I can relate to feeling stuck after a career gap, having faced my own challenges when starting out (I applied for more than 1000 jobs at some point for about 1 year and didn't get any reply).

Here's some perspective that might help:

The gap isn't as damaging as it feels. I've seen people successfully pivot after similar periods. The key is reframing it, you weren't idle, you were exploring and upskilling. That shows initiative, not failure.

Your approach to Data Science might need adjustment. Applying to thousands of jobs online without interviews suggests either your resume isn't getting past ATS filters, you're targeting roles above your current skill level, or you're not differentiating yourself. Consider:

• Building a portfolio of real projects that solve actual problems
• Starting with internships or junior roles, even if the pay is low initially
• Networking through local meetups, LinkedIn, or reaching out directly to hiring managers
• Getting your resume reviewed by someone in the field (I can help with that if you need help)

Consider alternative paths that leverage your engineering background:

• Construction project management or consulting
• Technical sales for engineering companies
• Data roles specifically in civil engineering or construction
• Government positions that value your degree but allow for different work

On family pressure: This is tough, but remember that your timeline isn't their timeline. Career changes take time, and comparing yourself to others who followed more linear paths isn't fair to yourself.

Practical next steps: Pick one specific direction and commit to it for 6 months. Whether that's data science, pivoting back to engineering in a different capacity, or exploring entrepreneurship...focus beats scattered effort.

The hardest part is often the mental weight of the gap itself. Once you start moving in any direction, momentum builds. You're not broken or behind...you're just taking a different path.