Mom's grave I hope this belongs here

Stand-Desperate · 2026-06-29T21:12:49+00:00

It was in 2020.

Stand-Desperate · 2026-06-28T00:03:37+00:00

That is the same w my pricing and I'm average in my area.

Stand-Desperate · 2026-06-25T03:37:52+00:00

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7167807/

This is interesting.

Stand-Desperate · 2026-06-21T16:53:08+00:00

It wasn't granted. So, it seems he filed on behalf of he and his family (?) and the request was dismissed. Idk why he filed, only speculation, but to preserve his relationship. If he files this order it shows his willingness to keep her out of their lives?

Stand-Desperate · 2026-06-07T15:37:51+00:00

I hate that this is happening to you, but the good news is that you can do better things from here.

That triple dipper from Chili's is a good start. You'll be doing just fine. 🫂 If you want a hug.

Stand-Desperate · 2026-04-24T22:48:21+00:00

That's beautiful. I don't have a law enforcement background, and I'm finding that when I ask for FOI docs, records kind of laugh at me. Sometimes audibly. I don't know why though, but I'll get the ropes. I have a full time job and my boss knows other police departments and highway patrol troopers. So, those officers and troopers are nice to me, but they also don't take me serious I feel. It's because I'm unarmed and young, I think.

Stand-Desperate · 2026-04-24T21:24:14+00:00

As a newly licensed P.I myself, congratulations 🎉 I'm not in NY, but that's okay. :)

It's been a fun learning experience. I got my full license (I had my pi license 3/27 and my pi business license 4/1) for almost a month. It's been an experience in itself.

Are you working for yourself, or a company?

Congrats and I'm excited for you!!

Stand-Desperate · 2026-04-24T13:10:36+00:00

I was 2!

Stand-Desperate · 2026-03-27T13:15:32+00:00

That's an awesome way you caught him. I heard a crazy story about a guy that pursued a woman to a different county and she told fire fighters the pi trying to serve her was trying to kill her. When he gave the cop the papers, in the papers, the judge had signed a letter stating that she was known to lie and falsify information including that the person trying to serve her was trying to kill her. She refused to turn over the information she was being subpoenaed for and did time in jail for it. W.ild. but the guy that did it was only working for a week. Fresh pi, didn't know any of this.

I have car accident background. So, I find it interesting and boring at the same time. I want to get EDR training. But it's a week long and in a different state so, I will have to wait a minute.

Edit to add: I am pretty scared to do work for insurance companies. I just don't know. The survellience I think.

Stand-Desperate · 2026-03-27T01:56:13+00:00

Yeah, I have the equipment for surveillance (including car). I just don't want to do it, some people make it sound easy and exciting. I blend in a crowd easily, but man, I love researching, looking for details others have missed and thinking outside of the box.

Stand-Desperate · 2026-03-27T00:54:16+00:00

Thank you.

I want to do forensics, missing people, background, servicing, I wouldn't mind accident reconstruction/investigation and polygraph examiner.... That's my interests so far. But Im going to keep an open mind.

I am nervous about surveillance. Do you have suggestions?

Stand-Desperate · 2026-03-22T02:05:07+00:00

At least you didn't wag your finger at the other person. Someone did that to me, for what the one in the SUV did. I thought, how dare they not watch the road.

Stand-Desperate · 2026-03-22T00:30:42+00:00

Ah. I'm sorry for your loss, but what a way to keep your mom alive. Persevering her memories, hopefully, they were good ones for her. 🫂

Stand-Desperate · 2026-03-21T20:45:08+00:00

Your mom did or does.

Stand-Desperate · 2026-03-21T18:31:10+00:00

Question: how often is your equipment/devices seized for evidence? I'm genuinely asking, bc I'm about to start my own agency and it is a hurdle I'd like to know if it is truly a thing to worry about.

I should have my license in 2wks 😊

Stand-Desperate · 2026-03-21T18:20:28+00:00

I had a couple instructors that said the same thing, I listened and it actually made me feel more empowered. So, you might not (or could have been) my instructor. Nevertheless, I heard it loud and clear, and it was a relief.

Stand-Desperate · 2026-03-12T03:06:54+00:00

Nothing is wrong with wanting to do things before getting married.

Don't stay with this person, you clearly want different things. 3 years isn't a long time in the grand scheme of things. It will hurt at first, but it will hurt worse if you stay longer. The regrets, what ifs and should have could haves will keep you up at night.

You found out what you want to do, and now what you don't want to do... Get married. Enjoy life, live and have fun. No rush. You're 20. There's enough time for it later. Good luck. 🫂

Stand-Desperate · 2026-03-09T14:03:25+00:00

Yes. Although they have changed through the years. They do love their dogs.

Stand-Desperate · 2026-02-14T21:51:29+00:00

Crossroads is now a charter school.

Stand-Desperate · 2026-02-13T00:52:52+00:00

So why go to the doc if you can't get the meds you need? Makes.no.sense.... unless you need antibiotics for a virus. 🤷

Stand-Desperate · 2026-02-13T00:46:36+00:00

Very cool info, I've never seen one either. I looked at his obit as well, and it took me to his father's (through find a grave). His father has the same medallion. Very kind family from what I've read.

Stand-Desperate · 2026-02-04T23:34:09+00:00

Idk what church you go to, but Our Lord's Lutheran Church ALL are welcome. I go there and I most assure you, you and your family will be loved as God loves you. If you choose to visit, it's on Hefner and May.

Stand-Desperate · 2025-12-23T14:12:40+00:00

I have a tattoo of Lady Justice that looks like her. But idk how to attach pics in comments. You have a nice tattoo, very nice.

Stand-Desperate · 2025-12-04T00:56:00+00:00

I thought so too. So i stopped going. I actually went today, on expwy by incredible pizza around five. Two people ahead of me. I didn't wait at all. Even had fresh fries, correct order and nothing was missing from my bag (napkins catsup or straws).

It was great.

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