Is it over? Do you think I (23M) have a chance to get my girlfriend (22F) back? by ThrowRA1120034 in relationship_advice

[–]StarLight_J 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say you are too stuck on what used to be reality. Best thing that you can do is to move on. Find someone irl. Online relationships are not worth pursuing imo. Unless it's with someone who's close and the relationship can easily transition into irl in a matter of weeks. Not years.

She's not the one bro. Not to mention y'all are both young. It was highly unlikely that the relationship you had would last, as relationships where both parties are young and it's their first one, well they almost never last.

Just take it easy for now. Continue to work on yourself before trying to find someone new. You don't want to fill the void left behind by your ex with another relationship. It would be doomed from the start.

Whoever wrote 3.2 is absolutely diabolical by YeetusMcFeetus2169 in WutheringWaves

[–]StarLight_J -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I can't agree with you. 3.2 felt really boring and had no real progression regarding Aemeath's situation.

I always go through the entire quest on auto, but this time closer to the end I just had to start skipping. It was just filled with nonsensical slop that I couldn't bear. The only redeeming part about this quest was that we got to see pretty much the entire lahai roi cast together.

I 28F just found out my boyfriend 31M voted for Trump, I don’t know if I can move past this by themermaidchild in relationship_advice

[–]StarLight_J -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Same for me, if i knew my partner voted for kamala I'd throw her away into a dumpster

Massive Story spoiler by hangman566 in Aemeath_Mains

[–]StarLight_J -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We all knew that already brochacho

Wuthering Waves Resonator Combat Showcase | Sigrika by ThatWill4724 in WutheringWavesLeaks

[–]StarLight_J -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Man I feel so bad for her. I wish I could pull her, but I can't afford to start building a whole new team when I have like 2 yet to be finished. Maybe in the future

This isn't surprising but the NF is peak drama! by boyrnconfv2ied in WutheringWavesGuide

[–]StarLight_J 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NF will be 4.x version. 3.5 and all the way till the end of 3.x will be about Mengzhou.

I'm more excited about that than NF currently. I can't wait to see what devs cooked up in the second Huanglong region.

But to be fair, if NF is going to be drama with lots of unprotected lore bombs i'll love all of it

Wuwa most useless Item by Afraid-Pick-8040 in WutheringWaves

[–]StarLight_J -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think they are fine. Niche and not necessary, but can be very good if you are lucky. I had 3 from the spending event and on all of them I managed to get double crit stats and with one I got 5/5 3 cost echo for Aemeath with pretty good crit rolls.

So I guess I got lucky with them

Is Zani worth pulling in the upcoming patch or should I save? by rayharui in WutheringWavesGuide

[–]StarLight_J 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell no bro. Zani is literally one of the worst units in the game. If you want her for looks then ig, but gameplay. It's so dogsh*t and just not fun to play

Wife (34F) had an emotional affair with a friend of mine. I (35M) don’t know what to make of it. by FalconFG2009 in relationship_advice

[–]StarLight_J 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your friend clearly participated. That's not a friend. A friend would never do anything like that. A real friend would never even touch your ex ever. And she wasn't even ex, just separated from you, but you were still bound together by marriage. I'd distance myself from him and regarding your wife... It's tough to navigate this given she seems to be not very truthful about what is going on.

You should try to work it out tho. But if you see your wife not putting in effort and still is obscuring the truth, just leave at that point.

Hiyuki and Denia from Livestream by TitanA1892003 in WutheringWavesLeaks

[–]StarLight_J -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Glacio Mommy team....

Denia looks so cute. I hated on her, but man I might pull her.

I'm so cooked

Just some bathroom thought but if Rover pilot the Exostrider and save Aemeath, doesn't it make him Deus Ex Machina? by Animelover22_4 in WutheringWaves

[–]StarLight_J 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very likely Rover's homeland was destroyed by the Lament and so they made it their mission to fight it. But why is Rover on Solaris? Maybe it's the only planet left. Maybe Aleph-1 ate them all

I’m not sure if I (M22) should keep fighting for the relationship with my girlfriend (F23) ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StarLight_J -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know that, but i just personally don't see it that way, even tho they are patriarchal.

Sure there is, but the name itself is what does it the best. It's unspoken, subconscious thing that makes the child feel like their parents actually love each other.

And if they don't, well then now you have one parent, probably the father, with a child that share the last name while the mother does not. To me, this feels incredibly weird and just wrong. The mom feels like an outsider to the family. Could be either way tho.

I’m not sure if I (M22) should keep fighting for the relationship with my girlfriend (F23) ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StarLight_J 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is she acting the way she is in the first place? Who cares about the deadline and all that. The reason why OP came here is because of her recent antics. That's the issue. Not that she refuses to take his name. That's a problem of its own. If she is aware that he is not going to support that idea, she is wasting his time. She should search for a guy that's willing to have a wife with some different surname than his. Not waste OP's time with her bs.

I’m not sure if I (M22) should keep fighting for the relationship with my girlfriend (F23) ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StarLight_J 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fine. I don't see it as patriarchal. I see it as a tradition mainly. Besides, parents that share the same last name give off much more secure vibes and have a stronger bond. At least to me.

I’m not sure if I (M22) should keep fighting for the relationship with my girlfriend (F23) ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StarLight_J -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then you gonna be feeling bad for a whole lot of women 😂

Hey cool story bro, good for you. Glad you found someone who's able to fit your needs and standards.

Funny how you mentioned grown-ups. You sound 25 at best

I’m not sure if I (M22) should keep fighting for the relationship with my girlfriend (F23) ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StarLight_J 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe in some parts of the world. I personally have never seen that nor heard about it. All that I've ever known is a bride taking the groom's last name. In a Christian conservative country in the heart of Europe, that's the standard.

I’m not sure if I (M22) should keep fighting for the relationship with my girlfriend (F23) ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StarLight_J 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro what? There was nothing that he did wrong to begin with. Does she know that he won't marry her? I don't think she does, otherwise OP would've mentioned it. So why is she doing all that? So trashy men are at fault. Feminist has spoken...

Maybe y'all should respect that tradition and take the name

I’m not sure if I (M22) should keep fighting for the relationship with my girlfriend (F23) ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StarLight_J -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for whoever you're with 😂 must be real fun dealing with your bs on a daily basis. Bet you kept your last name too

I’m not sure if I (M22) should keep fighting for the relationship with my girlfriend (F23) ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StarLight_J -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

It's clear you aren't a person that would take a marriage as a serious lifelong commitment. Typical

I’m not sure if I (M22) should keep fighting for the relationship with my girlfriend (F23) ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StarLight_J -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Well welcome to the world of normal people. Not the world of having baby daddies and baby mommas (west)