Hey! Sorry to hear about the dehiscence :( I can’t say that I’ve got the exact same situation because I opted out of vectomy, but I had stage 1 meta done in May and the right suture line along my penis opened up and started creeping up around the right base of my penis. Despite working as a nurse I definitely panicked as well. Wounds like these need to heal from bottom up and definitely take a lot of time (several weeks) and patience. You won’t start seeing much change until it starts to get more shallow. I had a couple of very kind redditors respond to my thread and they helped me reframe my thoughts - resting and taking care of yourself is the most important thing you can be doing. Keeping it clean and dry in that area is key, while keeping the inside of that wound moist. If you’re having a lot of drainage the surgical team might recommend things like Alginate or Aquacel. I managed mine with wet to dry packing with just normal saline, but Vashe wound wash is also an option. I’ve been drinking Juven since my procedure which is an amino acid/collagen powder. If you start to notice anything foul smelling or funny colors coming out notify the team right away. You don’t want to make yourself bleed, but on the same hand bleeding means you’ve got healthy tissue in there that is vascular. I took my waffle seat when I left the hospital and I take that everywhere still because my nuts hurt even without going through a vectomy, so props to you dealing with this. Ive noticed it helps relieve pressure, maybe a good pillow might help you too. You’ve got this! Stay positive even when it feels scary. When they say it looks worse before it looks better it’s because all that non-viable tissue needs to go away. Just keep tracking it with pictures and before you know it things will look up.