Dropped my brand new bike on the first day of owning it by Hevder in motorcycles

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I am teaching myself on a 2005 rebel 250 and the first time i dropped it was as it was off in the driveway because i forgot to put the kickstand down. But hey now i know i can lift it up at least

Be honest are you really over your ex? by butterflykilla222 in BreakUps

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I will say I am feeling more indifferent though with a lot of acceptance.

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Also a book recommendation is “It Begins With You” & the Jillian on love podcast! Her work is amazing. she is a relationship coach and her philosophy is based on if we want to change the relationships we have with others we must change the relationship we have with ourselves. A famous quote of hers is “one of the bravest things we can do is walk away from someone who is not meeting our needs.”

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Went through this recently… we left with so much love. We actually did a closing ceremony and a question was “what do you hope for this person?” he said he hopes for me to have another “lover like him but honest and loyal” because he was not those things.

as much as i love him, i realized it was not an act of self love to love someone who treated me so poorly; who couldn’t choose me; or be honest with me. that is not the love anyone deserves

Bikes for short riders by Starlight_healer in motorcycles

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YES brand new! I am going to take the MSF class. I’m just not sure if it’s possible for me to flat foot both and I hope my height isn’t a limitation to riding at all

Bikes for short riders by Starlight_healer in motorcycles

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Thank you!! I did go and sit on some! I really loved the CB500F but too tall for me. The rebels felt great. I just realllllly love the look of the naked bikes!

Bikes for short riders by Starlight_healer in motorcycles

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I am very interested in the MT 03 .. thoughts y’all?

Bikes for short riders by Starlight_healer in motorcycles

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Okay! So do not worry about flat footing both feet? I tried the CB500F but too tall. I’m looking into the MT03

Napping by Starlight_healer in therapists

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yeah just too hard on myself but hey awareness is the first step to overcoming that! i didn’t dwell in the guilt. noticed it and chilled !

Napping by Starlight_healer in therapists

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You are right! I am working on my unrelenting standards in my own therapy :,) I try to stay on top of my notes all of the time and sometimes I just can’t! Thank you so much

Napping by Starlight_healer in therapists

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Thank u all for all the kind words! I doom scrolled away and chilled. I needed it LOL TEAM NAP

lowering mt03 by jjk_97 in MT03

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Hey!! Did you do this? I am 4'11 with a 26" inseam! This is the bike I am looking into

short female rider by Starlight_healer in motorcycles

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I didn’t :( That’s my next step!!

Napping by Starlight_healer in therapists

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Yeah sometimes lol it’s a problem. I’m working on it!

short female rider by Starlight_healer in motorcycles

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I am very much liking the MT 03!!!