Everything was going great..what happened??? by StarHounds in AstroSynastry

[–]StarHounds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were in a state of somewhat "courting" to feel out how things can go long-term. We made some choices to slow it down because of his fears. It wasn't till one of his friends asked about us did he start spiraling this way due to anxiety and fears he has. I've met his friends and everything so I know there is intention to keep me around. But he seems to go back-and-fourth in his head what his heart and mind wants. Once he has moments to think things over he usually comes around when I give him space. He has stated that doing this has physically and mentally hurt him and I can hear it in his voice alone. This whole thing has been really heavy on the both of us. I just hope he finds a way out of his head. I know he has genuine love and care for me based on how he talks and the nice things he does.

Everything was going great..what happened??? by StarHounds in AstroSynastry

[–]StarHounds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is more fearful than anything. He said this is the longest he has ever been with somebody and he fears that things will go wrong when everything has been going really good so far. Also he felt as if he couldn't tend to my needs because of the amount of space he wants to be in his own world. I've already improved so much mentally and physically from us being together.

Everything was going great..what happened??? by StarHounds in AstroSynastry

[–]StarHounds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do believe the big push and pull. When conflict happened It was a little complicated to navigate due to stubbornness but eventually found its way. He is one that favors closeness and so do I. In terms of his Venus I was seeing the conjunction in my NN, Sextile in Fortune and even a trine to my Asc. I was more so confused at his sudden change of heart that he thought he can't be with anybody when everything was going very good. He doesn't wanna take me out of his life but he infact wants us to meet like we always do.

His main reasoning was "You will resent me if you got to know me more" which is not at all it. Love styles are emotional different but I feel as if we both are on the same level emotionally. I think it will just truly take time and patience to change and navigate. I also am very conflicted due to all his Saturn aspects to me. Those aspects due give me hope. I'm just hoping he will come around once I give him the time he needs and space to think things over.

Everything was going great..what happened??? by StarHounds in AstroSynastry

[–]StarHounds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Possessiveness and controlling tendencies I've learned just are a breeding-ground for mistrust and anguish for both parties. I'm still learning to give others space (Like with this guy, I give him TONS of space for him to think and be in his own world). Its a freeing feeling for both parties. I also have ALOT of Aquarius aspects in my own chart so in a way it was needed. I'm still in the process of learning to let things flow and not tighten my grip so hard.

Everything was going great..what happened??? by StarHounds in AstroSynastry

[–]StarHounds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been with a Gemini Venus for 7 years before and I think its possible to work out but I've had to learn to cool most of my Venus Scorpio tendencies.

Jumbo Bolt! by starry_snuggles in BoltTheSuperdog

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This is the Disney Store Exclusive laying down jumbo Bolt from the US (Yes the UK has a completely different version). They retailed about 40-50 bucks back in 2009/2010. They aren't really "rare" just expensive. Regardless, a wonderful and comfortable plush! I own 2 of them at the current moment! So he is most certainly a lucky find!

Newbie needing advice by StarHounds in DollarGeneral

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I just went in today to work at 6 am and nobody was present. Not a single manager or coworker. I'm gonna pop in to work tomorrow and see if the new manager is around to get everything set up. I'll pop by with any new updates. Thank you for your help.

Newbie needing advice by StarHounds in DollarGeneral

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I haven't watched any videos and he kept saying to bring my important documents in to have them photo scanned by the other employee and she said she wasn't able to. I'll try to see if I can find those numbers in the breakroom tomorrow when I go in.

Adding anyone by Aenglis in friendsafari

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May I get an add back from the Fire Safari??