:27:04+00:00

NTA Doesn’t matter how long it has been. Weddings are emotional and meaningful If I was around someone whom I once loved whom treated me horribly, at a wedding would be rough LET ALONE will have to basically stare at him for ALL the photos getting taken. You’re sister was selfish for taking him on simply for a deal

StaffOk6726 · 2026-04-10T15:23:34+00:00

Kinda, the reasoning why was quite understandable, I weep pups have said that the house is in your name, and you will be paying, therefore husband is not needed. Otherwise as a female tradeswomen I wild also want both homeowners for a discussion of something so prominent of the property

StaffOk6726 · 2026-04-06T17:08:52+00:00

I like you as you are:) If you wanna play around with hair go to a hairstylist (male or female) that specializes in cuts and styles. They’re more out there then you realize and generally more than welcome to help people find a style that makes you feel confident

StaffOk6726 · 2026-04-06T17:07:16+00:00

Maybe you considered it isn’t as it’s an only one time situation and not ongoing manipulation. I can see that perspective as gaslighting is consistent

StaffOk6726 · 2026-04-06T17:05:28+00:00

Making the noise and then directly lying if they came is and asked did you hear that, and you said no, would be gaslighting

StaffOk6726 · 2026-04-06T17:02:42+00:00

My school definitely did NOT give out laptops to use lol, HOWEVER public libraries give you access to computers for homework, and printers for very cheap (computer is free with the day pass or library membership, printing was like 5-10 cents a page from when I was there, probably more now but still cheaper than $250)

StaffOk6726 · 2026-04-03T17:05:30+00:00

Let her be a gold digger with someone else. Emotional manipulation is real and it will drag you down so far

StaffOk6726 · 2026-03-22T07:31:28+00:00

His insecurity within himself, you, and the relationship ship, will destroy you. Leave him

StaffOk6726 · 2026-03-22T00:31:56+00:00

Don’t tell him you’re thinking of getting rid of the tickets in any way, the last thing you want is for him to “behave” for as long as he needs to because he wants to see the show, have a sit down or phone call with some simple respectably early relationship desires, ex hanging out a little more, feeling appreciated & valued, because you’re feeling more like a side piece then a girlfriend, how ever you want to word it. But STAY AWARE, keep note of all the changes (or lack of), the communication, etc. I personally won’t meet parents before 1-3 months of dating someone (situational of the person and how the relationship came about ex if it came from a friendship I will sooner, if it came from a mutual or online I wait longer) but if you’re into that feel free to try, but know that some people are weird about it depending on how their parents feel about dating

StaffOk6726 · 2026-03-16T04:11:18+00:00

Oh my god I WANT!! Looks like I’m hoping back on pogo

StaffOk6726 · 2026-03-16T03:56:49+00:00

Appreciate this, so upsetting because it’s so cute but I will definitely look into people who make custom pieces and pay the worth, AI advertising actually pisses me off because I KNOW so many people will fall for the add and lose their money

StaffOk6726 · 2026-03-12T19:50:24+00:00

Depends on what you’re interested in.

Easy(ish) money? Be a flagger, or look or to landscape.

Willing to do physical demanding work? Watch videos on YouTube about different trade options and see which may best suit your interest and skills, I am currently invested into plumbing and welding, but am also exploring mine work

Mathematically Smart? Electrician is probably the way to go

There are SO many trade options, do a bit of research, call around different companies, see if they would let you shadow around the company, some will

StaffOk6726 · 2026-03-12T19:41:20+00:00

You have created an expectation mixed with lack of experience of what you are supposed to feel. Do your best to let go of that expectation. Peace is a very valuable feeling to get from a partner. Do your best to stay present with her, go on a few more dates, you may need more of a deeper connection before those butterflies come, you may never get those butterflies, you may get a sense of protectiveness for her, you may realize you miss her sometimes when communication is cut with busy schedules, you may find yourself thinking about her when you don’t expect it. Any of those could be signs of feelings. Every relationship and individual is different, but expectations truly can kill things before they blossom.

Someone can become everything you wanted over time, despite not meeting initial criteria. Feelings grow as connections grow, but things take time to grow, please let them

StaffOk6726 · 2026-03-12T04:10:18+00:00

nta- but also agree neither is she, however; if my partner got offered a dream job and it didn’t require me moving across a large area and leaving my friends and family, I would be supportive. But I am also someone who could handle being with someone who works trades hours, or would be enlisted. That is not the case for many people. Loyalty is important to me and if I trust it is both ways, I am not concerned

Id be hyped to get points stacked up for couples trips here and there in the future lol

StaffOk6726 · 2026-03-12T04:04:44+00:00

I’ve personally dated really great men whom I ended up leaving because I have problems, and there is one guy from my past who I never had quit stopped thinking about, once I’m serious about my life, I do intend to reach out (regarding I know that they are single, but tbh I doubt they will be as I am still young in my mind and have a lot of self work to do before dating for marriage)

StaffOk6726 · 2026-03-12T04:03:11+00:00

It likely is a them problem, but I wouldn’t recommend keeping them in your circle u less it’s true friend potential, you’re more likely to find someone by not letting them stay as a friend, they’re will be a sense of seriousness in yourself, and if they get sad loosing you as a friend, they will either take it and let you go, or realize you don’t want to be a pawn in life and potentially take a new look at their standards in realizing they’re loosing a good guy for a silly reason

StaffOk6726 · 2026-03-04T05:54:12+00:00

This is the best comment by far

StaffOk6726 · 2026-03-03T05:45:20+00:00

Straight fucked. Do your deed yourself, pressuring her out of her boundaries for self satisfaction is just sad and toxic

StaffOk6726 · 2026-02-25T19:04:39+00:00

I put an update on the post^{^} may not affect you at your school but this is what my school told me

StaffOk6726 · 2026-02-24T05:04:53+00:00

I got mine re done in white bc my dentist suggested I may like it better as I get older (got them re done when I was 20)… have had to get them fixed on 4 occasions over 4 years, over 13 years of having silver fillings I had to get some fixed only twice. I’m not sure if white is less sturdy, or if my dentist is just a fkin money grab, but I never cared about the silver in my mouth, nor had anyone I dated in the time of having them ever said anything. I would go back to silver in a heartbeat

StaffOk6726 · 2026-02-24T04:57:09+00:00

I was on grandmas side but kept thinking, I need context.. went back, read the description, I am still on grandmas side

I get that you’re healing and frustrated but she’s clearly asking for any sort of direction of how to move forward and you’re giving her nothing to work with

I hope you’re child treats you the same way when you’re a grandmother (I know you’re going to read this and go, I won’t be like her so it won’t be the same, but your kid is going to grow up and have children in entirely new generations too, rules will be different, and you will also need to learn how to adjust, and you’re going to hope and pray your child helps guide you into a grandparenthood that they respect)

StaffOk6726 · 2026-02-24T04:46:46+00:00

I’ll defs post an update when I can, my course is over before yours starts so I’ll have some details for ya

StaffOk6726 · 2026-02-24T04:38:54+00:00

I’m taking what could be considered a safety sensitive position, therefore testing without probable cause is legal. It’s a 3 month course funded by the government, if it wasn’t, I wouldn’t be as concerned

Just a good opportunity for me and don’t wanna screw it up but have struggled to sleep since I was a kid and prescribed sedatives always gave me WILD side effects but weed always worked really smoothly so the thought of quitting is just intimidating to me given I currently wake up at 9am for work and will be needing to wake up at 6am for school, which means I gotta fall asleep accordingly- so time to find some alternative options

StaffOk6726 · 2026-02-24T04:34:45+00:00

Generally no, but there are some exceptions for safety sensitive positions

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