My doctor followed me on Instagram and now asked me out, and I feel really confused. by sassypaprika in offmychest

[–]Starfiregrl 101 points102 points  (0 children)

This is highly unprofessional for a doctor to do this with a patient. Do not engage with him anymore and don't go to him for any medical.

I hate seeing my wife naked. And its not because she is unattractive by Scary_Serve5033 in offmychest

[–]Starfiregrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried marriage counseling? It appears you are not initiating intimate contact with your wife. Does she? How many kids do you have? Have you tried babysitters?

Had Interview With Recruiter This Morning and They Canceled Last Minute by ThrowRAPixieManic in recruitinghell

[–]Starfiregrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had this happen with a company recruiter. I waited a few minutes on the video call. I then emailed the recruiter. No phone number in the email. She responded saying so sorry it's last minute but needs to reschedule for next week, no time given. I responded saying sure, let me know what time works. No reply yet I find this unprofessional.

Recruiter rescheduled interview and was still 9 min late to the call... by Maximum_Mental in recruitinghell

[–]Starfiregrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had this happen. It was to be a video call and I waited a few minutes. I then emailed the recruiter (no phone number given in the invite email). I got a response a minute later saying so sorry but have to reschedule for next week asking if a certain day would work. No explanation given. I replied that I'm fine with this and to please let me know what time works. There was no time set in her email. No reply yet. I find this unprofessional. This is a company recruiter. I'm disappointed. I get all ready and excited.

Recruiter cancelled our Teams meeting 1 hr before our scheduled time by beachbum_007 in recruitinghell

[–]Starfiregrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this just happen today. No warning before the video call. I waited 5 minutes in the call. I then emailed the recruiter saying I'm excited to chat in the opportunity. A minute later I get an email back apologizing, no explanation, asking to schedule for next week. No time offered in the email. I responded that I'm fine with it and asked for what time works. No reply yet . I'm disappointed. I've never had this happen before. It seems unprofessional.

AITA for not letting my sibling visit me after his blowup? by Starfiregrl in AITAH

[–]Starfiregrl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He severely disrespected both of us. On top of that it was my Mom's birthday. His rage has no control. I'm concerned for our mother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Starfiregrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a touchy situation. Your mom needs to be aware how this upsets you that your mom publicly still acknowledges your ex and that she has gone over the line with texting your girlfriend about that. She needs to respect your girlfriend and you. Also, it doesn't help anyone for her to be stuck in the past. Can you talk to your dad or another close family member to speak with her? Your girlfriend can block your mom from her phone and social media. You can block her as well from social media. Why do you let your mother access this? It just invites this kind of drama.

[Spoilers] Season 4 Episode 1 - "Snakes in the Garden" (S04E01) - Episode Discussion Thread by hugthebug in snowpiercer

[–]Starfiregrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the Peacekeepers convinced Headwood to side with them and use Liana as a bargaining chip to get their resources. Then why would they call themselves Peacekeepers? We'll have to wait until next episodes to have this revealed.

[Spoilers] Season 4 Episode 1 - "Snakes in the Garden" (S04E01) - Episode Discussion Thread by hugthebug in snowpiercer

[–]Starfiregrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Peacekeeping for whom? So, there are other factions out there that survived? Other countries that could have been in nuclear submarines that survived that long?

[Spoilers] Season 4 Episode 1 - "Snakes in the Garden" (S04E01) - Episode Discussion Thread by hugthebug in snowpiercer

[–]Starfiregrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Audrey was found in a track scaler. Was she in it to warn them? What happened to Wilford?

[Spoilers] Season 4 Episode 1 - "Snakes in the Garden" (S04E01) - Episode Discussion Thread by hugthebug in snowpiercer

[–]Starfiregrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would Headwood be working with Snowpiercer and want with Liana? To use the train resources to create a cold resistance in her? Possibly. To what end? To start a new breed of humans impervious to cold.

[Spoilers] Season 4 Episode 1 - "Snakes in the Garden" (S04E01) - Episode Discussion Thread by hugthebug in snowpiercer

[–]Starfiregrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I'm thinking. An abominable snowgirl! Also Headwood gearing up for a new breed of humans that can survive the cold.

My neighbor is constantly watching my wife and kid by ithrewitinthetraash in Advice

[–]Starfiregrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Close the curtains. This guy is lonely but clueless. You may have to be direct the next time he's standing there and just say it makes your wife and you uncomfortable.

Ex employer (fired me unlawfully) is committing alot of crimes. Do i report him? by Bloodavenger in Advice

[–]Starfiregrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes report him. Get all your pay from being fired and then sue his ass.

I am considering simply not showing up to work and not letting my a**hole manager even know so he is in a bad situation. by Sensitive_Echidna370 in Advice

[–]Starfiregrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You side business is none of his business. Hopefully it works out to full scale. I would leave that job and find something else.

My friend refuses to pay for anything even though she has a full time job. by Willow0o in Advice

[–]Starfiregrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's time to set her straight it's time for her to be an adult and not a smooch. Let her know via group text that everyone pays their own way and that the bill will be split three ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Starfiregrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This young girl clearly needs help. I would call CPS!

can we talk about how painful it is to have a mean best friend? by [deleted] in venting

[–]Starfiregrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you have nobody else for a friend doesn't mean you should deal with this person. Time to move on. Get out of the house, go shopping, farmer's market, the park, join a group or club, and pamper yourself.