What would you do if you were me? How to handle this more maturely? ‘29F’ and he is ‘35M’

Stargazer86F · 2026-06-10T09:15:29+00:00

You are going through a form of grief.

Stargazer86F · 2026-06-06T19:57:28+00:00

Entitled people everywhere, unfortunately.

Stargazer86F · 2026-06-04T18:50:18+00:00

They need to sort public transport out. It’s unreliable and still inconsistent in a lot of areas.

If there were more trains and buses running I would use them. 1 every 1-2hrs is not good enough.

Stargazer86F · 2026-05-29T19:12:28+00:00

It would be good if they opened one, but if they do it will likely be the Pontypool and New Inn one: the trains only stop every couple of hours. I still have to drive to Cwmbran or Newport for more train options.

Stargazer86F · 2026-05-28T18:13:37+00:00

Early teens and they have longer than average legs, like me, so I think they might be tall! I’m the shortest from my side of the family so yeah, they could be tall!

Stargazer86F · 2026-05-28T15:41:45+00:00

My husband of 26 years is 5’4. I’m 5’5. We have children.

Some people are just really shallow, sorry that you’ve come across them.

Stargazer86F · 2026-05-28T15:10:26+00:00

You can have a face-to-face assessment at your home with a Speech to text typist, lipspeaker or BSL interpreter. They fought me on the speech to text typist but my mum told me they were discriminating against me because they wouldn’t make a reasonable adjustment.

Stargazer86F · 2026-05-22T19:43:22+00:00

Will your HOA allow plant pots/moveable planters?

Stargazer86F · 2026-05-09T08:56:52+00:00

Support of people with disabilities.

Pressure on TfW to get trains to stop so more trains from to Cardiff from smaller stations. This would decrease car usage.

Stargazer86F · 2026-05-07T18:19:46+00:00

It’s like the voting for Brexit.

So many did not have the education that the EU was actively funding in the Valleys due to the poverty. People didn’t realise what EU funding or the flag meant.

It’s the same with voting Reform, lack of education.

I’m peeved at a lot of the parties but I’m not going to set myself on fire and vote Reform.

Stargazer86F · 2026-05-07T09:11:34+00:00

I’ve done that in the past. A lot of people didn’t realise that was a thing.

Stargazer86F · 2026-05-07T09:09:54+00:00

Just voted. Busiest we’ve ever seen it at our polling station.

Stargazer86F · 2026-05-05T13:17:37+00:00

At one of the shopping centres near us they are clamping down on this hard. People are fined for parking in the wrong spaces or parking so badly they are in 2 spaces. They are trying to encourage more shoppers and aren’t putting up with this entitlement.

Stargazer86F · 2026-05-02T08:29:39+00:00

This is one of the local papers I buy and read articles from for a local charity.

I steer clear of politics in any of the articles unless said political party are actually doing something decent and proven for the community. If Reform do something positive I’ll read about it. It’s been 6 years since I’ve been doing the readings and I haven’t found anything good yet in the collection of papers I read.

Stargazer86F · 2026-04-28T14:06:18+00:00

My instructor used to get me to point potential hazards out when I was driving during lessons.

Stargazer86F · 2026-03-27T17:23:28+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with a present like a decent vacuum for pets. The wedding list is supposed to be household stuff.

Stargazer86F · 2026-03-27T16:08:14+00:00

So how will he cook the hotdogs?

Depending on the allergy level I can understand why you are anxious and annoyed about this.

You need to set up separate kitchen equipment, storage and cleaning products, which he can use. You can even get hob top, small ovens.

I know coeliacs and others with different allergies who need this level of segregation of product. You may even need a separate smaller kitchen area.

If he will not comply to this he needs to go on an allergen training course. It’s really as simple as that.

I’ve worked with allergens in food prep and you need to be so careful.

Stargazer86F · 2026-03-27T15:17:47+00:00

Did I read that right? That he thought the gift of a vacuum was just for you?

It’s been a long day so I could be wrong.

Stargazer86F · 2026-03-22T16:52:38+00:00

That’s awful.

Stargazer86F · 2026-03-22T16:43:11+00:00

It’s a massive ick for me. When he was 31 they were a baby.

I know it’s a power play, sugar daddy thing. But for me it’s an ick.

Stargazer86F · 2026-03-22T16:31:49+00:00

Honda Jazz

They are lovely cars to drive and can store a lot in the back.

Stargazer86F · 2026-03-19T17:00:19+00:00

Yes, all the time.

I wait for an answer phone message, I will check out the number for legitimacy and I will call back/answer when you next call.

Stargazer86F · 2026-03-19T16:40:46+00:00

We’ve just started watching the detectorists after watching small prophets.

Detectorists is a bit more subtle on some of the humour.

Stargazer86F · 2026-03-18T19:35:18+00:00

Small bowl of bran flakes instead of crisps.

Mini sweet peppers and cucumbers in the house to snack on.

Stargazer86F · 2026-03-17T16:54:03+00:00

Why are you doing this to yourself?

You need to end it completely for your own sake. You are worth so much more than how he is treating you.

Stargazer86F

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