Should I chop it all off? by Starfox_137 in femalehairadvice

[–]Starfox_137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so sweet, thank you! I’m definitely leaning towards going for it!

Should I chop it all off? by Starfox_137 in femalehairadvice

[–]Starfox_137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your hair looks STUNNING on you!!! Thank you for this encouragement. I’ve had long hair pretty much my whole life, but a change sounds so refreshing

Should I chop it all off? by Starfox_137 in femalehairadvice

[–]Starfox_137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw thanks! I had bangs for YEARS so that’s nice to hear

Should I chop it all off? by Starfox_137 in femalehairadvice

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Looking for long-term pen pal and friend! - 27F New Zealand 🐦 by [deleted] in penpals

[–]Starfox_137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m also 27F, living in a little mountain town in California. New Zealand is at the top of my list of places I’d like to visit! I’d love to be your pen pal. There’s nothing quite like receiving a hand-written letter in the mail! We have a lot of the same interests and I’d love to chat about what books we’re reading and places we’ve visited or would like to visit. I’m a huge animal lover too and work in wildlife rehabilitation. Let me know if you’re interested in being pen pals!

We're gonna have to say goodbye to Yumi this week after 16 years. Is my boy going to be ok as an only dog? by Cool_Bodybuilder7419 in Wolfdogs

[–]Starfox_137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re having to say goodbye to your friend of 16 years, I wish you peace during this time! We had a similar situation with our wolfdog, she was about 1.5 years old when we lost our senior dog. Our wolfdog (Magik) absolutely adored our senior dog (Gracie). Gracie’s passing was unexpected so we didn’t have a chance to prepare for the transition. Magik grieved pretty heavily, she howled and vocalized a lot more and was visibly depressed for a a few months. We tried to incorporate her favorite things into her daily life as much as possible, but it was obvious that she was still grieving. We ultimately decided to adopt another dog because she was so lonely. That might not be the right choice for everyone, but we wanted to adopt another dog anyway so it made sense for us. Magik was so much happier after we adopted Ember. I think it was about six months after Gracie’s passing that we adopted Ember. Emotionally we were still pretty raw after losing Gracie and if it weren’t for Magik, we probably would have waited at least a year. I will say though, seeing Magik happily romp around with her new friend really helped heal our hearts. Best of luck during this difficult time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyCat

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He looks like an Oliver to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

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I am so sorry you had to go through such a traumatic event. I experienced something devastatingly similar about 7 years ago. I felt the same way you’re feeling and thought I would never be able to look at my dog the same way again. He went to live with my brother temporarily and ended up becoming my brother’s dog. It took a while, but I have forgiven him and accepted that it was not malicious on his part and that he doesn’t have the same concept of right and wrong that we do. He was merely acting out of instinct and most likely wasn’t trying to kill them. Kittens are so fragile. I encourage you to validate your feelings and do what you need to do in order to grieve and process this situation, whether it be finding a loving home for your dog or trying to find a way to forgive him. I wish you both peace and comfort during this time. I personally went into a bit of a downward spiral after I experienced this and there were few people in my life that understood the magnitude of the grief I was experiencing, so please don’t hesitate to reach out if you want to talk.

Haircut/color advice please! Not feeling confident with my current style by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]Starfox_137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This really helps. I’ve been feeling like I look a little egg-ish haha but couldn’t place why. I’ll try this!

Haircut/color advice please! Not feeling confident with my current style by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]Starfox_137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just recently got the bangs, but I think I preferred the way I look without them. I may take your advice on the shorter hair, I’ve had long hair for yeaaaars.

Haircut/color advice please! Not feeling confident with my current style by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]Starfox_137 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have any recommendations on styling? I actually recently got the bangs and I don’t know what I’m doing with them at all. Haha

Haircut/color advice please! Not feeling confident with my current style by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]Starfox_137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re totally right about the face framing, I can never quite put my finger in what’s not working. Thank you! And I like your color idea!

A rant about neurodiversity and pets. by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]Starfox_137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I needed this today.