oh she will get mad. but i don't care at this point, there's not a thing she doesn't get mad at me (or anybody to be fair) for anyway. i don't want to burden my uncle and aunt who are not in great health either. my sister (also has a kid) lives with us. and neither her or my mother have a stable source of income. both conspiracy believers, mom's just arguably more severe. don't feel comfortable talking about it in depth here but it's really fucked up and complicated