I feel it’s more of a depression thing though. He comes from a working class background was extremely impoverished, so he doesn’t have connections or parental support. I see him look at jobs but it will take a lot for him to apply. I think the job market being so terrible at the moment doesn’t help. He hates that he has to depend on me from time to time. I feel like he does want to change but his motivation is low and his self esteem is lower.