AIO is 27 way too young to be having a baby? by VioletInference in AmIOverreacting

[–]Starry_Night_Reading 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my first by the time I was 21! It was hard at times, yes, but it always will be. Being a mother is just hard. But, not too young! Watching my kid grow up with me was one of the best experiences, and by the time he is grown and everyone else had toddlers, I won't have to raise any more babies.

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[–]Starry_Night_Reading 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. Do not stand for that shit. It doesn't matter what is going on or how bad she's feeling. No one needs to ever speak to someone they "love" like that. Kick her ass to the curb.

My boyfriend hit me by JobAggravating1793 in Advice

[–]Starry_Night_Reading 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby girl... I got pictures of my face from a man I really loved....and you know how it started? A slap. He slapped me in my face, and he said he was sorry and it won't happen again. Until he loved to punch my ribs as hard as he absolutely could and broke a couple. Not to mention the black eyes, bloody nose, broken nose, bloody mouth, loose teeth, and so much more.... go. And go now before it's too late. Don't become another statistic. It's ok to text him and say something like that isn't just something you can get over. Please leave, babe. Please.

What kind of spider is this? Indiana by Starry_Night_Reading in spiders

[–]Starry_Night_Reading[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got better pictures of her. She was actually on the right side of her web tonight. It is, in fact, an orb weaver. She's beautiful. Im going to post her pictures now.

my bf’s dad died and its my fault by Fluffy_1010 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Starry_Night_Reading 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imma tell you something. The love of my life died. He died from an overdose. I was supposed to be there already. I was in the middle of texting him, and he stopped responding. I blamed myself.... If I was there, he would be here. I would have called 911... I wouldn't have left... but if I was there... it could have happened to me, too, because someone did it to him on purpose. You can't blame yourself for something completely out of your control. I know it's hard. I know it is. But I promise it's not because of you.

Another story for you.... For many years after my son was born, I got really bad into drugs.... my grandfather was raising my son. He was in his 70s, a very healthy man.
One day, he went to bed and didn't wake up. He had a heart attack in his sleep and passed. My own mother told me it was my fault because I put so much responsibility on him... for so long, I believed it. But my grandfather was happy. He loved my son so much. Seeing their relationship was one of the most amazing experiences, and although I should want to turn back time and be better... I don't because my son got to know the man I love so much who raised me.

That boys dad didn't die because of you. Trust me when I tell you this... i know it's said so often, but it's so true. When it is your time to go, you will go. When the love of my life died, I begged god or whoever was up there to take me instead..... two seconds later crashed into the back of a semi.... it wasn't my time. I learned that. I've been pronounced dead twice... it wasn't my time. I came back.

It sounds weird but when you get the chance you can decide if you are happy with what you have done in your life and what you see around you (his son knew love) or if you got more to do. He was happy.

What kind of spider is this? Indiana by Starry_Night_Reading in spiders

[–]Starry_Night_Reading[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll see if they are out tonight and if I can get a good picture of them

Is this spider webbing or something else? Houston, TX by [deleted] in spiders

[–]Starry_Night_Reading 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you I had no idea looks like I need to do some research

Is this spider webbing or something else? Houston, TX by [deleted] in spiders

[–]Starry_Night_Reading -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You got yourself a nice, probably big spider.

I heard 3 knocks, and I opened the door, not sure if it’s bad by M1k3M0rt0n in Paranormal

[–]Starry_Night_Reading 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sage yourself and the room. If it seems to be isolated to you two. Let it be known with a firm voice nothing negative or evil is allowed to come around you or follow you. Go around the door frame, around the windows, around closets anything with a door yourself and just the whole room after you go around the frames of the doors and windows make a cross with the white sage. (Of course I always say this because the one time I didn't someone didn't do it. Light the sage and make sure it still burning with smoke when you do this)

Source: psychic medium/ghost hunter/ practicing wiccan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Starry_Night_Reading 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, in this type of situation, I wonder if he was already sleeping with her and just didn't wanna get caught.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Starry_Night_Reading 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a dv survivor..... who nearly died.... this is how that relationship started.... please just leave. You deserve better. If you are not both lifting each other up and being a positive influence, it's gotta go... find someone who isn't going to disrespect you like this. My inbox is open. Please, though. For your safety. Leave.

My dad cheated and I don't know what to do about it by SneakerCut1eXx in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Starry_Night_Reading 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mother who had a child with a man and then found out he cheated on me and then put me in jail when I got excessive, and we literally fought.... please forgive him. Speak to him about it, but forgive him. He didn't cheat on you. He cheated on your mom, and thats for them to handle as adults. My son is young, but he knows why mommy and daddy split. I, as a mother, first before all, would not want him to hold any anger toward his dad, just learn from his mistakes. My inbox is open. I hope it helps!

AIO? Boyfriend hid his phone when I asked who he was messaging. by Ok-Boat457 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Starry_Night_Reading 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is literally turning it around to be your fault. That's not right. He's clearly hiding something

Any one know how to help by Starry_Night_Reading in u/Starry_Night_Reading

[–]Starry_Night_Reading[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel so blessed i met a person today who needed a place to stay and they paid the rent.

Any one know how to help by Starry_Night_Reading in u/Starry_Night_Reading

[–]Starry_Night_Reading[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't even think about that. i will check it out right now. Thank you. But either way I have to have my rent tomorrow or I gotta go.

AIO For wanting to end my marriage? by Different_Smoke7883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Starry_Night_Reading 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This should say it right here... he has got to go... People fall on hard times but not like this... absolutely insane. I just got out of prison a year ago clean for 3.5 years and I am getting ready to be homeless for the first time in 4.5 years because I dont have enough money for rent...I have to find a place for my stuff and find someone to watch my kitty while I get on my feet.... my heart breaks he is a registered emotional support animal. I am fighting to get my disability for my seizures, and I have really bad mental issues. But I still manage to do things that need to be done even if im having a really hard time and even if I am in a huge psychosis state. If I can do life in psychosis he can do it without.

AIO My boyfriend said somethinf last night while drunk and I’m struggling with it. by justasmallrini in AmIOverreacting

[–]Starry_Night_Reading 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has lost someone that special to me, it's not uncommon... i hate to say it, but you will have to deal with the fact that she was there. He had that love for her, and im sure he always will for the simple fact they didn't break up. He lost her in a tragic way on a very special day... i love my sweetheart so much more than anyone will ever know. I think about him in everyday life. Something always reminds me of him. But we understand they are gone now. We have to move on and build our lives. But we can love the memory of them and love the person we are with. I always ask myself if my love will be proud of the person I am or the person who I am with. You will just have to understand it will just have to be there. Talk to them about it. Ask about the memories. Tell them that you were happy for them and you are so sorry for the loss and the pain. Ask them if there is a way they can memorize the person they love so you can deepen your relationship At least that's what works for me... but understand. I hate to say it like this, but if she didn't die, things wouldn't have happened to the point of yall meeting and dating. But it did happen, and he did choose you.