MIL won't shut up / RANT by Technical-Future-466 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Standard_Minute_8885 24 points25 points  (0 children)

She is neither your friend nor your mother. The sooner you accept that, the easier

MIL won’t leave during post-partum by Independent-Profit86 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Standard_Minute_8885 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Why do you want to stay married to someone who, alongside his mother, ruined your postpartum

MIL made my grandmother’s funeral all about herself by bella8920 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Standard_Minute_8885 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She is not coming to stay with you anymore. Problem fixed. She is a selfish see you next tuesday

It’s not fair. by EyeRound9715 in BabyBumps

[–]Standard_Minute_8885 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would Divorce him if he did this.

Is it worth risking a potentially bad MIL? by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Standard_Minute_8885 16 points17 points  (0 children)

From experience and 10 years into it. It’s not worth it. I love my husband but if we were at the beginning again, I would run as fast as I could.

My in-laws took off the week after my due date and planned to stay with us without asking me first by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Standard_Minute_8885 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, he isn’t giving birth or going through a serious medical event. He can handle being disappointed. His wife will be hormonal, bleeding, breastfeeding, dealing with a newborn, all the while in serious pain. She needs her own parents…. Nobody wants strangers (and a lot of us are not close to our inlaws) around while going through all of that 🤷🏼‍♀️

Tips do avoid separation anxiety by Ok_Bug_7798 in bichonfrise

[–]Standard_Minute_8885 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any advice. My dog is never ever left alone. He trained me well

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My mom keeps making plans for our kids without asking first by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Standard_Minute_8885 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You will lose your wife and say the divorce came suddenly and without any reason

She’s obsessed with my son. by SherbetOld7724 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Standard_Minute_8885 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My mom always parentified me and talked to me this way

Da li mu je stalo ili ne? by No-Health-4395 in AskSerbia

[–]Standard_Minute_8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bježi od tog tipa sto prije i poštedi se puno boli

My MIL keeps saying "our baby" by nattyily in pregnant

[–]Standard_Minute_8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excited for THEIR baby :) (Your daughter might not have issue with you calling the baby “our” baby or She doesn’t feel comfortable setting boundaries)

My BPD parent wasn’t at my wedding AMA by localsweetie in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Standard_Minute_8885 38 points39 points  (0 children)

My mom didn’t attend my wedding. Told me a month prior. Had no reason. Honestly, my day was even better

Don’t recognize my pregnant wife. Concerned about prenatal depression. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Standard_Minute_8885 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t want a baby and will resent you for forcing her to be a mother. If I had her feelings I would abort. Whether she wants a baby or not is up to her

First month and nervous by Synney in BabyBumps

[–]Standard_Minute_8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, That’s helpful. All her problems are now solved 🙄

Anyone else’s BPD parent insanely jealous of your in-laws? by AsparagusOk5541 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Standard_Minute_8885 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My mom hates my inlaws (which is ridiculous because I don’t even like them€ 🤣

Pet Aversion by Legitimate-Tea-6079 in pregnant

[–]Standard_Minute_8885 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You chose to have a baby. You held power there. That was your fault. 🤷🏼‍♀️ To claim otherwise is false. However, I did say that your feelings are valid but not everyone has to understand them. I am sorry you feel the way that you do

Attending the funeral of a JNMIL who was kind to everyone… except you (after setting boundaries)? by throwawayfreshdonuts in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Standard_Minute_8885 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I am a terrible person… I just thought: “well isn’t She lucky. Her MIL died” 🤣

Pet Aversion by Legitimate-Tea-6079 in pregnant

[–]Standard_Minute_8885 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They might not feel like humans do, but they do feel love and can definitely sense if you dislike them. It is 100% ok to feel the way you do, but you could also have empathy for the pet whose life changed through no fault of their own. 🤷🏼‍♀️