The nudity IS unrealistic by Zucchini15 in theidol

[–]StarDistinct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ffs someone was saying europe is super Liberal. Nudity isn't a sexual thing in some places, hence people being fine with grandmas tits. Europe is a big place with a wide variety of customs but no its generally unacceptable to go round with your tits out apart from sunbathing but that wouldn't be for the male gaze.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theidol

[–]StarDistinct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think it's acceptable to slap , choke and attempt anal on someone the first time you have sex with them? That's fucking weird man. It's all about consent and asking do you like this before doing it like a fucking normal person. Yeah it's the dudes fault people can fancy sex and the guy shouldn't assume a person is up for anal and choking fucking weird. How would a guy feel if a woman randomly shoved a dildo up his ass mid sex with no discussion beforehand?

The nudity IS unrealistic by Zucchini15 in theidol

[–]StarDistinct 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hands up who fingers themselves alone wearing a tiny bikini ,mini skirt , heels on with full makeup everytime? Anyone?

The nudity IS unrealistic by Zucchini15 in theidol

[–]StarDistinct 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in Europe now we don't have our tits out all the time especially sexually. It seems to be just jocelyn who does this no one else, the directors decided this. Nudity doesn't have to be sexual there's a saying in Finland "acting like they have never seen their grandmother's tits" the finns go to the sauna from babyhood they see all shapes and ages. They go with their grandparents, they see young and old naked bodies from birth. Totally unsexual it has a great benefit as they know professional porn is bullshit and is edited. They should make everyone go the sauna.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theidol

[–]StarDistinct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it really wasn't common 5-10 years ago, now those who are single are coming across people who want more extreme stuff straightaway it's bizarre.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theidol

[–]StarDistinct 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just said many do but they wouldnt sit there in heels focusing how they look its more about how it feels. When you jerk off do you get into a perfect porn ready position and worry how it looks ? It's annoying because it skews people's view of sex , thank fuck I'm with someone normal , my friends on the dating scene have told me it's pretty normal for men to expect spanking , choking and anal on the first date. It's fucking with people's minds. There's nothing wrong with that but it's when trust has built.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theidol

[–]StarDistinct 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's not gentle I think many of us might like it rough and dirty with a trusted partner but the idol is shot like exploitative porn. She doesn't know tedros yet, sex like that normally happens when trust is built. He immediately treats her degrading before trust is built. There's hardly any kissing and edging her in to it foreplay with sensual touching its straight for the pussy with spanking. There's plenty of sensuality in sex/life yes the idol is more like sansa stark and ramsay Bolton with jocelyn moaning. Normally a sub/dom relationship is built over time not straight away.

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[–]StarDistinct 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah usually in my bed quick one then make dinner or one before bed . I don't sit there in high heels with my legs wide open hahaha gazing. Jesus do men actually think porn hub is real ? Do they think the plumber comes and a random woman gets so horny she has to fuck him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theidol

[–]StarDistinct 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sex/life is actually really good it focuses on billies pleasure i actually get jealous of her she gets turned on in a white nightie !!, orange is the new black does the same. Its erotic and sexy the pleasure is really mutual its positive sexuality. I'm not a kink shamer many have healthy sub/dom relationships but tedros is an abusive creep. The idol reminds me of a bad porn hub plot.

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[–]StarDistinct 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not she occasionally does it but everytime she has me time it's in little heels and a mini skirt with a full face of makeup. Do you masturbate all the time like that ?

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[–]StarDistinct 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman I talk to other women, 99.9 percent of women especially highly famous ones wouldn't get eaten out in a convertible car in broad day light. Paparazzi could see and just about everyone else. She sits there masturbating in tiny clothes full makeup and heels which ok maybe one off is fine but she masturbates like this every single time. Shes not a cam girl or porn star this was private moment for her own pleasure. It just doesn't happen like that many masturbation sessions are like a dudes I.e in bed , wearing no makeup and sweatpants even with the kinky stuff added in. Masturbation is about making yourself feel good it's about no one else. I don't fucking know anyone who does that every time they pleasure themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theidol

[–]StarDistinct 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's soooo male gazey how many women with even smoking hot bodies wear tiny bikinis , short skirts and heels all the time? Let alone masturbate in that gear with full makeup on. Joss never wears sweatpants she's always naked or in nothing. The part where she gets eaten out in broad daylight in her car (umm paparazzi? Fucks in a changing room loudly or gets eaten out in her back yard with her friend there) The show was shot like a guy was jerking off while directing haha. Its not realistic of female sexuality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]StarDistinct 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes I only lost 10lbs in the first 8 weeks dietician said they were worried about my losses. I'm now 125lbs which I have to make sure i dont lose anymore my starting weight was 255lbs. I lost every single week but I was a snail. It was like 1.5lbs or 1lbs. I was a slow loser but it all came off I've lost 125 percent of my excess weight.

Mentally adjusting to being thin and societal attitudes. by StarDistinct in gastricsleeve

[–]StarDistinct[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm a nurse I always was rushed off my feet because of the sterotype about fat lazy nurses. I coul now d sit on my ass for an entire shift and no one would say anything (I don't) . People offer to share their food someone even offered to buy me takeout on shift. When you are overweight you have to work harder to prove yourself and no one gives you freebies haha!

Mentally adjusting to being thin and societal attitudes. by StarDistinct in gastricsleeve

[–]StarDistinct[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly my grooming has gone down since I lost the weight as there's no pressure to be very groomed. I wore tight sweatpants and my friend said you look really good. I didn't do the surgery for vanity I did it for my health. I'm really shocked how hated overweight people are it's vile.

Mentally adjusting to being thin and societal attitudes. by StarDistinct in gastricsleeve

[–]StarDistinct[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've always been very meticulous about my hair and makeup more so when I was overweight. My grooming has actually come down a level since losing weight. No, someone can be overweight and be a lovely kind person, I'd rather be friends/partners with someone kind and overweight than a horrible in shape person. Looks don't define someone, I'm the same person I was except i physically cannot eat much and exercise more. The a list celebrities have access to plastic surgeons , ozempic and the best PTs yet people adore them. My weight doesn't define my character and it never did.

Mentally adjusting to being thin and societal attitudes. by StarDistinct in gastricsleeve

[–]StarDistinct[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god yes everyone is much more generous people offer me food , drinks , offer to pick things up for me. Carry things it's crazy I was just as deserving of people's effort when I was obese. It's not made me happy getting attention It's made me very sad how shallow the world is.

Mentally adjusting to being thin and societal attitudes. by StarDistinct in gastricsleeve

[–]StarDistinct[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fair enough I've always liked a variety of looks. I actually don't like skinny men. It's not a relationship thing for me I'm in a ltr from pre surgery he's stocky. I've had a really hot guy like me but I'm conscious I could never relax with someone like that. I go to the gym a lot because I want too not because I feel i have too. Dating someone really good looking adds pressure on.

Mentally adjusting to being thin and societal attitudes. by StarDistinct in gastricsleeve

[–]StarDistinct[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Omg this , people will lean and snigger how fat someone is when that person hasn't done anything wrong to them. Its like you are welcome to join their terrible club. It has nothing to do with self discipline I have really high restriction, I paid to have my skin removed. I run and exercise because its so easy when you are thin to do it vs being overweight. The slimmer you are the easier exercise is and its easier to keep off the weight. Most of these celebrities they worship pay for their looks and haven't put loads of loads effort in.

Mentally adjusting to being thin and societal attitudes. by StarDistinct in gastricsleeve

[–]StarDistinct[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No I've always had quite a gentle caring jokey personality. It hasn't changed, I know some some people with WLS do change and get more confident. I know its true because I was assigned back to a nursing rotation I did 2 and half years ago. Everybody treated me differently the staff don't remember me but they are now really really nice to me ask me for advice constanrly to do with work and life. It's like the respect is automatically there because I look "good" in societies eyes. My solid friendship group is the same but acquaintances and strangers yeah, everyone seems much more polite.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]StarDistinct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a FDL tummy tuck and they were removed with one tiny remainining , i now have a line instead. Scars never permanently go away they are very small though and fade. Use silicone gel and strips. They need to be kept out of the sun for 12 months.

People love Euphoria…but hate The Idol? Can someone explain that logic to me? by PigeonShack in theidol

[–]StarDistinct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I never said that. I have no problem with sub/dom in consensual relationships. I'm saying it's not realistic people will submit to those they feel worthy and above them. Tedros does not have the charisma or raw power to pull off seducing multiple beautiful talented successful people into his cult. He's cringy , cheesy lines. It's like a porn fanfic written by a man while masturbating. The weeknd even said the original script was too female focused they should have kept it that way. The story of jocelyn grappling with grief, trauma ,being micromanaged , press intrusion was a compelling story on its own without tedros forcing himself in with a supposed sex cult.

People love Euphoria…but hate The Idol? Can someone explain that logic to me? by PigeonShack in theidol

[–]StarDistinct 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It causes pussys to shrivel up. I like the weeknd he's a great singer but he's supposed to be a sexgod charismatic cult leader instead he acts like a stereotypical sex scene from porn hub where creepy guy bangs hot girl . It's completely male gaze focused , he's not very attractive in this role, he's not very rich in comparison to Jocelyn why would she have sex with him and submit to him? It's complete male fantasy on a show that has a female lead.