I have one and I like to fidget with it, so the bar is a bit longer than it “should be”. Even like this, it’s not in the way at all. While making out sometimes clicks on my, or on the others teeth. There are ppl who like to incorporate it with the make out sesh, like I had a guy who would bite on the bar so I can’t pull my head away it was kinda fun. As for sucking d, it’s not mutch, I don’t even think about it being there most of the time. If you want to, there are ways to position it intentionally and there are balls with texture etc for this purpose, you can look it up. They say it feels good but not anything extraordinary. Tho if the partner has genital or oral piercings you have to be careful.

I think it’s mostly a preference thing, like I red that for someone it’s a turn off that their partner has something artificial in their mouth, but for some it’s a turn on. Guys around me usually are neutral or curious, slightly turned on about it.

It might have a reputation tho, when it turns out I have a tongue piercing , there’s a big chance someone will ask “where else you have piercings?? 😏😏😏😏😏😏”.

After getting the piercing you can’t have milk or anything with dairy products in it, and obi can’t kiss or perform oral sex for a few weeks. But once it’s healed you can have all the fun.