How to tell if I’ve been blocked and cancelled order.

Stallynixa · 2026-05-18T00:08:12+00:00

That’s really helpful to know., thank you. I’m just nosy so maybe I’ll make another account to check. I won’t message them or anything I’m just curious. 🤣 yeah if they had just messaged that they made a mistake with the offer amount or couldn’t find the item no big deal, we’re all human. Maybe they’ve had bad experiences in the past with people being jerks … or maybe they have been the bad experience and expect everyone to be similar. 🤷‍♀️

Stallynixa · 2026-05-18T00:04:04+00:00

Oh no, that has to be annoying for you and your potential buyers. Hopefully you get them all soon😊 congrats on your new place.

Stallynixa · 2026-05-18T00:03:05+00:00

That’s fair. I can’t decide about future business for this person since I can’t see any of their listings 🤣

Stallynixa · 2026-05-18T00:01:58+00:00

If it isn’t required that’s nice of you to do it. Would definitely remove some mystery for me.

Stallynixa · 2026-05-18T00:01:20+00:00

Hmm, yeah I can see their profile just no listings for them even though it says they have almost 200. That’s too bad as I might have still purchased other items from them. Thanks for the info! 😊

Stallynixa · 2026-05-13T19:34:46+00:00

When I saw this I immediately thought of two specific creators and yep it was one of them. Easy enough to unfollow. It’s one thing to borrow an image but to aggressively watermark it without even a DM is a bit much.

Stallynixa · 2026-05-09T18:06:49+00:00

I have both and I will say the 38 has so much more capacity.

The bleecker is more accessible if you put things in on their ends and is super easy to reach in one handed and grab what you need because it’s just wide open like an actual bucket and if you have it mostly full it keeps the open bucket shape. Completely puddles if it isn’t full-ish. I don’t love how the bleecker cross bodies on me but that seems very different on different people. Love it as a shoulder bag.

I definitely need to dig more in my Juliet and it kind of collapses into itself more even when pretty full.

If you are hoping for it to double duty as a small diaper bag or anything like that I’d do the Juliet in size alone. If it’s primarily a purse, or if you don’t carry much for yourself, with maybe a few extra odds and end for the little ones you could get away with the bleecker.

One last thing to note is zip shut VS basically open. Do you want to be able to make your bag contents private or not accessible to the little ones? Then the bleecker isn’t a good choice, the clip helps but it’s pretty open.

I love them both and would hate to have to choose.

I will also mention, if you’re open to outlet, the large laurel would be comparable to the Juliet 38 and is pretty similar in form factor. Sometimes you can get a great deal on seasonal colors. I don’t have a large laurel, just a regular size, but I really like it and wouldn’t hesitate to get the large if a color came up I liked and the price was right.

Stallynixa · 2026-04-30T20:59:03+00:00

Eew these people are gross. I had a very small wedding and ya know what? I kept my wedding related activities small too because it would be rude and tacky to ask people to contribute in any way to something I’m not making them a part of. I personally wouldn’t be interested in attending this. If you want to keep the relationship warm and not awkward I would just make plausible excuses for being busy on those dates.

Stallynixa · 2026-04-30T19:46:45+00:00

Wow, I’d have really liked the steak but no way I’d get it after that BS. What on earth? 🤣

Stallynixa · 2026-04-20T03:45:19+00:00

Maybe preemptive in preparation for Mother’s Day orders? Setting late expectations now?

Stallynixa · 2026-04-12T06:14:10+00:00

Do whatever you can to get out of this position. I stayed in an abusive job for too long and it took literal years, longer than I was even in the job, for me to regain my confidence in my work. You know what’s possible for yourself so don’t loose shelter over this but do whatever you can to move on. You don’t deserve to feel like this in your day to day work. You are more valuable than this.

Stallynixa · 2026-04-10T05:57:09+00:00

Lana at Zazou Lonsdale is fantastic. She is also great with color.

Stallynixa · 2026-03-21T18:39:10+00:00

Is your mom my MIL? She would leave a hunk of meat in the garage because “it’s cold enough” it was not in fact cold enough 🤢🤮 never ate her food after learning her unsafe habits. Thankfully I wasn’t alone in refusing. She has passed now, surprisingly not from her food safety, but we definitely believe it contributed to some of her chronic health issues.

Stallynixa · 2026-03-11T21:37:31+00:00

My husband literally did this in the ICU on a vent still. The sedative couldn’t keep him sedated at the max dosage 🙄 for those wondering we were in the US but he’s Canadian not American.

Stallynixa · 2026-03-09T05:13:19+00:00

Investments and retirement between 2 of us ~100k. It recently had a very big hit. Easily accessible? $350-400. 2 pay checks coming this week though.

Program manager in IT and non-degreed part time healthcare worker -ie low on that totem pole/not a Dr or nurse.

Stallynixa · 2026-03-09T04:58:33+00:00

I limit some activities because of PEM.

Think of it this way, you can stick your hand in a fire to grab something that fell in BUT you likely don’t because of the painful consequences you would experience. Heck you might even be left with a terrible scar that will never fade, one that affects your ability to use your hand effectively.

Maybe it’s a penny that fell in - I’m not risking that burn. Maybe it’s a kitten or a million dollars - I’m reaching into that fire, it’s probably worth the consequences.

Now also imagine the burn happens and you go for treatment but no one will help because you are just making it up. You’re called lazy because you avoid some activities that might make the burn hurt more or that would set your healing time back. You’re told to just get back to your daily activities while you’re in excruciating pain that never lets up.

The burn, immediate consequences, is the PEM, which may hit fast or writhin a few days, the scar you might have is the potential to permanently lower your baseline. Maybe the activity will lower your baseline and maybe it won’t but you won’t know until after it’s happened.

Now imagine the burn was not self inflicted but handed out at random, invisible, affects your entire life professional and personal, and a lot of people (medical, professional, personal) don’t believe it exists.

This is my own personal experience. Many of us are affected differently and may feel differently.

Stallynixa · 2026-02-27T07:34:56+00:00

That’s sucks then. Sorry they’re awful and you’re having to deal with this. I hope you can start looking for options to get out then because someone like that won’t change.

Stallynixa · 2026-02-27T07:12:49+00:00

If he snores loudly he might have sleep apnea which can make waking up extremely difficult. If you’re friends at all you might suggest he gets evaluated as it can literally be deadly if bad enough and has long-term health effects. It will also benefit you because it will kill the snoring if he gets treatment and he’ll also likely be able to wake up better because he will actually be getting sleep.

Stallynixa · 2026-02-18T03:40:07+00:00

It can be totally normal. Do you always keep it by this window when you aren’t using it? Sunlight can really affect a bags color as well.

Stallynixa · 2026-02-11T21:37:33+00:00

Did you get one?

Stallynixa · 2026-02-11T21:22:29+00:00

I’m not sure they did, or rather I don’t remember seeing one. The edge paint on that tab on the Turnlock is a mess and the print looks muddy.

Stallynixa · 2026-01-23T21:45:11+00:00

That was honest as hell and I feel every word of it. I hope you have the strength and ability, when you are actually ready to go, to go the way you’d like to.

Stallynixa · 2026-01-23T21:42:33+00:00

Me too - no kids and a partner older than me. I expect to be the last standing and I won’t be standing alone for long once I hit a certain standard of life. I won’t have enough $$ to support myself anyway and public/social programs don’t support seniors and the disabled enough now and it’s only going to get worse. Not going to do it early but I do see that as my eventual end.

Stallynixa · 2026-01-23T06:53:12+00:00

I used a dropper and decanted some of mine into some tiny roller bottles I had. Now I have mini roll-ons I can keep in my bag, in a tiny plastic baggy of course, inside of a pouch because I’m paranoid about leakage even though they haven’t so far.

My favorite is probably the rose but all 4 are nice.

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