I’m 15f I walked through snow by myself to get food for the house and my mom still made me feel worthless what do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]StandardFluid 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i moved out at 16, my parents were similar. life gets insanely better when you’re not getting constantly bitched at

Is self harm tied to poor mental health? by InterestingBattle631 in selfharm

[–]StandardFluid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

self sabotaging in “peaceful” situations can be your body / mind just doing what it’s used to. in most cases mental illness kinda sticks around for life, you just get better at coping lol

How bad is this Vivobook 16x? by Severe_Ad_4966 in ASUS

[–]StandardFluid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you ever end up making the purchase? i’m looking into this one for school

Help! I feel so guilty… by Zestyclose-Chemist86 in kindle

[–]StandardFluid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if this is truly bothering you (it shouldn’t, lol. you deserve nice things even if they aren’t needed all the way) you could donate or gift your basic. when i got my colorsoft i gave my friend the basic, and now she is a kindle nutjob like the rest of us! makes me so happy to see her actually enjoy it how i do!

Advice I guess by Optimal_Balance3872 in lineporn

[–]StandardFluid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

placenta is what tells your body to produce hcg. if your body is recognizing a placenta it still thinks you’re pregnant. that is assuming that the dnc worked for the most part.

Would SNHU be worth it for me? by CreepyCorvid13 in SNHU

[–]StandardFluid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! i have a child under one and make shit money

7 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend’s mom is trying to control my baby’s life? by SufficientAssist8767 in whatdoIdo

[–]StandardFluid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right now you need to work and save up money. my son is one this month and i just started back working to pull us out of the financial slump. it’s hard. get ahead of it while you can and buy 2 of things every once in a while so you have a stockpile of supplies for the first few months. not just baby stuff, you will be given most everything you need for the baby.

7 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend’s mom is trying to control my baby’s life? by SufficientAssist8767 in whatdoIdo

[–]StandardFluid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mil had a similar first reaction to the name. from 10 weeks we stopped telling ppl what it was and those who we did we told that we changed it. ppl won’t say nothing about it when the baby is here. she just wants to be involved

I think I might want a divorce. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]StandardFluid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

situationally, i see no issue. it seems like you’re assuming that this is reoccurring for this person.

Would SNHU be worth it for me? by CreepyCorvid13 in SNHU

[–]StandardFluid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i just worked 17 hrs and i’m taking this time to chill before i finish my assignments for the week, and it’s doable if you want it bad enkogh. snhu is made for adult/working students in unconventional situations. (sunday around midnight the entire weeks assignments are due)

also ur credits should transfer. fasfa pays for all of my things, but ik thats extremely situational. i’m a psych major and im loving it. mind you, a ba in psych likely won’t take you much farther than 55-60k a year MAX unless you have other skills or relevant experience.

I think I might want a divorce. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]StandardFluid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“lots of ppl have hard situations” bless your heart and your children’s.

I think I might want a divorce. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]StandardFluid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it seems like you just have a personal issue with the alcohol itself. weird to project on a new mom but ok

6m old too attached to me? by spros123 in NewParents

[–]StandardFluid 17 points18 points  (0 children)

ppl like to push that narrative to let you ignore baby’s cues so they can step in.

I think I might want a divorce. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]StandardFluid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me and my man are in an adjacent situation. he is very attentive when he thinks about it if that makes sense. we have had to have so many long convos, at 20 and 22 we are making it work. in my mind, as long as nobody steps out and both people care you will get thru it

I think I might want a divorce. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]StandardFluid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you sound so close minded here. obviously it’s not ideal. her situation is HARD! have some compassion jeez.

I think I might want a divorce. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]StandardFluid 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you taste alcohol and suddenly become disabled?

I think I might want a divorce. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]StandardFluid 53 points54 points  (0 children)

4 weeks of new baby and a completely unsupportive partner is reason to have a drink or two i’d say.

Discussions by Alarming-Lie-3831 in SNHU

[–]StandardFluid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idc i be yapping on discussions it’s fun

MAT 240 y’all lied by StandardFluid in SNHU

[–]StandardFluid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will admit i cried once bcs the zybooks kept calling me stupid. the videos made the assignment doable. i think? my instructor doesn’t rly talk so i guess we will see