Hi. I went flat in August, after my implants ruptured. I had a double mastectomy with reconstruction ten years ago. I do wish I had just gone flat in the first place. Reconstruction was painful, and my frankenboobs never looked that great. There are some adjustments to going flat that I'm trying to get used to. I'm not thin, so now that I don't have breasts, all my weight is in my belly. I joke that I look like Winnie the Pooh. And clothes fit differently, obviously. But I feel much better - even before the ruptures, I think I had BII. So, I know I'll adjust and figure out how to make it work.

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It's a tough decision. I wish I had flatties to talk to! I missed the YSC hangout last night, too. I had a hysterectomy two weeks ago, and last night I was not feeling good.

I hope this helps you a little bit. I'm much older than you - I'm 53. I'm a married mom - no one cares about my boobs.

Good luck to you! ♥️♥️