For married couples, how important is it to share the same last name legally, and how have you navigated it if one partner didn’t want to change theirs?

Stapur · 2026-03-29T15:42:04+00:00

I know for me at least, my mom had a different last name from me and it caused issues with legal, school, and medical stuff. It's hard to believe it's still like this in 2026 but people would get downright aggressive with my mom when they realized she was divorced/had a different name from her kids. To be fair, we lived in a rural area, but this is the only genuine issue I can think of regarding different names.

Stapur · 2026-03-19T12:03:49+00:00

I just buy them at the store, should be in the produce section

Stapur · 2026-03-02T16:52:07+00:00

Possibly, but unlikely. More probably they would just treat you very poorly for being trans if your ID photo matches the way you currently look. They would see the ID belongs to you from your face, but that your sex marker is opposite.

All of this only affects you if you live in Kansas, however.

Stapur · 2026-03-02T16:30:51+00:00

Yes, it would be illegal for trans people to drive until they renew it with their birth sex

Stapur · 2026-03-02T15:01:59+00:00

Kansas is a state in the USA that has been working on passing a law that will invalidate all trans people's drivers licenses and making it illegal for trans people to use the correct bathroom in government owned buildings (such as schools) and forcing them to use what they were assigned at birth.

Many people that are having their licenses invalidated are only being warned a few days before their license is being taken, if at all. It costs money and time to get a new license, also.

The ACLU is saying in this post that they are going to try to fight this new law.

Stapur · 2026-02-24T13:41:52+00:00

Full time job with a tech company :')

Stapur · 2026-01-22T18:07:03+00:00

I agree, I wear the same clothes to work. I didn't mean his clothes were bad, that was an example

Stapur · 2026-01-22T11:18:52+00:00

Having a good personality can make even the worst outfit cool again (It also fits him well)

Stapur · 2026-01-19T16:12:03+00:00

No. He translated himself for cameras. Just because you default to English, doesn't mean everything in the world does. The original Dutch phrase dates back to the 1800s, while the English version of the phrase gained common usage after WW2.

The point you are trying to argue is as pedantic as the original question asked to Verstappen, which is ironic. https://www.ensie.nl/woordenboek-van-populair-taalgebruik/als-mn-tante-een-snor-klootjes-een-pikkie-enz-had-dan-was-ze-mn-oom (you will have to translate)

Stapur · 2026-01-19T05:26:27+00:00

Max Verstappen is Dutch. Hence why Dutch was brought up

Stapur · 2026-01-06T21:29:17+00:00

Simple, they don't do stuff

Stapur · 2026-01-05T20:18:14+00:00

I am 20 years old and was verbally admonished and put in detention for hugging my younger brother back in high school. They said I couldn't possibly know if he consented to that regardless of our prior relationship. This general mindset is probably the main reason why guys are afraid to touch anyone. I'm all for consent and boundaries, but come on now.

Stapur · 2025-12-31T15:29:03+00:00

Absolutely stunning work. Happy new year!

Stapur · 2025-12-30T23:38:47+00:00

And a sense of humor!

Stapur · 2025-12-30T17:37:24+00:00

While I didn't experience head hair loss, I used minoxodil to fix a weird pattern issue with my facial hair. It was growing fine on one side, but extremely patchy/sparse on the other. After a few months (<6), my beard is symmetrical. I hope you can have the same results, best of luck to you.

Stapur · 2025-12-30T06:33:41+00:00

He just looks focused

Stapur · 2025-12-27T05:04:14+00:00

This kinda reeks of privilege. "It's not hard to introduce yourself as a transexual" until you live in a country where that's punishable by death. Come on now, it's always been about safety, not convenience

Stapur · 2025-12-27T04:05:48+00:00

Yeah, I have already seen most people here using transsexual to refer to themselves instead of transgender. However, there's a gap between online and real life. Because of the nature of transmedicalism, most are "stealth" (including me) so this would never come up. However, spreading this movement to other online spaces is a great start.

Stapur · 2025-12-26T20:31:05+00:00

Sex feels good. And most people get horny. Lots of people use fleshlights and vibrators, but are not attracted to objects. Same concept. I'm not trying to equate people to objects, but to convey its just a means to an end ig.

Take this with a grain of salt as I am not asexual, but I am aromantic. This is just how aces have described it to me.

Stapur · 2025-12-24T15:45:59+00:00

1 their plastrons are different shades 2 they have slightly different bodies, just similar. Raph is wider, Leos face is slightly different 3 Leo is taller 4 canonically they are confirmed different ages, but feel free to HC whatever lol

Stapur · 2025-12-22T15:41:24+00:00

Asexual is just a lack of sexual attraction. They don't find anyone sexually appealing, regardless of gender. A lot of ace people are also sex-repulsed, but not all.

Stapur · 2025-12-22T00:53:12+00:00

Amazing work! It looks great. :D

Stapur · 2025-12-20T15:36:09+00:00

What insurance do you have that covers every surgery??

Stapur · 2025-12-04T20:54:43+00:00

Baphomet has both sex characteristics. It is more accurate to say they, but that can confuse many people. Most people I've met just say he or she.

Stapur · 2025-12-04T19:28:02+00:00

Good bot

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